Khafi Kareem became known to viewers of big brother Naija as the girl that always went beneath the duvet with Gedoni.

Big brother already has a reputation as an Immoral show by those who claim a Moral High ground (and yet always appear to be around for the latest Big brother News), so acts of intimacy such as Kissing & "Romancing" are not uncommon. Infact, they are a given among atleast one pair of housemates in every season.
These deeds always happen "Under the duvet" away from the ever watching eyes of the camera and thus the audience.

So it should not have a surprise that another couple in the house elected to become romantically entwined.

Except for two different things...

1. This couple entered under the duvet more times than any other couple in the history of big Brother naija COMBINED!
They were at it so much that sometimes they didn't even wait for lights out to start.

2. The Female partner in the couple - Khafi - claimed she had been celibate for 8 years.
Not 1, not 2, not 3, not 6, 8 years.

The conventional definition of Celibacy is someone who has not had sex or engaged in sexual acts during that period of time.


Khafi claimed to have been celibate for 8 years but did not spend up to two weeks inside the house before she starting Kissing and going under the Duvet with Calabar man Gedoni.

Since being evicted from the house Gedoni has said that they did not have sex.
Khafi has also confirmed within the house and also outside after being evicted that they did not have sex.

Then what then, were they doing under the duvet that warranted going under it almost everyday during their time in the house and then spending considerable amounts of time under there. Some viewers claimed they heard "Moans".

Even another prominent couple in the House. Mercy & Ike do not enter under the Duvet as much as Khafi and Gedoni did.

It is clear that they engaged in some form of pre-intimacy while under the duvet. Severally.

Someone who wants to adhere to the definition of Celibacy stated above would avoid all forms of temptation. Going under the duvet with a man like Gedoni, whose tribe is known for their sexual prowess and desires, is like going into the Lion's den.

Someone that has adhered to the original definition of abstinence from all forms of sexual activity for 8 years would not be so quick to jump into the bed with a man 2 weeks after meeting him and then spend most nights in an entire month rumbling under the duvet with him.

So perhaps the definition of Celibacy is different for Khafi?

Perhaps her definition only bars actual intercourse from happening. Every other thing is allowed.

MouthAction.
Cunnilingus
Fingering. Etcetera.

All allowed.
Everything except the male sexual organ going into the female sexual organ.

Khafi has admitted to being addicted to sex in her younger days before the start of her celibacy.

The sexual drive of a sexual addict never dies, so from her activities in the Big brother house, it is clear how she has Been coping with it during her 8 years of Celibacy.

FTC