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God have mercy! What is this?

Yummymummy07:
I Am a single mum of 1 daughter. She is 4 years old.
Please I need your sincere advice and no insult I beg you in the name of God.

there are several states with cheap housing, relocate quickly and start afresh, best wishes

Can you please recommend any

moski5:
there are several states with cheap housing, relocate quickly and start afresh, best wishes

Hian. Op you need deliverance

Fountainofyouth:
This just gave you away, you swear on your fathers grave but your father is alive and sick as you said above, probably your real dad is dead, cos we all know you're a guy posing as whatever, you try.

babe, u sharp

OMG.I cant believe what am reading.I pray u recieve salvation

Speechless
move to a quiet state
like Kebbi osun kwara or ebonyi

Liposure:
babe, u sharp

She said her dad died in 2017

cococandy:
Statutory rape

Ok

Yummymummy07:
Can you please recommend any

You obviously need deliverance, please go to Prayer city for deliverance session and I can assure you of a speedy outcome if you can do all requisite there in truth and in spirit. God be with you!

Yummymummy07:
Can you please recommend any

in Benin you can get a mini flat from 130k to 300k depending on the area, I hear same goes for warri, asaba ibadan akure abeokuta n more, Stay safe

This is serious o

Yummymummy07:
I Am a single mum of 1 daughter. She is 4 years old. I came from a family of 4 children 3 girls and a boy and me the last born 24 years. Our parents separated when I was 9 so we stayed with our dad who later got sick paralysed from one side. Due to illnesss he didn’t have any strength controlling us and our eldest sister was like our mother but she was busy too with school and working because we were very poor.

When I was 13 she introduced her boyfriend to us, he was so nice to us and he became like our first brother he will buy me and my immediate sister clothes and take us out and me I had a great bond with him just like brother and sister and his place was just 5 mins walk to my school and that day I finish school and went to greeted him and he was watching telly inside when he served me drink and food I ate and told him I had to go home he said to me not to worry that he will drop me that was how he slept with me and it was my first time since I had friends who had already had sex and when they were telling me how sweet it is and they felt like big girls it used to makes me jealous and I wanted to try too so I didn’t felt bad that I slept with him and to me it wasn’t rape. I went home all excited even next day at school I told my friends that I had sex but didn’t tell them it was with my sister boyfriend so we continued having sex behind my sister back and he will buy me gifts he even bought me a phone my first phone ever.

They got married when I was 17 and I did abortion for him a month before the wedding then another one at 19 years and the third one was my daughter I refuse abortion and I had her at 20 years and we still sleeping together and I had 2 more abortions for him.

Now I’m pregnant again almost 5 months and he wants me to do abortion I said no because the fourth one nearly killed me he said i should keep the baby and give her to my sister since she haven’t conceived since they got married 7 years now and I have told him it’s okay but I want to stop the relationship and moved on with my life and I’m not sure if the baby belongs to him because when my immediate sister who got married 3 years ago had her first child early this year and I went helping her and I have slept with her husband 4 times so am not sure if the baby belongs to elder sister husband or immediate sister.

I’m in a big dilemma but the biggest problem is elder sister husband doesn’t want to end the relationship with me he beats me twice just because I stopped picking his calls and he is threatening killing me, our daughter and himself. I don’t want him anymore , I want to give my life to Christ and relocate far away from both my sisters and I won’t tell any of them the secrets.

Please I need your sincere advice and no insult I beg you in the name of God.

Just go and write this thing and other things you know down

Seal it with all forms of steple and celotape and gum

Give it to your elder sister to keep for you and never to open it as long as you are alive

Give your children to her and relocate to start a new life

This time around stop fucking any how, its only dogs that behaves that way

Stay away from abortions, it may take your life

I won't say stay away from men because you can't do without being bleeped

You just messed up, your parents, family, yourself and the society

Smell lies. How can your sisters not know the father of your out-of-wedlock babies?

I was 20 and already an adult and yes they both questioned me about the baby father but I made up some lies that we broke up after telling him about the pregnancy they even asked about his number or adress so they could reached him but I told them not to worry . I will take care of the child by myself and I don’t need him. Yes I am very stubborn so they had no choice than to let me be

BitCraftman:
Smell lies. How can your sisters not know the father of your out-of-wedlock babies?

