Children are like arrows in the hand of a warrior and these arrows (children), should be carefully made because they are very observant.



The aims of parents is to raise good, successful, well behaved kids and to keep them safe from harm. To get this, inspiring good manners into them can not be overemphasized in the society we live in today.



However, it is widely believe that children that have good manner had been greatly trained by their parent(s) and this sometimes open ways to good things for them in the future.

1. Show them love.

We live in the society where most parents do not care about showing their children love they required. This might be caused by various things ranging from day to day stress they pass through.



While coming form your work and getting home, always greet your children with hugs and lovely expression. This would help develop their sense of love and mercy.



Over time, it will be registered in their subconscious mind to show love and respect to you and strangers.



The love will make your family to bound together and reduce the hatred and conflict within the family.



Showing them love will also make the children not to always hide things from you.

2. Don’t beat them always



Research shows that some of the children who are wayward and stubborn was as a result of too much beating by their parent(s) when they were young.



Beating your children does two things;

a) It makes them to get detached emotionally from you and in-turn be secretive towards you. Some important issues will be hided from you.



b) They will develop a tough skin towards beating.



However, instead of beating, you can deprive them of their favorite games, shows or outings just to punish and discipline them.



3. Tell them thank you



Telling your children thank you every-time they help....

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