When things were so rosy and smooth for your husband at the early stages of your marriage, he was your baby and daddy. Years passed and things changed, maybe he loses his job, money isnt flowing heavily anymore and he cant shower you with gifts as he used to do before. You as the wife now resulted to ridicule and insults on him. No more pet names again, you now call him his name and tell him how you regret ever accepting his proposal in the first place.

Is that what a man who is going through challenges need at that moment from you? Was he like that when you both got Married? Why change over night because of challenges? Dont you know that no condition is permanent, that things will turn around again? Why did God call a woman a helper then?

When your husband is down, you pick up from where he stops. When you love a man, you will hide his shame to the world. Why make him feel worse about his situation? What is then marriage where one partner cant help another?
So your respect and loyalty for your husband ends when there is money only? Is that it?

Be careful about the behaviour you as a wife put up when your husband is struggling to bounce back to who he was before. When your husband is facing some trial times, if you cant pray, speak life into him, support and encourage him, please dont make him feel miserable with words from your mouth. Some hurtful words stick to the heart and dont leave at all. Curb your tongue. Change is constant.