Divorce is undoubtedly becoming normal all over the world as it is in Nigeria. Most times we forget the impact this can have or is having on the society. Just to mention a few....
1. Divorce have negative effects on the society.
2. Divorce can lead to raising of wayward children who might later become criminals causing havoc in the society.
3. Divorce can lead to spread of diseases, as it's a tender form of prostitution (take it or leave it).
4. Divorce cause madness due to emotional breakdown. And so many others!

It is not reasonable to just hook up legally with someone and break up at slightest provocation, it's belittling the magisterial system and degrading the marital system.

For divorce to be considered for sanctioning I am proposing that our lawmakers get into the system the following and carve a bill out of it. There must be evidence of

1. Perpetual physical assaults
2. Emotional breakdown (as confirmed by a psychologist) due to maltreatment
3. Tangible evidence of adultery (like video tapes)
4. Minimum of two witnesses to the acts above

Also....
1. There should be reconciliatory period after first hearing with the court ordering each of the couple to play certain roles which should be monitored by a relative or friend of each of the couple for a period of 6 months.

2. Minor issues should not be considered enough reasons for divorce hearing. Issues like quick ejaculation, lack of financial provision, inability to cook good food, and sorts .... Should be attended to by the couple as there are available solutions to them all.

Marriage should be backed up by the judicial system in every capacity. People who are not ready to work out a great marital life will be discouraged from marrying (especially some so called celebrities)

Proved violation of marital ethics should attract maximum of 2 months jail term with permission to visit spouse once a week.

These and many more will give marital life an interesting boost and help give the society good children raised by joint efforts of the father and the mother.


You know this can be of great impact!


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