Ok thanks �

frozen70:
Just go and write this thing and other things you know down

Seal it with all forms of steple and celotape and gum

Give it to your elder sister to keep for you and never to open it as long as you are alive

Give your children to her and relocate to start a new life

This time around stop fucking any how, its only dogs that behaves that way

Stay away from abortions, it may take your life

I won't say stay away from men because you can't do without being bleeped

You just messed up, your parents, family, yourself and the society

Hahahahaha i can't stop laughing i'm sorry op.

@Yummymummy07,

What you have described here does happen in real life but in your case, it doesn't look real. There are holes to be picked from your story.

Nevertheless, if there is any in similar situation, you can just say you want to give your life to Christ and move on. It doesn't work that way.

Salvation involves repentance and conversion. In the salvation process, there is what is called restitution. This type of act is not what you repent from and move on. Restitution is very important.

A genuine repentance involves making peace with those you have wronged. That being said, there is no way the truth will still not come out, either now or later. The children will ask of their father and I do know that he is dead wouldn't be enough for them to stop asking.

The kids deserve to know who their fathers are and to be involved. Someone with wisdom, insight and spiritual understanding will need to be involved to ease the likely fallout from the restitution.

You cannot find true peace without confessing what you have done to the people you offended. It is hard and difficult to do but narrow is the way that leads to eternal life. Hard way is the only way in this context.

Once you complete the restitution, you need deliverance from the curses you have attracted.

Relocation shouldn't be something that is hard as long as you have means of sustainable income.

First thing first, pls OP whether your story is true or not, kindly give your life to Jesus Christ!

Yummymummy07:
I Am a single mum of 1 daughter. She is 4 years old. I came from a family of 4 children 3 girls and a boy and me the last born 24 years. Our parents separated when I was 9 so we stayed with our dad who later got sick paralysed from one side. Due to illnesss he didn’t have any strength controlling us and our eldest sister was like our mother but she was busy too with school and working because we were very poor.

When I was 13 she introduced her boyfriend to us, he was so nice to us and he became like our first brother he will buy me and my immediate sister clothes and take us out and me I had a great bond with him just like brother and sister and his place was just 5 mins walk to my school and that day I finish school and went to greeted him and he was watching telly inside when he served me drink and food I ate and told him I had to go home he said to me not to worry that he will drop me that was how he slept with me and it was my first time since I had friends who had already had sex and when they were telling me how sweet it is and they felt like big girls it used to makes me jealous and I wanted to try too so I didn’t felt bad that I slept with him and to me it wasn’t rape. I went home all excited even next day at school I told my friends that I had sex but didn’t tell them it was with my sister boyfriend so we continued having sex behind my sister back and he will buy me gifts he even bought me a phone my first phone ever.

They got married when I was 17 and I did abortion for him a month before the wedding then another one at 19 years and the third one was my daughter I refuse abortion and I had her at 20 years and we still sleeping together and I had 2 more abortions for him.

Now I’m pregnant again almost 5 months and he wants me to do abortion I said no because the fourth one nearly killed me he said i should keep the baby and give her to my sister since she haven’t conceived since they got married 7 years now and I have told him it’s okay but I want to stop the relationship and moved on with my life and I’m not sure if the baby belongs to him because when my immediate sister who got married 3 years ago had her first child early this year and I went helping her and I have slept with her husband 4 times so am not sure if the baby belongs to elder sister husband or immediate sister.

I’m in a big dilemma but the biggest problem is elder sister husband doesn’t want to end the relationship with me he beats me twice just because I stopped picking his calls and he is threatening killing me, our daughter and himself. I don’t want him anymore , I want to give my life to Christ and relocate far away from both my sisters and I won’t tell any of them the secrets.

Please I need your sincere advice and no insult I beg you in the name of God.

Wow , right now I am speechless..

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Cmon guys she need your advice. I don't know what to say but if truly you want to relocate, I suggest you do it far away from the both of them. I can assist you financially to another city, Benin city to get an accommodation, but you need to make a decision real fast. Out of sight is out of love. If you can stay away for few months, you will get over it. Contact me via damilola.james1@gmail.com for more information about Benin city and the best and accommodating place to stay. I don't blame you at all. You were young when it all began. Stop criticizing what you have never experienced please.