donstan18:
The question should be......


Do Nigerian wives complain about their own relatives the way they do to their husband's relatives? NO!

Why? Because they are naturally selfish, self-centered and will always want reap where they did not sow with their relatives.

So spare us those gibberish you scribbled there and get the fvck out of here.

Validcode:
A lot of women in Nigeria don't like it when their in-laws visit for these reasons:

Nigerian in-laws often display a sense of entitlement when they come around. They start behaving as if all the things in the house belongs to the man. Even when wife is a graduate and earns more than husband.

Claim right and take things without permission.

Never want to cook or clean up after themselves.

They only come to your house for extended stays when you're better off than them. If you marry a man when he was broke and struggling, they'll start coming for extended visits when things become rosy.

Most of their visits are fact finding mission. Husband's nephew visits, give report to his mom(sister in law) , she forwards to the rest of the family. This is why many women say they don't want anyone to invade their privacy.

Please feel free to add yours.

bukatyne:


@Bold:

If we were to accept the OP at face value, how can the wives' relatives do the bold below?

donstan18:

Women only look for fault in people they hate.

99.379% of Nigerian wives hates their husband's relatives and don't like seeing them in their home.

donstan18:
The question should be......


Do Nigerian wives complain about their own relatives the way they do to their husband's relatives? NO!

Why? Because they are naturally selfish, self-centered and will always want reap where they did not sow with their relatives.

So spare us those gibberish you scribbled there and get the fvck out of here.

bukatyne:


Marry out of the 0.621% then.

All husbands' relatives are good and know their place.

Even the ones the husband couldn't stand while with them.

donstan18:

99.468% of 0.621 are non-virgins with home training, good tolerating spirit and good accommodating spirit. But I don't do non-virgin, I do virgin because they are reserved, peaceful, loyal, respectful, no sense of entitlement, not sexually wayward, well-mannered, intact womb, no shifted womb, no saggy boobs, no porridge ass, no stretchmarks, intact hymen, no sagging pussay, no big tommy, no toxicity, good cooks, hardworking, infact they are blessing to humanity.

In case you don't know, Nigerian wives don't wanna notice the goodness in some husband's relatives because they don't like them. You can't see good in someone you dislike, that's the problem they are battling.

donstan18:

99.468% of 0.621 are non-virgins with home training, good tolerating spirit and good accommodating spirit. But I don't do non-virgin, I do virgin because they are reserved, peaceful, loyal, respectful, no sense of entitlement, not sexually wayward, well-mannered, intact womb, no shifted womb, no saggy boobs, no porridge ass, no stretchmarks, intact hymen, no sagging pussay, infact they are blessing to humanity.

In case you don't know, Nigerian wives don't wanna notice the goodness in some husband's relatives because they don't like them. You can't see good in someone you dislike, that's the problem they are battling.

bukatyne:


@bold:

No lele, you are only marrying one woman. Hope you are bringing corresponding qualities to the table? Or it is only money that is not even enough as a 'Nigerian' husband?

If I remember correctly, you were the poster who wanted a virgin wife so she would be satisfied with whatever sex you give her? As in, you would not be challenged to satisfy her because you think she doesn't know better.

Are there women who do not want their husband's relatives around while they accommodate theirs? 100% Yes.

However unless you married such knowingly, It would be strange to assume your wife is always in the wrong in a fracas with your family.

donstan18:

That's my baby

Now you are talking!!

The Buka baby I know is now making sense!

Bubu'm

bukatyne:


Hehehehehehehehehehehehe!

Of course, I have said something you want to hear

I am not oblivious to the facts on ground from all fronts unlike most men who think their relatives are saints.

For all the stereotypes that the wives' relatives are calm and are protective of the marriage, I know a lady that cooked and ate it alone in her married sister's house. Sister was on a trip so little sister was with hubby.

When questioned, she said she did not like how the husband treated her sister.

Imagine such guts!

donstan18:

Imagine! So bad of her.

But trust me Buka, the sister's husband will end up not chasing her out despite the attitude she possessed. That's men for you. They naturally respect their wives relatives for peace to reign.

But women don't! That's all we are asking.
Nigerian wives should Respect and be nice to their husband's relatives. They should accommodate and stop looking for fault.

That's all.

bukatyne:


@Bold:

I laugh in Spanish!

He almost did. It took a lot of placating from the wife and he had to stop a number of privileges.

The SIL in this case crossed the line and the wife put her in her place.

Perhaps that is what women are expecting from their husbands too; be objective enough to put your family in their place when they over reach.

donstan18:

99.468% of 0.621 are non-virgins with home training, good tolerating spirit and good accommodating spirit. But I don't do non-virgin, I do virgin because they are reserved, peaceful, loyal, respectful, no sense of entitlement, not sexually wayward, well-mannered, intact womb, no shifted womb, no saggy boobs, no porridge ass, no stretchmarks, intact hymen, no sagging pussay, no big tommy, no toxicity, good cooks, hardworking, infact they are blessing to humanity.

In case you don't know, Nigerian wives don't wanna notice the goodness in some husband's relatives because they don't like them. You can't see good in someone you dislike, that's the problem they are battling.

donstan18:

No, you are wrong. That's not what women are expecting their husbands to do. They want their to stop their relatives from visiting in the of privacy.

Talking about relatives, do you know that in Nigerian homes, relatives of the wives are always comfortable and relaxed than that of the husbands?

You know why? Because Nigerian wives by default are not accommodating and this, will automatically make the husbands relatives restless in the house.