Yes they would because most Nigerians think there has to be a major event to cause your depression. Where are you located? Do you have access to therapists? If you are in Lagos I have one or two I can recommend. You can send me a message if you need help. You are already on the right track, knowing you need help and seeking one on a forum is good.

Watercarrier:

You know, if I ever told anybody that I'm having such a plight, they'd probably think I'm joking so I just forget that option. Some persons would probably not understand the underlying issue but I say there's a problem and it's there.

liberalchick:
Yes they would because most Nigerians think there has to be a major event to cause your depression. Where are you located? Do you have access to therapists? If you are in Lagos I have one or two I can recommend. You can send me a message if you need help. You are already on the right track, knowing you need help and seeking one on a forum is good.

Unfortunately I can't afford the services of a therapist right now plus I'm not in Lagos currently coupled with the plethora of activities I have going on right now (final year), it's just saddening. Last time I saw counselors, they couldn't do anything to help me in sorting myself out, had to read motivational books to tackle it though I wasn't feeling like this at that time. I put smiles on people's faces but I can't do anything.
Was in class this morning and my attention was not there, I was just lost and I was just eager to leave the lectures.

Abcruz:


Hear the word of the Sovereign LORD O simple one:

If only you had paid attention to my commands, your peace would have been like a river, and your well-being like the waves of the sea.--Isaiah--48:18

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” ~ Philippians 4:6-7

Nevertheless,
Submit to God and be at peace with him; in this way all will be well with you--Job 22:21

The ear that listens to the reproofs of life abides among the wise!!!

I know I need to get closer to God.

Ok. No worries, you can find lots of resources on the internet. You can also join a support online forum. I will look for some and post here later.

Watercarrier:

Unfortunately I can't afford the services of a therapist right now plus I'm not in Lagos currently coupled with the plethora of activities I have going on right now (final year), it's just saddening. Last time I saw counselors, they couldn't do anything to help me in sorting myself out, had to read motivational books to tackle it though I wasn't feeling like this at that time. I put smiles on people's faces but I can't do anything.
Was in class this morning and my attention was not there, I was just lost and I was just eager to leave the lectures.

Visit the nearest church to you on Sunday and give your life to Jesus His the one calling you, like Samuel answer Him now and find peace for your soul

liberalchick:
Ok. No worries, you can find lots of resources on the internet. You can also join a support online forum. I will look for some and post here later.

Thank you so much, I appreciate.

capnies:
Visit the nearest church to you on Sunday and give your life to Jesus His the one calling you, like Samuel answer Him now and find peace for your soul

No qualms sir, God is in control.

https://support.therapytribe.com/depression-support-group/

https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/best-depression-resources-depression-websites-2012-0118137

https://psychcentralforums.com/depression/

Forums that might help you. I am not a mental health expert neither are you so we are self diagnosing here. Please don’t replace this forum(s) with a proper diagnosis and care. However, in the meantime before you have access to a doctor/therapist, you can use the resources from the links above to help you figure out what’s wrong with you.

Hugs.

Watercarrier:

Thank you so much, I appreciate.

Hmm!!! I was once in your situation bros but God turned my mess to a message. Depression is one of the effective tools the devil uses to abort destinies. Do not succumb to it.All the best.

liberalchick:
https://support.therapytribe.com/depression-support-group/

https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/best-depression-resources-depression-websites-2012-0118137

https://psychcentralforums.com/depression/

Forums that might help you. I am not a mental health expert neither are you so we are self diagnosing here. Please don’t replace this forum(s) with a proper diagnosis and care. However, in the meantime before you have access to a doctor/therapist, you can use the resources from the links above to help you figure out what’s wrong with you.

Hugs.

God bless you, I'll survive this.

This is a phase.
Trust me, when you are closer to 30 than 20, most of what you have said here will be history.
It takes a while to find yourself, and doing something tangible with your life is part of the process.
Set small goals, and achieve them. You're in school. Find some time to pick up a skill, or start a small business that earns you reward/income.
Or look for a small job. It mustn't pay your bills in full. But you will earn something. Working and earning money will give you a sense of achievement. Gradually you will move on to bigger things.

FredasMumAndI:
This is a phase.
Trust me, when you are closer to 30 than 20, most of what you have said here will be history.
It takes a while to find yourself, and doing something tangible with your life is part of the process.
Set small goals, and achieve them. You're in school. Find some time to pick up a skill, or start a small business that earns you reward/income.
Or look for a small job. It mustn't pay your bills in full. But you will earn something. Working and earning money will give you a sense of achievement. Gradually you will move on to bigger things.

Yes boss, I hope so though I just want to focus on my studies for now, I started well and I want to well. In less than 3 months, I'll be rounding up my program.
I'm getting back on my feet gradually.

I want to thank you guys for your counsel, sorry for the disturbance. I really appreciate the admonishments. I'm grateful. Things will improve.