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Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by culidea: 4:39pm On Feb 09, 2020
The below caption trigger the above question.

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Froshloaded: 4:40pm On Feb 09, 2020
Your spouse and your first born grin


To use your parent is not advisable, cos they are gonna see God before you..
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Gwagone: 4:41pm On Feb 09, 2020
Siblings are the best cos
They are Jos the best
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by nlPoster: 5:18pm On Feb 09, 2020
This is why a pastor was advised to fire his secretary, it was so people's personal files do not end up on twitter.

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by neonly: 5:22pm On Feb 09, 2020
I dey crase

Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Ahmed0336(m): 5:31pm On Feb 09, 2020
Life....


Never trust anything that can bleed for days without dying undecided

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Amanee(f): 6:18pm On Feb 09, 2020
Where did she get her statistics from?


Uncertified and unverified information that someone is using as yardstick and making blanket statements just to cause an uproar


Next of Kin are usually people that you think will be alive when you are no more...it's the prayer of good parents that their children would outlive them, so if people decide to put their kids as next of Kin, its just common sense

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Pavore9: 6:51pm On Feb 09, 2020
Ahmed0336:
Life....


Never trust anything that can bleed for days without dying undecided

Without that bleeding you won't have been conceived and born, your being a son, brother, father and uncle is tied to that bleeding.

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by LordKO(m): 7:16pm On Feb 09, 2020
The reason isn't far-fetched; an average woman and cynicism are inseparable. Unfortunately, cynicism is a manifestation of disingenuousness in particular and egoism in general - nonetheless, it isn't exclusive to the female gender.

I doff my hat for the very few conscientious and/or altruistic women out there.

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Ahmed0336(m): 7:45pm On Feb 09, 2020
Pavore9:


Without that bleeding you won't have been conceived and born, your being a son, brother, father and uncle is tied to that bleeding.
Really you dis Kenyatta undecided
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Pavore9: 8:47pm On Feb 09, 2020
Ahmed0336:

Really you dis Kenyatta undecided

That's is everyone's reality which you are not excluded from

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Alooone: 9:27pm On Feb 09, 2020
Reverse is even the case
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Feb 09, 2020
Women don't want their husband's next wife to eat out of the inheritance when they die so they write their siblings or parents as next of kin. Men don't want their children to suffer so they write their children's mothers as next of kin.

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by culidea: 10:00pm On Feb 09, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
Women don't want their husband's next wife to eat out of the inheritance when they die so they write their siblings or parents as next of kin. Men don't want their children to suffer so they write their children's mothers as next of kin.

Na soo oo... ..

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by buchi4action(m): 8:53pm On Aug 22, 2021
@Lalastica

Front page please
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by greenie77: 9:02pm On Aug 22, 2021
Ahmed0336:
Life....


Never trust anything that can bleed for days without dying undecided

Like someone posted earlier, without that bleeding you wouldn't have been born and without that bleeding you won't be a father nor an uncle, that bleeding is tied to the continuity of LIFE....Appreciate it! cheesy

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by ImaIma1(f): 9:27pm On Aug 22, 2021
Well...my husband is my NOK, Emergency contact, etc. I think that's how it should be.

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Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Pacesetter2021: 9:55pm On Aug 22, 2021
Actually, most times the man passes on before the woman firstly because he is usually older so if you go by that, a younger person shld be the nok
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Caramia2020(m): 4:17am On Aug 23, 2021
Reality
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by MufasaLion: 7:18am On Aug 23, 2021
I'm the only child, so I'm using my dad. And so shall it be till the unfortunate happens.
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by MufasaLion: 7:19am On Aug 23, 2021
Women don't want their husband's next wife to eat out of the inheritance when they die so they write their siblings or parents as next of kin. Men don't want their children to suffer so they write their children's mothers as next of kin.

You nailed it!
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by VTJN(m): 8:56am On Aug 23, 2021
Ahmed0336:
Life....


Never trust anything that can bleed for days without dying undecided
Appreciate that bleeding ; smiley
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by SirMichael1: 9:07am On Aug 23, 2021
Pavore9:


Without that bleeding you won't have been conceived and born, your being a son, brother, father and uncle is tied to that bleeding.

Lieeeees!
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by hidee20(m): 9:22am On Aug 23, 2021
Amanee:
Where did she get her statistics from?


Uncertified and unverified information that someone is using as yardstick and making blanket statements just to cause an uproar


Next of Kin are usually people that you think will be alive when you are no more...it's the prayer of good parents that their children would outlive them, so if people decide to put their kids as next of Kin, its just common sense

That's were most African get it wrong, next of kin shouldn't be the person you think will outlive you rather the person you are sure that can manage that resources ( properties or money) the way you would have or liked. The person you trust to do what's right ( your intentions) with the resources at their disposal.

Next of kin is for unforeseen circumstances ( sudden death), if not we should be writing our will on our death bed at old age.
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by MufasaLion: 2:23pm On Aug 23, 2021
hidee20:


That's were most African get it wrong, next of kin shouldn't be the person you think will outlive you rather the person you are sure that can manage that resources ( properties or money) the way you would have or liked. The person you trust to do what's right ( your intentions) with the resources at their disposal.

Next of kin is for unforeseen circumstances ( sudden death), if not we should be writing our will on our death bed at old age.

Exactly!
Re: Next Of Kin: Women Use Their Siblings While Men Use Their Spouses.Why? by Lostchild(m): 2:47pm On Aug 23, 2021
Because women are naturally selfish

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