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My Friend Is Suicidal by Ramos16(m): 2:01pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Hi guys, Back in school, we called him oga, because he is more senior than all of us and we respect him, we were roommates and studied the same course. After school we did not maintain any contacts, a couple of months ago he sent me a message stating how broke he was and if I could help him with a thousand Naira, I had only 3k in my Nigerian account so I sent it to him, he reached out to me again a couple of months later asking for assist. At this time I decided to speak to a mutual friend who in my opinion is closer to him and he confirmed that "oga" has been calling and asking for money too. I went ahead to help him as I thought whatever the case may be, he must need it and that is why he resolved to begging. Fast forward to yesterday, he reached out to me with the most disturbing messages Oga: Sir George please help me pray that the lord calls me home and grant me eternal rest I was baffled by this and asked for him to clarify, and he wrote back Oga: I am tired of living, life has become an illusion to me. i prefer death, I have never imagined what i am going through right, i literally leave by begging. my landlandy took me to court, because i am oweing for more that a year. the tribunal would be coming to pack my load tomorrow We had a discussion I explained to him how taking his life is not the solution and he should exercise some patience. At this same time, I was trying to figure out how to get the money for his rent over to him. It took the whole night for the money to be transferred and by this morning he sent me a message saying Oga: Sir George good morning, i really appreciate you for all you have done for me including ur kind counsel, may God bless you. I have to end it up sir. I called him immediately and we talked and I transferred the money to him, he was grateful. I think for now we might have averted any harm that he intended on himself, but for how long? And what can I do to help him? 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by taylor89(m): 2:05pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by healthserve(m): 2:09pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Woow Ramos16 how can we help him in any way? Can I know his city/state of residence. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Ramos16(m): 2:12pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
healthserve: He is in Benue state right now |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Ramos16(m): 2:12pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
kestolove95: What kind of unreasonable person are you? |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Ramos16(m): 2:17pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
healthserve: From what he said to me, most of his problems revolve around him find a job and being able to take care of himself and hist family. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Nobody: 2:19pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Ramos16:If he has access to a laptop tell him I'm willing to teach him to be a master producer using adobe premiere cc pro. For free. In a few weeks them go dey use phone pursue am for work. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Ramos16(m): 2:24pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Shibaraba: Thanks, you are a good human being, I doubt he has a laptop but I will find out. Thank you. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by mii4u(f): 2:26pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Shibaraba:God will bless u |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by mii4u(f): 2:27pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Ramos16:She is tryn hard to be like NwaAmaikpe, unfortunately hers are so dry and foolish |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Ramos16:no wahala. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by hidhrhis(m): 2:44pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Shibaraba:bro please teach me too |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Rilley(m): 2:48pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
kestolove95:You are very foolish. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by ogashman(m): 2:55pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Shibaraba: sir i will also like to learn this. please teach me |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Jacqueline22(f): 2:57pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
mii4u:Very very foolish!! have been seeing her comments.@ op God will bless you |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by ninja4life(m): 4:05pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Ramos16:I am very sorry for the position your friend is. My advice is to try and be a friend to him. Offer a listening ear for him to talk to. Try and re assure him and if possible take him to an hospital to see a psychiatrist. It seems the root cause of his problem is unemployment, if there's any thing you can do to help him get a job, please do. If he can't get one, let him be engaged doing something he enjoys. Also you can involve friends and family who can offer him support. This is a good thing you're doing, looking out for your friend. Take care. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by NwaAmaikpe: 4:14pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
What I find disturbing is that you still call someone who supposedly lives from hand to mouth your "oga". Is it in humility or just plain ignorance? Please refrain from doing that before you find yourself in a condition worse than his. Seems you don't know the type of powers that the tongue has. Just incase you don't, ask what cunnilingus does to the soul of a broken woman. With that said. Stop helping your friend. He is only an oga at extortion. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Ramos16(m): 8:12pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe: Well, I am going to address only the last part of your statement, I would rather prefer to help him and find out he lied to me than to call bulshit on his threats and later find out he actually took his life. And if you read what I wrote you would see I stated we called him "oga" back in school days. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Ramos16(m): 8:15pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe: Also, out of curiosity, what does this statement ", ask what cunnilingus does to the soul of a broken woman" have to do with the context of this conversation |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Olivegreen(f): 9:05pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe: I'm sorry but did anyone force you to reply?? Why must you torture yourself and post such angry responses. I can only imagine how miserable you are because all you pick out from every situation is negativity. Your life is filled with so much sadness and depression that you always have enough to share in nairaland. Abeg stop spreading hate. Nigeria is already frustrating enough and we do not need people like you to remind us how dark the world can be. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Fairview1(f): 11:41am On Dec 01, 2019 |
Ramos16: Oga, are you new in town? If yes, you're welcome. This is Nwamaikpe, the king of sarcasms, pun, paradox, irony etal. Maybe with time, you will start getting used to his jokes and the likes. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Ramos16(m): 1:40pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Fairview1: Sarcasm He must be the most horrific fool ever |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Abilistic(m): 5:53pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Shibaraba: Please I have a laptop and I'm willing to learn. Been out of job please help me, I'm in Lagos. |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by BOFREJO(m): 10:29am On Dec 03, 2019 |
[s] NwaAmaikpe:[/s] Ignoble |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by MrCork: 8:56pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Jacqueline22: how much please? |
Re: My Friend Is Suicidal by Jacqueline22(f): 9:05pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
MrCork:I don’t get you |
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