Any man that is waiting to judge me by my social media posts and comments, to know if I’m ‘datable’ or ‘marriageable’ is really sitting on a long thing.
I’ll always feel free to write whatever I deem fit. I understand that compromises come to play when you’re in love with someone. But it will have nothing to do with whether we will remain in a relationship or not.

I see a lot of ladies who do not freely express themselves because a man might be watching. It’s okay if you’re doing it for you. But not because you don’t want a man to form an opinion about you.

If you don’t know that most people on social media like myself only show you what we want you to see.
Then I cannot help you.

Is this a message for someone in particular. Kindly mention him with your full chest.

Anyway, I like your articles. Balanced and straight to the point. I am surprised this topic is addressing menfolk. I thought women represented the majority of your naysayers naturally.