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Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by midnighter(f): 6:06pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Go to an addiction treatment centre and seek step-wise advice. Drug addicts can become violent and irrational If it were just weed I wouldn't be saying this, but crystal meth is just another thing. You'd better go and meet a trained addiction counsellor And since you gym, why not take him with you some days? It seems that he is just directionless upon the loss of his job and needs a new focus or interest 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by midnighter(f): 6:11pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
whizzy2good: If he were normal, he would have asked for OPs permission before starting to smoke weed indoors in the first place, since he's in somebody else's house. The babe is not hyping anything, that guy is gone already |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by JahBwoy: 6:13pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
@JJAbrams Best advice here If you don't want to see him around just send him out. But bringing this issue here means that you are actually concerned and want to help him. Bro the best advice, tell him to stick to the weed. Telling him not smoke anything is Politically correct but not feasible. Since you are not into Psychoactive activities you would probably not understand. There is nothing wrong with weed if it helps him cope . He was able to get a Job before and I feel he just need to get busy once more. Idle brain is setting in. For now stick to the weed |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by JahBwoy: 6:15pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
midnighter: Sense dey yah head so? Which of the social vice did you take permission for before committing? Or you are among the Holier than thou? 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by midnighter(f): 6:25pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
JahBwoy: I just understood what you meant, I've modified |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by Olas16198901: 6:35pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
You don't want to loose him, and is very certain that he will loose you to avoid trouble tell his parents before it gets worse 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by ZooOga: 6:36pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Simple Op, extract him from your life immediately for your peace of mind. I have sent two grandnephews packing from my home rapidly for deviant behavior after agreeing to take them in and help get their lives on course, and cut off a first cousin and anoda nephew(my blood sister's son for b.s. Some family will drag you down in the mud with them if you allow it. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by Lamanii22(f): 6:46pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by TheSourcerer: 6:48pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
nehiz:ah well done lol |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by TheSourcerer: 6:50pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Zuluhead:FU |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by TheSourcerer: 6:55pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Zuluhead:hmm true .how do you know these stuff |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by West2019(m): 6:59pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
ask him to be drinking 20 cups of water every 3 hours for 2 weeks you will thank me later |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by JahBwoy: 7:07pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by jnoz23(m): 7:16pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
JJAbrams: Tales by moonlight, bros! We know say e no happen!!!
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Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by beejay501: 7:18pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Bro na Methamphetamine your cousin day blow so o street names are Ice,Level,white,block and so on, won't lie I used blow too, I had a perfectly constructed bunker for it. But now I just do weed. Its addictive but you can help him stop if he's not heavily into it yet, but I doubt he's an addict yet if not you for don find out through him Rapid weight lost and his look do not report him to his parent YET just talk to him first. @Op you said he sleeps deeply. Bro if your cousin day take ice he no go fit sleep oo. In fact he will hardly sleep . Like someone said up there EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by LyfeJennings(m): 7:36pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
JJAbrams: U have a big problem at hand Ahhhhh Na big problem o |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by CanadaOrBust: 7:40pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: It can be quite effective, applied at the RIGHT MOMENT. You’d see 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by pyro62(m): 7:43pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Say no to drugs peeps. We only high on weed and water |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by implementing: 7:51pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
nehiz:I even started wondering when meth entered niaja , the dealers won't make much gain cos in our currency its damn expensive, like around 5k for one smoke, I believe he's using the pipe for weed rather (since neighbors complained of weed smell) or crack cocaine which can be easily manufactured and resold cos its addictive, but crack is not common here too, it's just trash weed that everyone is smoking |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by pyro62(m): 7:52pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Mrpsly247: Reporting an adult to his parents is a really bitchy and snitchy approach. Him fit vex break the guy head sef.. It's best they both have a private discussion, or he ask him to leave his house gently after advising him. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by Lexusgs430: 7:54pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: How easy is it to open another account?.... |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by CanadaOrBust: 7:57pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: When u r in the middle of a heated discussion, ban! 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by Nobody: 8:06pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
