Unfortunately, Some young people have been entangled in an undefined relationship.

Some people have wasted their time and efforts investing in a relationship that eventually hit the rock.

There are signs to look out for in any wrong relationship. There is no failed relationship today, that did not show these signs before they failed.

I am going to show you those signs in this blog post.

God is a loving father who does not take delight in wasting the time of His children.


He said to the Israelites to leave when they were wasting their time, staying too long at mountian Horeb.

He authoritatively told them to leave the place because they had stayed too long on that mountain (Deut 1: 6-7).

Till today, God still speaks to people to leave any relationship that can waste their time. And any friendship that is parasitic to them.

Listen now, because through me, the Holy Spirit is about to minister to you. He will show you;



How To Know You Are In A Wrong Relationship
• Relationship That Produces Frequent Conflict

Amos 3:3
[3]Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

Every relationship that is not solidly based on shared goals, beliefs and vision will continually spring up frequent conflict.

It is not possible for both parties to enjoy their friendship if there is no agreement in their basic values.

You will know that you are in a wrong relationship when it turns to a battlefield one. Don’t be surprised when your partner engages you in a physical battle.

If you do not leave this kind of relationship, you may harm yourself. A wrong association will definitely produce endless conflict.

One can easily sense the absence of love as the people involved fight ignorantly over trivial issues.

Any association that constantly produce conflict or dispute is not the best the relationship. It shows how bad such association is.

Although, two people can disagree over certain issues but they are to solve it amicably.

And this should happen once in a while. But if this is constant, and always lead to physical battle. Such friendship is awfully wrong.

• Relationship That Has Deceit As Its Hallmark

Jeremiah 17:9
[9]The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?

Anything built on deceit will not endure the test of time. There is no association or relationship that can enjoy stability with lies.

Wrong relationship will produce lies, cheating on one another and hiding under guise to dupe one another.

When there is no truth in the relationship anymore, the love that binds the people involved will plummet.

Samson was taken and dealt with by his enemies because whom he perceived to be his lover, Delilah dealt with him deceptively.

Honestly, there was no way Samson would have been handed over to his enemies.

If his lover had told Samson that she had been sent to hand him over to the Philistines.

More so, they would have fought the battle together if there was truthfulness in that friendship.

That’s the power of openness and truthfulness. Avoid any relationship that is founded on lies. It is a wrong association.

Whether you like it or not, you guys are not going to make it work like that.

When God detected deceit in Lucifer, he sent him away from His presence (Isaiah 14:12-15).

Because God knew no good will come out of their relationship once there was a deceitful thought in Lucifer.

Above all, you know a wrong relationship by the level of its deceit. Deceit is also a principal sign of parasitic friendship.


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