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International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Profgenius: 6:03am On Nov 19, 2019
Were You Sexually Abused As A Child? Please Share Your Experience

Today is the International Day for the Prevention of Child Abuse. Child abuse is the maltreatment of a child physically, sexually or psychologically (emotionally). We are focusing on sexual abuse of a child.

What is child sexual abuse?

Child Sexual abuse is:
* any sexual act between an adult and a minor, or between two minors, when one exerts power over the other for sexual gratification or financial gain.

* forcing, coercing or persuading a child to engage in any type of sexual act

* non-contact acts such as exhibitionism, exposure to pornography, voyeurism, and communicating in a sexual manner by phone or internet

* exploitative use of a child in prostitution or other unlawful sexual practices

Child sexual abuse is in two categories:

* Non-touching abuses: Exhibitionism, exposure to pornography, taking photographs of children in a sexualized manner, voyeurism, communicating in a sexual way, such as through telephone or the internet, and letting down the walls of privacy so that the child watches or hears sexual acts.

* Touching abuses: Kissing, handling, MouthAction, vaginal or anal intercourse, or attempted intercourse.

IF YOU WERE SEXUALLY ABUSED AS A CHILD, PLS SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCE SO THAT OTHER YOUNG PEOPLE, PARENTS, TEACHERS, CAREGIVERS, ETC CAN BENEFIT FROM THE INFORMATION AND USE IT TO PREVENT ANY KIND OF ABUSE.

You can also share with us at TOTALCHILD CHILDREN AND TEENS NETWORK. We are a non-governmental organisation that works with children and young people to help them fulfill God’s plan and purpose for their lives. We work through service provision, informational sharing, capacity development, mentoring and participatory community development.


PLS NOTE: THE MORE PEOPLE ARE INFORMED ABOUT CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE, THE FEWER VICTIM THERE WILL BE. So share your stories inorder to create more awareness. Silence is not golden.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by majamajic(m): 6:14am On Nov 19, 2019
Op why not start from yourself , who doesn't go through that ?
u hide yours and u want others to speak up

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Profgenius: 6:25am On Nov 19, 2019
majamajic:
Op why not start from yourself , who doesn't go through that ?

u hide yours and u want others to speak up

I was not abused as a child. I am just an advocate for child right. I am a man that was fortunate not to be abused as a child. I had my own fair share of trauma growing up as a child but it was not sexual abuse. Mine was emotional and physical abuse which resulted in low self esteem that I am still battling with. Pls if you have any experience of child sexual abuse, help share. It will help to create awareness and prevent it. You might just be saving a life by sharing your own experience.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Nobody: 6:28am On Nov 19, 2019
Op you really don't want men to talk about the sexual abuse suffered in the hands of grown women. Let's just forget the stories.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by GuestLog: 6:39am On Nov 19, 2019
One Aunty use to call me "my husband" when I was around 4. She would take me in to her room and ask me to suck breast* while she sleeps.

She thinks I've forgotten about this but surprisingly, she added me on Facebook. I'm just looking at her, if she tries it now, I'll dent her kpekus!

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Thugaa: 6:52am On Nov 19, 2019
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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by blakid(m): 7:47am On Nov 19, 2019
I'm still searching for that aunty that introduced me to sex when i was 10. If i catch her now ehn, the kind vex wet i go use scatter her veejay, in her next life, she no go try that with young boys again.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Profgenius: 8:37am On Nov 19, 2019
Smartchoiice:
Op you really don't want men to talk about the sexual abuse suffered in the hands of grown women. Let's just forget the stories.

Men are encouraged to share their experience. We all want to learn. That's the essence of this thread. Pls share ur experience whether male or female

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Nobody: 9:07am On Nov 19, 2019
Profgenius:


Men are encouraged to share their experience. We all want to learn. That's the essence of this thread. Pls share ur experience whether male or female
Pervert

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by ImaIma1(f): 9:14am On Nov 19, 2019
blakid:
I'm still searching for that aunty that introduced me to sex when i was 10. If i catch her now ehn, the kind vex wet i go use scatter her veejay, in her next life, she no go try that with young boys again.


Wow!! Many ladies forming aunty and abusing young boys and scaring them for life

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Hamachi(f): 10:54am On Nov 19, 2019
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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Nobody: 11:02am On Nov 19, 2019
I'm actually the one that abused someone undecided

So terrible. It was even my younger sister embarassed

That fateful day, I don't know what came over me. embarassed She just finished pooing and she told me she's done. And I got water to wash her. That how I placed my hand on her anus and was rubbing it while pouring water on it until the poo was washed off and I stopped.

