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| Wedding Palaver, I Need Advise My People. by Josephilemona(m): 12:06am On Oct 28, 2019 |
my name is Joseph, a struggling upcoming young man, my plan is to marry this girl of my dream traditionally for now so we can start life, but her father and stepmom insist either I choose to do church or Court wedding she isn't not coming to stay with me, she will stay with my pastor I don't really like that idea, Because I don't trust any man of God of this days since we're not even related, her family are frustrating my efforts, they insist If I don't meet their conditions I either suspend the traditional wedding, my problem is I have shared the traditional wedding card and invite my friends and family, i am devastated right now. 1 Like |
| Re: Wedding Palaver, I Need Advise My People. by yeyeosoronga: 12:22am On Oct 28, 2019 |
I'm not sure what is going on, but court wedding is the cheapest wedding ever. You dont need more than 4-10 people at the court wedding. So do your court wedding first if possible and then the traditional and she will come home with you immediately afterwards 8 Likes |
| Re: Wedding Palaver, I Need Advise My People. by Josephilemona(m): 12:41am On Oct 28, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga:. ok, but the traditional wedding is just 13days from now, and Court need 21days notice. 2 Likes |
| Re: Wedding Palaver, I Need Advise My People. by Gloriagee(f): 12:52am On Oct 28, 2019 |
She can stay with her family till the court wedding. It's only 8 days apart if you file ASAP. Josephilemona: 1 Like |
| Re: Wedding Palaver, I Need Advise My People. by Ladylite: 1:33am On Oct 28, 2019 |
Josephilemona: How come you already jumped ahead and no one gave you wise counsel. Are you sure by rushing this union you are not messing the future up? Oga stop struggling. Have over a million in savings then you will be ready. You are rushing... And God is not leading you... I wish you would hear. 1 Like |
| Re: Wedding Palaver, I Need Advise My People. by Pearl05(f): 6:59am On Oct 28, 2019 |
Court marriage is not expensive. You won't spend up to 20000. Just go and register and after 21 days you carry your wife go do the thing sharp sharp all man go to their house. Before the due that, let your woman stay in her fathers house. Your in-laws want to secure their daughter's future. 4 Likes |
| Re: Wedding Palaver, I Need Advise My People. by Richy4(m): 12:18pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Is she pregnant already? The reason why I asked was because you said. .... a struggling upcoming young man .....wedding is just 13days So any reasonable person would ask you why you were rushing as if the hood of hell were after you. No proper Planning, No preparation, zero organisation. Bros na wetin? 1 Like |
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