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How We Can Curb Sexual Immorality In Our Society / Your Untamed Sexual Desires Can Hinder Your Miracles / Your Untamed Sexual Desires Can Expose You To Great Dangers (2) (3) (4)
Help A Man Curb His Desires by TrollKiller(m): 6:23pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
I struggle with my sexual desires everyday. I avoid porn online but its almost impossible to do that offline. Everywhere I turn, I see body hugging clothes on women. Tight skirts and blouses. Call me a pervert but I can't help it. I have noticed it. Its everywhere. My eyes are uneasy to brindle. Turn it this way, I see a rump. Turn it that way, I see exposed mammary glands. I call for help because I don't like the thoughts it causes in my head |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by nlPoster: 6:30pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Why do Nigerian folks only see rumps and mammary glands but not waists or something else? If you consider the fact everybody has rump and mammary glands but not everyone has waist or something else, that should immediately narrow at least half the women attracting your gaze, if you further specify other attributes , another 25% would be ineligible for your attention, of the remainder, possibly most would not qualify due to one reason or the other. So, be more stringent with what attracts you and your problem is almost solved. 2 Likes |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by OpenYourEyes1: 6:36pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
TrollKiller: How often do you have the orge? |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by Nobody: 6:38pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
nlPoster:you are confused |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by TrollKiller(m): 6:39pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
OpenYourEyes1:everyday |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by SeedofDavid: 6:46pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
TrollKiller:whatsoever things are good, are pure, are lovely, are worthy, having virtue[housing excellence] and praise..... give yourself an obsession with such things and slowly, other things will 'pass away' 1 Like |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by OpenYourEyes1: 6:55pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
TrollKiller: Delete every female pics on your phone. Avoid eye contact with strange women. Avoid staring at female pictures especially the eyes. "They" deliberately made the eyes in the pictures to be staring at people. Avoid staring at women on social media/internet & even real world. You have to pray, read your Bible and fast every day until you are free. Whenever the urge becomes intense, send me a private message, I will be here praying for you. You have to repent bro. Believe in the word of GOD and you will be free. |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by OpenYourEyes1: 6:57pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
OpenYourEyes1: Check this out: https://www.nairaland.com/5401478/fasting-incredible-sinner https://www.nairaland.com/5457390/audio-bible-genesis-revelation |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by nlPoster: 7:23pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
For those who are struggling with lust induced by pictures of "pretty faces", especially of our Nigerian ladies online, remember you are often admiring the makeup or lighting, not the actual person who you have not seen. Keep that in mind. Also, once you know the "pretty face", you might or might not like them. 1 Like |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by TrollKiller(m): 7:41pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
OpenYourEyes1:I only have one female pic on my phone. not staring at ladies will be difficult, I roll with ladies everyday I can do the third paragraph though |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by OpenYourEyes1: 7:53pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
TrollKiller: If you really want to be free, do what I told you. Sexual sin is very dangerous, don't joke with it. |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:10pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
the bible says that if any part of your body makes you sin...cut it off, aka REMOVE IT!!! |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by kimco(m): 10:07pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
nlPoster: He is not falling inlove he is having sexual desires..that means the female anatomy is that which draws him in and not the faces. |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by kimco(m): 10:09pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
OpenYourEyes1: Hahahahahahaha! I think you should simplify this and ask the guy to be celibate. |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by kimco(m): 10:13pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Op if you have these urges then it tells you you are alive and things are working in order. Don't be ashamed of it. Embrace it. 1. Get yourself a girlfriend.(if you dont have one) 2. When not with your girlfriend, bury yourself in activities that would build your pockets and brain 3. Presented with the chance to have sex, i'd say, why not, but dont let it become an addiction...that's where number 2 comes in. 1 Like |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by MuttleyLaff: 10:14pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
