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Re: Please Save A Life. by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:07pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Dumbos like you are always quick to quote me and talk about my personal life, bastarrrdd. My advice to any lady who finds herself in a toxic union is to quit, and the advice I have to give to a man is, if you are thinking of getting a new wife and your wife, disagrees and asks for divorce, give the divorce, the pain a man would feel if her wife married another husband,is the same pain a woman feels when the husband marries a second wife. Some women can cope in polygamy, some cannot, so my type would quit the marriage in peace, I would shift my joy and attention to my children, and remarry if I wish. elmagnifico411: |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Lilmisssfavvy again, the lady is the true definition of BIMBO! her Ex must have used her common sense for Yahoo+. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save A Life. by elmagnifico411(m): 1:54pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
If u had commented this way earlier, u wouldn’t have been quoted. Oya tell me, I promise not to spill, who borrow u the sense wey u take pass this last comment?? LilMissFavvy: 1 Like |
Re: Please Save A Life. by chival(f): 11:34pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
izzou:Amen. God bless you too. |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Gofwane(m): 5:13am On Feb 01, 2020 |
chival:The OP is also a murderer. He was once jailed for killing his girlfriend |
Re: Please Save A Life. by uboma(m): 4:41pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
chival: You are right! |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Raalsalghul: 5:54pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
mimimile93:Absolute thrash! 1 Like |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Ishilove: 7:19pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:Did he tie her down with a rope or lock her up in the house? What stopped her from simply walking away? Will you be saying this if Bilyaminu was your brother? I have said it before and I will keep saying it, if my brother is cheating on you, LEAVE HIM! We will deal with him in our own way, but don't touch a single strand of his hair. There is no justification for cold blooded murder. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Save A Life. by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:19pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
Is walking away the same thing as a divorce? What stopped him from giving her a divorce so that she can ''walk away''? Can a woman divorce herself without husband's approval? Atimes the evil people do turns around to hurt them. I am not justifying anything, neither is this about my family. But if I must answer your question, then know that I do not have an irresponsible brother who would disrespect his wife to pick another wife, yet refuses to give her divorce. I will train my male children properly as well. Ishilove: 1 Like |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Jman06(m): 8:50pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:She should have just left the marriage on her own. Na by force? 1 Like |
Re: Please Save A Life. by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:52pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
What if she wants to remarry? Can she remarry without a divorce? Jman06: |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Jman06(m): 8:57pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:If she had left and vehemently refused to return, I'm sure the husband would have been left with no other choice than to divorce her. |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Ishilove: 11:08pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:You're missing the point here. Is divorce automatic? You even have to be separated for at least a year before you can get a divorce legally granted. Walking away is the first step, a step which she never took. The court doesn't need 'approval' from any of the parties before granting a divorce. Once there is enough grounds for a dissolution, the union is dissolved so your argument does not hold water. Whether or not a man is irresponsible does not count here either. I don't care if the man was cheating on her, fatally stabbing him multiple times is not the solution to whatever problems they were facing, and I fully support the death penalty because I have brothers and Lord knows the world will not be big enough for me and anyone who harms them in anyway. How can you waste the life of a promising young man because he was allegedly frolicking with another woman? Your argument is baseless abeg. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Gofwane(m): 4:11am On Feb 02, 2020 |
I just can't believe how dumb that LilMissFavvy is. So if you want to go somewhere and your father says no, the next thing you do is grab a knife and stab him so that you can go? You and the OP that created this thread deserve to marry each other so that one of you can stab the other and the one that is dead along with their bereaved family won't see anything wrong with being killed 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save A Life. by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:16am On Feb 02, 2020 |
Did I say divorce is automatic? What has the time frame of divorce got to do with what I posted, the news said he REFUSED to concede when she asked for divorce, and that ''REFUSED'' was what i reacted to. Who knows the type of marriage the couple's entered into and how they can go about divorcing because different cultures have their different ways of divorcing if it was a traditional marriage. Does his religion permit marrying many wives? Did he promise her during courtship she will be his only wife? Would his infidelity be seen as a good enough reason to grant her request if she decided to go ahead with it? The answer to all of these questions is none of my business, but if the man had given a ''yes'' to her, all these would not happen, he would be alive to marry new wives. People would say ''walk away'' like it's that easy, story! Do we know if she had the capabilities to walk away,like? was she working after marriage/childbirth or did she quit her job due to marriage and childbirth as some women do? Did she have assets in his name? If he refused to give her a ''yes'' when she asked for divorce, why then should I be convinced that the would have assisted her towards her walking away? One wonders the kind of emotional wreck he turned her into, for her to stab him so badly. we are each entitled to our opinions. Ishilove: |
Re: Please Save A Life. by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:38am On Feb 02, 2020 |
Every vacuous buffon is always in a hurry to quote me, but I do not deem it fit to give everyone such attention, continue to rant. You will be ignored. Gofwane: |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Ishilove: 10:07am On Feb 02, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:Madam, they are both Muslims so he is entitled to four wives. She is also from a relatively well to do home, her mother was the former MD of Also Savings so finance is not a problem. Sharing whatever assets they had in their names would have been handled by the court as well, so that angle of your position is a dead end. Ibrahim Mohammed, a friend to Bilyaminu was present at their home hours before the murder and he testified how Maryam demanded an immediate divorce during an argument, and thereafter attempted to stab Bilyaminu with a knife, and when she was thwarted, tried with a broken bottle of groundnut, and when even that was prevented, wielded a bottle of perfume. Hours later he was called to the hospital where Bilyaminu was lying dead with a multiple stab wounds and bite marks on his belly. Madam, does the above sound like the actions of an 'emotionally wrecked' person? Will Bilyaminu, of sound mind grant an angry woman divorce in the middle of an argument? Will he not wait until she is calmer before trying to reason with her? Is that not what any logical and sane person will do? Maryam's crime is a crime of passion, and the consequences of that inflamed passion is both tragic and fatal. When you cannot control yourself when you're angry you end up doing things you regret. Madam, stop defending the indefensible and hope to God your male relatives do not end up with blood sucking tigresses as wives. Perhaps when one of them gets cut down in their prime, then you will sit down and reaccess your opinions about knives and sharp objects as tools of dispute resolution. I'm done arguing. Enjoy the rest of your Sunday. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save A Life. by jaksmillioniar: 2:46am On Feb 22, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:if I insult u u will hate urself 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Oyindidi(f): 9:18pm On Mar 16, 2020 |
jaksmillioniar:Jaks the blogger |
Re: Please Save A Life. by mimimile93: 2:57pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Happy new month my sister. Longest time. How are you coping with the outbreak? |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Oyindidi(f): 11:22am On Apr 21, 2020 |
mimimile93:We dey manage |
Re: Please Save A Life. by mimimile93: 12:21pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Oyindidi:We go dey alright |
Re: Please Save A Life. by IbrahimSkiba(f): 9:09pm On May 07, 2020 |
mimimile93: Lol the NIGERIANS should intervene for your fellow murderer abi |
Re: Please Save A Life. by Nobody: 10:12pm On May 07, 2020 |
Even if the woman was saying the truth about the divorce and infidelity, were those justifiable reasons to kill? izzou: |
Re: Please Save A Life. by jaksmillioniar: 10:51am On May 26, 2020 |
jaksmillioniar:hmm |
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