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|How Did You Handle Trust Issues With Your Spouse? by Domance: 11:46am On Jan 31, 2020|
Fellow nairanders, how did you handle trust issues with a suspicious spouse? Pls share ur experiences. I am a married man presently in that situation. I love her and never doubted her until recently when she lied to me about an issue that I have facts which I confronted her with. Ever since, I started doubting her, though I sincerely want the trust restored. Pls how can I achieve that?
|Re: How Did You Handle Trust Issues With Your Spouse? by KanwuliaExtra: 11:55am On Jan 31, 2020|
There was no trust in the first place.
Trust was never a prerequisite in any of my relationships.
If you are naive enough to “trust” ANYONE, you will definitely be dissaponted. You can NEVER rebuild trust that has been broken, since you were naive enough to trust in the first place. There is no such thing. Only for fantasists. The more you trust, the more you find reasons to mistrust.
I always expect the WORST from humans. We are all fallible. What you need is maturity, tolerance, forgiveness and understanding.
ASK KOBE BRYANT’S WIFE!
Suspicious for lying, cheating, stealing or killing? The list is endless o. Where do you begin and where do you end?
Not a realistic goal. We are all humans and prone to mistakes. Not being a pessimist. Just a realist.
Less drama and surprises. More time, energy and resources to focus on the most important things in life before you kill yourself for nothing .
I don’t even trust myself.
|Re: How Did You Handle Trust Issues With Your Spouse? by Bankowner: 11:59am On Jan 31, 2020|
If your wife has lied to you about anything you need to check yourself first. Is she seeing you as someone who cannot handle truth? You should sit your woman down and assure her that you have forgiven her but she must give you her word that however the situation or matter may be, she must tell you as it is.
Trust issues if not immediately dealt with can cause a strain in the marriage and I'm quite sure you don't need that with someone you're spending the rest of your life with.
|Re: How Did You Handle Trust Issues With Your Spouse? by NGRsenate: 12:01pm On Jan 31, 2020|
His wife lied to him about something and he should check himself?
Lol funny guy
|Re: How Did You Handle Trust Issues With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jan 31, 2020|
He's right to some extent
|Re: How Did You Handle Trust Issues With Your Spouse? by NGRsenate: 1:48pm On Jan 31, 2020|
Your wife does something wrong or bad, hides it from you, still lies to you when you confront her and it’s yourself you should check?
|Re: How Did You Handle Trust Issues With Your Spouse? by Bankowner: 2:05pm On Jan 31, 2020|
I laugh in present tense.
Whoever finds it difficult accommodating the truth gets lied to. If you are married, try once or twice to respond harshly to a bitter truth your spouse tells you. Believe me, you cannot get the truth ever again.
|Re: How Did You Handle Trust Issues With Your Spouse? by Oluneutral: 2:46pm On Jan 31, 2020|
Why did your wife have to lie to you in the first instance? How do you normally handle the truth when you're told by your wife? Are you the type that usually blow out of proportion when faced with issues, instead of proffering solutions.
Secondly, why are you suspecting your wife of infidelity?
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