TrollKiller:This is good, a good start admitting, yo have a weakness TrollKiller:Hmm, TrollKiller:You do see stunning beautiful high spec german engineered cars etcetera all around you dont you, but you dony lust after them or do you? Well, this means you need to train your psyche TrollKiller:You are not a pervert, and of course you can, if you put your mind to it, help this. TrollKiller:So? What's wrong in seeing a rump or seeing exposed mammary glands? TrollKiller:Help you will get, but explain what the thoughts are, you get in your head OpenYourEyes1: TrollKiller:What specifically are the urges you everyday have? TrollKiller:Who is this one female pic on your phone? What connection and/or relationship with this female do you have? TrollKiller:It is okay to look at something and/or someone because it's natural to do such out of admiration, especially when done because one sees such as impressive or worthy of respect, but fyi, ogling, undressing someone with one's eyes, staring at them, giving unwelcomed suggestively looks is rude. Another thing is sexual objectification, there's a thin line between admiring and loving a woman's body and totally objectifying her MrBrownJay1:TrollKiller, that statement by Jesus, that MBJ is referring to, is constructed as a hyperbole, it used extreme exaggeration to make a point and show an emphasis. If I say, I am so hungry, I can eat a whole horse. You dont really believe, I can eat a whole horse, do you but you do get from the statement, my point of how ravenously hungry I am What Jesus did, was employing hyperboles, as in, figure of speech that uses extreme exaggeration to make a point to show the seriousness of an important lesson and/or show emphasis. That is hyperbole for you, showing the seriousness of a matter and placing emphasis. It is not to be taken literally, but the advice and/or point is made and understood. Please dont consider cutting anything off ooo. Dont REMOVE IT!!!, dont remove any bits ooo. Where you want start first sef, if you're to remove anything at all, hmm? |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:59pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff: [img]https://media./images/f18a56d6b3525118bcdb19285c25f4f6/tenor.gif[/img] BWAAAAAAAAAAH i guess, any punishment for sinful acts in that said holy book should therefore be called hyperboles, abi?! as usual, xtians taking from their holy books only what fits their selfish agenda! BLOODY BUNCH OF HYPOCRITES!!!! |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by MuttleyLaff: 2:34am On Nov 07, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Good grief. St. Siehta, the flying spaghetti monster is BWAAAAAAAAAAH, looking down at you laughing and saying about you, bless your ignoranus, not well satan trained, deluded demon heart. Smh. |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by OkCornel(m): 10:32am On Nov 07, 2019 |
Hey Trollkiller, there’s definitely a solution to this. You gotta quench fire with water, not petrol. For a start, all this is a function of what your mind focuses on. If you ain’t strategic and systematic on what you focus on per time, your environment will do that for you. Do you have talents and skills you’re passionate on developing? There are a lot of fulfilling things to focus on that’ll barely give you time to dwell on sexual thoughts. Another trick the mind plays on a typical human is this...you’re easily attracted to what you don’t have (e.g. that hot shapely chick at church or work or down the street) but when you eventually get it... you despise it, or at best you’re neutral to it (e.g no matter how nice your mum or sisters dress, nothing moves you). What’s the difference? Familiarity which eventually breeds contempt or neutrality. It’s a mind trick, snap out of it. In summary; a) Fill up your mind with mentally stimulating activities that’ll develop your personality and be of help to others. That way, you’ll barely have time to dwell on sexual thoughts. b) Always know that what you find sexually attractive today will bore you eventually when familiarity sets in. So what’s the point falling for it in the first place? |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by Nobody: 11:25am On Nov 07, 2019 |
Here's an excerpt from my previous post on a similar issue. Should be useful Bro, it first depends on how important your goals are to you. Are they important enough for you to sacrifice sexual gratification. If so, then know that while it may seem hard now to focus, it will only get a million times harder if you dare attempt to satisfy your urges. Ask any disvirginised youth who's honest. Most aren't. They tease you that you're a virgin but they envy you underneath. So I'm saying don't start doing ladies, it's hard to combine achieving serious goals with that. But being a guy like you I know this is difficult/almost impractical yet very achievable with the right tips. In addition, please note if you are not working on a clearly defined, overly challenging goal that will consume all your free time, mental and physical resources, at least until you get married, you leave enough room for such distraction. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:42pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff: [img]https://media./images/7afcbc6362b53949f7b52ae0b2d9cb3e/tenor.gif[/img] |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by MuttleyLaff: 4:52pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:[img]https://s3/images/ObamaMuttley.gif[/img] What's doing this one. Na wa Oo Whats the matter with am? Who took hin bread from him nau? Somebody should hold him o. Just back to the land of the living I guess? |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:08pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
MuttleyLaff: if you have nothing to write then just be quiet instead of writing arrant rubbish online. we all know your type... hypocrite xtians who selfishly takes from their holy books "only" what fits their deluded agenda! |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by ochibuogwu5: 5:11pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
You need to have a direct encounter with the power of God's grace, love, freedom and salvation released upon each human being by the death of Jesus Christ on the Cross of Calvary when He said "It is finished" Jesus lived in this world filled with sin yet did not sin, men and women are living in this same world were you are seeing all those things and they do not sin. Ask Jesus Christ Crucified on the Cross of Calvary to *crucify your flesh with His own flesh on the Cross of Calvary* and *replace your crucified flesh with His new flesh*. Say what you mean in your heart/mind and mouth and mean what you say; He will come into you both *to will and do what pleases Him*(Phil.2:13) You will *start manifesting purity from inside your thoughts to all you see and engage in* till eternity by His Life and Grace *controlling you* You can check YouTube for Gospel messages by Gbile Akanni especially His 4-video tagged *Not I But Christ*, allow God's word to *consume you* and Jesus lifestyle will set you *completely free* Great Grace Brethren!!! |
Re: Help A Man Curb His Desires by MuttleyLaff: 5:42pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Oya because of all that komanbitmi in my aos then. Ndi ara ewu |
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