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|How to Identify the best ADVICE for You On Nairaland by ZiriMane(m): 9:43am On Sep 25, 2019|
I decided to write this post because of what Nairaland stands for, for many people. Many has taken this forum to be their place to call whenever they are in a dire situation, not realizing they may be open to various form of criticism and misleading advice or information. In as much it is a forum where we can share our problems in the hope of seeking solutions, advice or information we should be careful not to be carried away by the tide and watch out for these for the best of experiences
1. The most liked/shared comments on the topic:
Most people would support a comment that they can relate to with a like . A liked comment invariably interprets for support so the more the likes the greater the support.
2. The 'Understandability' of the advise
When you see an advise that you feel you can relate to or probably that is most supported, it is wise not to just to jump into conclusions as some of the messages may be hidden between lines. The best thing to do is to understand the message by carefully reading it to see if it actually relates and can also be applied to your situation.
3. Play it out in your head
Most advise you may get here may not necessarily be the best for you because each and every human is unique in a different way. Humans are varying in temperament, that is to say our reactions to situations may be different-what may work for a Sanguine may not work well for a Melancholic , and what may work for a Melancholic may not work well for a Choleric . Understand your temperament or the other party's own before you carry out any application of the advice you've gotten.
4. Get out of your head and live it!
Once you understand how it may turn out to be, don't sit back not carrying out. Live It! or you may just end up with regrets.
5. Write another post to thank Nairalandlers
Appreciation is key to receiving more help. A Yoruba adage says: A child that give thanks for yesterday would live to receive another. Many people post there problems looking for solutions but after they get them they leave helpers in the blue regarding the later outcome of the situation and this is very bad. If it goes well, remember to appreciate.
PS (disclaimer): not all 'most liked' is useful. Filter to what suits your "interest"
God bless Nigeria God bless our NairaLand
|Re: How to Identify the best ADVICE for You On Nairaland by ZiriMane(m): 12:27pm On Dec 30, 2019|
|Re: How to Identify the best ADVICE for You On Nairaland by Jimi24: 12:43pm On Dec 30, 2019|
Oga, you cannot pluralize the word 'advice '.
Later on in the body of the post, pls be corrected- advise is the verb and advice is noun.
There is no such word as understandability.
|Re: How to Identify the best ADVICE for You On Nairaland by ZiriMane(m): 12:02am On Dec 31, 2019|
Jimi24:Please, use your dictionary well before criticising.
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