pyro62:i am the type to throw away the baby and the bad water... i'm intollerant as Bleep, cos i know the heart of man is desperately wickett.. me telling the parents has little to do with getting him the required help, But more of getting me out of a burning house... everyman is responsible for his own backpack, if him gather extra load na to help am put am 4 im own head... i have seen pple break under the weight of another man's problem to know how to set my boundary 4 when people are being stupid. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by implementing: 8:07pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
JJAbrams:it's not meth bro its weed cos meth is not in Nigeria and if it only rich people can afford it, meth keeps you awake for days, you need to Google to guide you instead of ranting on this forum, its weed he's using that pipe to smoke, you can see the tar clearly, weed is harmless so might be using it to get over depression |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by Lexusgs430: 8:19pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: Am I getting paid for the heated discussion? 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by midnighter(f): 8:21pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
JahBwoy: And you too sir |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by Nobody: 8:26pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
midnighter: Okay madam. I am not fighting with you. Why should my opinion bother you. But I know this life nobody holy pass. I don’t smoke weed but I have friends that do. If you want to send him away do that on a normal ground and not because your girl discover that shit. I know women Dey like snooping around and just catch him red handed and talk to him before thinking of decision to send him away . Believe me 80% of Nigerians smoke weed. Even the top politicians but most people know how to hide it. Even cigarettes is legal. Weed is legal in many advance county. He should just take it easy and look at the situation like a man. Forget that your babe wey dey over hype the situation. Even Nigeria forces,military Dey smoke weed. As long as no be ritual, kidnapping, yahoo or other shit. For this try and talk to him he is your family and you know what is going on with him. Men Dey over reason when no get money. Find work for am and tell am to do am, even if no be big money and if he doesn’t leave that life style den you can chase him away. Believe me family Dey important and you alone can’t live in 3 bedroom boredom go kill you, treat family like family every time if na your son or brother you no fit pursue am for your house. If you get that nigga a job believe me those things will reduce him go Dey do am before them pursue am for work. That shit na bong for weed all you can tell him is to smoke outside the house. Believe me if you send that guy parking out of your house he won’t forgive you forever, na your family and that girl can leave you anytime and for him mind e go Dey think say na because of that girl. Try and do your best and talk to him 2 or 3 times then after that do whatever you want. Believe me man. But you are a man and you can do whatever you want. No body know you here but that nigga is your blood and you grow up together. Try your best for him but at the same time don’t displease yourself to please him. But family will remain forever you can’t change or remove them out of your life. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by Nobody: 8:35pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Everyone is just being Judgemental.At 24 He's only doing what boys that age normally do, He's smoking joint,like nearly every other lad his age be it rich or broke.Any Biggie?!The weed can go with some Charlie or Pot common with most Igbo smokers.I think,If u have a problem with him smoking just talk to Him Man to Man.He's still under your roof don't bring that ur gf said it's Crystal Meth Crap coz that's the bone of contention here.Only Junkies do those drugs and He's not so rich to maintain that kind of Wild Life. |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by CanadaOrBust: 8:37pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: U r not getting paid for most things u enjoy or are invested in 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by midnighter(f): 8:40pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
whizzy2good: I'm not fighting you either but understand this: is it the woman's fault the guy is keeping crack pipe in his room You need to separate the fact that it's the woman who told him the name of the stuff from the fact that it was already in his room in the first place. You can't disregard a piece of information just because a woman revealed it; that doesn't make sense. And you also need to separate the issue of smoking weed from that of smoking weed in somebody's house without their consent. All this stuff you wrote here is fine as long as you are in your house or in the house of somebody who flows with that lifestyle. Somebody can't accommodate you at your low point and you pay the person back by burning herb without even informing them, as in he had to find out from his neighbour, how embarrassing. The cousin doesn't have a respect at all. If he can do that one, what else can he do Aside from that, it's up to him if he chooses to throw his cousin out; like I said I think he can take him to an addiction centre and be spending time trying to bring him back to normal, if that doesn't work he will have to take it further. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Is Addicted To Weed, Drugs by Nobody: 9:01pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
midnighter: Okay ma. 1 Like 2 Shares |
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