faithfull18:
@OP, you better don't follow advices given here.

No two persons are the same.

What works for A will not work for B, that's the way life is designed.

Have you asked to meet in a public place and she declined?

Let's start from there.

That she isn't visiting you doesn't mean she is double-dating as most posters are insinuating here.

osibenaezekiel:

After 3 years?

faithfull18:

Didn't see the three years part, besides the story is one-sided.

Over 90% of people only tell the world the part that favours them and makes them look like a saint.

mrwonlasewonie:
Reasons for her actions

1.she doesn't trust you
2.she thinks that you might take advantage of her and r@pe her since she's in your house (after all we've read countless stories of ladies who went to visit a male friend or boyfriend that was r@ped) and people went on a blaming spree, did he force you to go to his house?if you don't want sex why did you Go to his house,etc
3. Her friends might have warned her to be weary of you but in all you need to sit her down talk to her,let her feel safe with you and earn her trust.

She might also be going through a traumatic situation sha

MrBrownJay1:
i would advise you to STOP DATING IMMATURE CHILDISH WOMEN

Alaye you skipped the part where he said he isn't staying alone.. who knows if the babe go gas greet 10 pple for palour before she go enter go meet im guy for bedroom.. Reason am na

bukatyne:


Isn't she stupid to waste three years of her life on a guy she doesn't trust?

GrabHisBalls:
You're not her boyfriend.

sexymoma:
Alaye you skipped the part where he said he isn't staying alone.. who knows if the babe go gas greet 10 pple for palour before she go enter go meet im guy for bedroom.. Reason am na

MrBrownJay1:


even if there is a 100 peeps living there... if someone wants to see you, they will make the time to visit at least. that babe isnt interested and dont want to let him know.

ornicus:
Back in the day, guys flat mates and roomies found ways to watch their guy do the do. Sometimes with his consent, sometimes without. Today, they will not just watch, they will film and upload to SM.

Though to be honest, I get the feeling only one of them is really in this relationship.

faithfull18:
@OP, you better don't follow advices given here.

No two persons are the same.

What works for A will not work for B, that's the way life is designed.

Have you asked to meet in a public place and she declined?
Let's start from there.

That she isn't visiting you doesn't mean she is double-dating as most posters are insinuating here.

faithfull18:
@OP, you better don't follow advices given here.

No two persons are the same.

What works for A will not work for B, that's the way life is designed.

Have you asked to meet in a public place and she declined?

Let's start from there.

That she isn't visiting you doesn't mean she is double-dating as most posters are insinuating here.

akaahs:

Born that thing babe. Most people commenting are saying it out of experience. U can never be too busy for the one U love, I'm currently facing similar situation as d op. But resolve never to ask her to come my place again, this is the lady I engaged ooo. Im sure she is cheating. 99.99% sure, I will frustrate her and see how far she ll go.

akaahs:

Born that thing babe. Most people commenting are saying it out of experience. U can never be too busy for the one U love, I'm currently facing similar situation as d op. But resolve never to ask her to come my place again, this is the lady I engaged ooo. Im sure she is cheating. 99.99% sure, I will frustrate her and see how far she ll go.

akaahs:

Born that thing babe. Most people commenting are saying it out of experience. U can never be too busy for the one U love, I'm currently facing similar situation as d op. But resolve never to ask her to come my place again, this is the lady I engaged ooo. Im sure she is cheating. 99.99% sure, I will frustrate her and see how far she ll go.