What an abuse! And the sad thing is I did that many timesembarassed

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by tstx(m): 11:51am On Nov 19, 2019
Cool
Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by PapaBaby: 11:51am On Nov 19, 2019
Tell that to senator Yerima and the rest of APC.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Nobody: 11:51am On Nov 19, 2019
Women should be made to go through numerous lectures on how to be civil and tolerent to children,98% of child abuse are all from women.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by LadySarah: 11:52am On Nov 19, 2019
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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by BarrElChapo(m): 11:52am On Nov 19, 2019
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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Nobody: 11:53am On Nov 19, 2019
OladimejiRufai:
I'm actually the one that abused someone undecided

So terrible. It was even my younger sister embarassed

That fateful day, I don't know what came over me. embarassed She just finished pooing and she told me she's done. And I got water to wash her. That how I placed my hand on her anus and was rubbing it while pouring water on it until the poo was washed off and I stopped.

What an abuse! And the sad thing is I did that many timesembarassed
Why? gringrin
Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Roon9(m): 11:53am On Nov 19, 2019
Hmmmmm....we all have stories jare.
Those our big Aunties are the worst.
I have reasons to believe that female on male is much more common than the reverse scenario.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by SocialFinance: 11:54am On Nov 19, 2019
...... and today the news about how a child abuser and sponsor of child marriage bill is dreaming to become president of Nigeria surfaced. A coincidence?


The system here is against children with raping here and there.

.........and When Yerima become president children will go extinction as they all become wife of mallsm paedophiles.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by tsfxtech(m): 11:55am On Nov 19, 2019
Nice
Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Hotzone(m): 11:55am On Nov 19, 2019
Good

Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Daviddson(m): 11:55am On Nov 19, 2019
The topic says "child abuse", so I wonder why the OP and other commenters singled out sexual part as if that's the only child abuse that exists.

How about women who turn their maids into objects of beating while they worship their own children? How about parents who give birth to 7 children and are unable to send more than 3 to school, but believe that one of the children may become a president one day? grin Sad and funny.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Riele(f): 11:57am On Nov 19, 2019
Let me share oluchi's story .

She's about 16 yrs ,staying with her distant aunt.

Whenever i go to buy fruit from her aunt's stall , i meet oluchi with fresh wounds and this particular repulsive body odour .

As her friend , i tried advicing her to atleast take her bath once a day but her reply threw me off balance .

"My aunt won't let me bath " , she said .

I pitied her but there was nothing i could do .

Funny thing is , they don't let her go to sch and she's very passionate about learning .

The last time i saw oluchi was when she was stark naked on a public road with her aunt raining abuses on her accusing her of seducing her husband .

It wasn't true ofcourse . But her aunt had to tear her clothes to put her to shame .

She was sent to stay with another aunt after enough face damage and humiliation .

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#say_no_to_child_abuse

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Roon9(m): 11:57am On Nov 19, 2019
GuestLog:
One Aunty use to call me "my husband" when I was around 4. She would take me in to her room and ask me to suck breast* while she sleeps.

She thinks I've forgotten about this but surprisingly, she added me on Facebook. I'm just looking at her, if she tries it now, I'll sent her kpekus!

They always think its forgotten shar.

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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by tellwisdom: 11:58am On Nov 19, 2019
Op, which day u don celebrate New yam festival?? Whatever this nonsense means angry
Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by FakeManna: 11:59am On Nov 19, 2019
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Daviddson:
The topic says "child abuse", so I wonder why the OP and other commenters singled out sexual part as if that's the only child abuse that exists.
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Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by hatchetman(m): 12:01pm On Nov 19, 2019
Nigeria no need 2 celebrate dis one...
2many cases with no laws
Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Nobody: 12:02pm On Nov 19, 2019
OladimejiRufai:
I'm actually the one that abused someone undecided

So terrible. It was even my younger sister embarassed

That fateful day, I don't know what came over me. embarassed She just finished pooing and she told me she's done. And I got water to wash her. That how I placed my hand on her anus and was rubbing it while pouring water on it until the poo was washed off and I stopped.

What an abuse! And the sad thing is I did that many timesembarassed
what an abused of the anus washing . grin
Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by visijo(m): 12:06pm On Nov 19, 2019
Money makes women to be humble, once you have money she be like honey you promised to beat me today.��

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