My female friend that has been trying to keep her self 4 marriage was raped by robbers last week, she is in pains n i just dont know what exactly to tell her. boys n girls, men n women what woudu tell such a person? she has been a friend for about ten months now

Awww...that's such a sad,sad situation...well I guess you can encourage her

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Awww...that's such a sad,sad situation...well I guess you can encourage her

yes thats all she needs for now.and show her love also.

Word

Word ,what word!

what a shame! so she lost something precious to robbers... she should v given someone decent.

it's a very admirable thing that she was saving herself for marriage and very painful that what she held dear was taken from her by force and by someone (or people, even more painful) so so undeserving. it's a good thing you're her friend so u can encourage her. remind her that it was not her fault and just be there to help her through it but be extra careful when you're around her. female rape victims tend to be quite apprehensive of guys because of the trauma they've experienced. just be there for her and when she tells you she needs space, just give it to her but dont be too far away; be close enough so that when you see she needs you, you can show up for her on time.

best of all, pray for her that God will give her the grace and the strenght to get through this terrible ordeal. be strong.

@dejiolowe, what her u saying, was it her fault, afterall she didnt call the robber to come n rape her

oh no this is sad sad,

Like hip n others said, try to advice her, it really painful he ya, advice her. Robber for that matter. 

HIPCAR thank u so much 4 d contribution, i appreciate it so much, its verry sencible.

@queen2 i didnt say it was her fault. i was only saying give to someone deserving before it gets stolen. at least u get a THANK YOU nice F**k!

Sad story

dejiolowe:

@queen2 i didnt say it was her fault. i was only saying give to someone deserving before it gets stolen. at least u get a THANK YOU nice F**k!

Give am ideas plz.

@ dejiolowe thatz not fair, rape is in fact the worst thing to happen to a lady >
@ myname i guess there is little u can do to console her now except talk 2 her and she shld read her bible more she'll get comfort there

@truthhurts u know the truth? I am not a FAIR person.

It's a sad thing that such a thing happened to ur friend. She should be made to understand how decent she is, and that despite what happened, you still respect her and a lot of people will still respect her the more.
2ndly, She should make sure she goes for a medical test to make sure everything is alright.
Right now, I think you really have to cheer her up though it might be a  difficult task now. It could happen to anybody.
Best of luck.

For all intent and purpose, she remains a virgin, she should still guide her chastity. Pray for her that she does not conceive from that incident. Advise her to see a gyna immediately.

nuru:

For all intent and purpose, she remains a virgin, she should still guide her chastity. Pray for her that she does not conceive from that incident. Advise her to see a gyna immediately.

too bad, she aint a virgin.

quite unfortunate, she needs u more than ever now u can only help her the more by being her strenght.

Her story is a sad one.counsel her with gud words

thats so sad.. comfort her by being there the best way u can.. heard its hard to make love after being raped... thats just soo saaad.. hope she dint get pregnant

i hope she didnt too. if she got preg, pls make sure she's not rhesus negative coz if u removed the baby, she might never be able to deliver babies anymore

Its nothing that can be said and nothing we can do
To undo the past or change what they did to you
But just like the past can't change baby girl  neither can you
Stay down, stay proud and stay the beautiful you.
Your body may be battered your soul may be torn
But ill stand by you, and together we’ll weather this storm
God’s powerful and you can do all things though him
The thieves may have broken the glass but they could never take the GEM

Be a friend to her thats what she needs.  When she is ready to talk about it she will.

well, my fellow nairaland users, I sincerly appreciate ur contribution, so much that it makes me feel there is noe better place to be online but the Nairaland forum. am happy to meet the verry good and reasonable pple in this forum

[s][/s]@ dejiolowe u obviously aint a fair person and i wonder how much of this things u mean

dejiolowe:

@truthhurts u know the truth? I am not a FAIR person.

@ geocity great post can i copy it?

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Rape those robbers back!!!!!!!

mikebuddy:

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Rape those robbers back!!!!!!!

i support u. rape them till their dicks break!

Abi oh!.

where in go see dem

i didnt think about that

Well, if the lady is of mariage age and has a qualified suitor, i think she should just go ahead and settle down. The temptation to experience the show in a loving atmosphere will be very great on her. That would also douse revenge complex that may want to creep in against men, otherwise she could inadvertently turn herself to a LovePeddler.