To live a good life as a Man, you
must know how to balance
things between your Mum and
your Wife else you might land in
serious trouble.
Many people have gotten into
serious problems in their
marriage when they put their
Mother ahead of their wife.
Also, many people have also
landed in trouble when they put
their wife ahead of their mother.So Nairalanders, As A Man,Who Should You Take Care Of The Most Between Your Wife & Your Mum?

Lalasticlala

Seun

Mynd44

My kids

Your grandma.

The two should share same amount of care. And u must be diplomatic about it by not letting either of them know.
You can never trade either of them for anything.
The most important thing is striking a balance between the two. And if u want to enjoy peace let them stay farther apart and only get to see each other once in a while, and that will create a mutual respect and love between them.

nairalandposter:
Your grandma.

which of this two do you need a ban from , lalasticlala or mynd44 ?

If your wife and your mother share a bond, you will have no problem balancing both. Work towards that.

Strike a balance.

udoekere:
which of this two do you need a ban from , lalasticlala or mynd44 ?

No rule was broken, stop being sensitive.

Your topic actually should be deleted because you are meddling in what doesn't concern you.

You can tell us who you prefer among your own relatives, it's rude and intrusive to dictate to others about the same, moreso nobody owes you a dime for your opinion and neither did anybody ask for one

Ar we good? Typical Nigerian, you have opinions but others must not have any.

You were actually directing your opinion to ma granny which ain't good but still...PEACE

nairalandposter:


No rule was broken, stop being sensitive.

Your topic actually should be deleted because you are meddling in what doesn't concern you.

You can tell us who you prefer among your own relatives, it's rude and intrusive to dictate to others about the same, moreso nobody owes you a dime for your opinion and neither did anybody ask for one

Ar we good? Typical Nigerian, you have opinions but others must not have any.

udoekere:
You were actually directing your opinion to ma granny which ain't good but still...PEACE

A man's wife is ok for you to bash because?

You know her personally?

Besides, "your grandma" is not an insult. Take care of your grandma, are you not doing that or what?

You take good care of your mother as your mother and also take good care of your wife as your wife..

Don't not leave your mum without being taken care of, I don't think one needs to be told to take care of one's wife

Ariza:
If your wife and your mother share a bond, you will have no problem balancing both. Work towards that.

You're right...

Ed12:
You take good care of your mother as your mother and also take good care of your wife as your wife..

Best advice
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Op search no more

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udoekere:
To live a good life as a Man, you
must know how to balance
things between your Mum and
your Wife else you might land in
serious trouble.
Many people have gotten into
serious problems in their
marriage when they put their
Mother ahead of their wife.
Also, many people have also
landed in trouble when they put
their wife ahead of their mother.So Nairalanders, As A Man,Who Should You Take Care Of The Most Between Your Wife & Your Mum?

Lalasticlala

Seun

Mynd44

Who Else if not my Mum??,Who Wife Epp . Where the "so-called wife" when my Mom labored through her skins to train me. Them never born the girl wea go make me no take care of my Mum in a special way unless say na Indian juju.


Abeq bring up another topic jare

Nairaland always make it seem as if there are competitions between wives and mothers in law, when in reality there isn't.

Fountainofyouth:
Nairaland always make it seem as if there are competitions between wives and mothers in law, when in reality there isn't.

There can never be or would never be a Competition btw the both.


An ordinary Wife u want to compare with an extraordinary moms

lalasticlala

"A mother is a strong(in fact any word more than strong is applicable) backbone/pillar, any attack on her affect the husband"

It's a deep topic, I don't even know how to break that point, we have professor's here, a dangerous point may be misunderstood, how many quote do I reply here, <agbara mi o gbe> smile

Won't he take care of his wife too? Smile.
Hnmm

Same shi different day

udoekere:
lalas. ticlala

It's not going FP.

You should search the topic before creating it, you'd find 100's. Back to the drawing board.

Well, advise to lady if am worthy to, in yourba land, if the husband hasn't been hypnotize o, Love your mother in law. Just love, it will always get back to you in a positive way, be it now or tomorrow.

So, well explanatory enough and i said if am worthy. So don't quote me anyhow, .........or else .......ma GBE e sepe ni ....

AstroG1:
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Who Else if not my Mum??,Who Wife Epp . Where the "so-called wife" when my Mom labored through her skins to train me. Them never born the girl wea go make me no take care of my Mum in a special way unless say na Indian juju.


Abeq bring up another topic jare

Smile, is true o.
Mom really labour in fact, it is a continuous thing. Even when she's old, we have the power to accept or not all directives, but mom go day let you know say, na my advice you go listen to.....that part really got me interested in parenthood. Smile...May God richly bless our mother. Amen.

God bless a wife , a concubine and a slay mama too.{if any}


Lol!

I dislike controversy!

(Ma quote me anyhow o.....OK)

There are some people you don't have to choose between and they are your wife and mother.

Care for them the same way!!!

Fountainofyouth:
Nairaland always make it seem as if there are competitions between wives and mothers in law, when in reality there isn't.

Marry first make you know Wetin dey sup in reality?
There is always competition, ask cococandy