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Live A Life Of Giving by MANNABBQGRILLS: 8:35pm On Feb 10, 2020
A woman died recently.
She was a widow.
She also had no child.
She died in her late 50s.
She has been buried.

When the family went to clean her property, they were amazed.
She was a hoarder.
The type you watch on American and British reality shows.
She had stuffs filling her apartment.
Piles of new materials.
Piles of expired food products.
Piles of gifts and souvenirs dating 10 years.
6 television sets.
5 new freezers.
4 new generating sets.
New gas cookers.
Kerosine stoves of the 80s.
All new.
Expired vegetable oil.
Decaying bags of rice.
And so forth.
There was no sitting space in a 4 bedroom apartment.
Littered with junk.

Plenty of stuff was thrown away.
Many shared by family members who had no clue on how she lived.
I am certain she has a decent amount in the bank.
She was prudent.
Almost much too prudent. Bordering on...

Many of us are like her.
We can’t give away stuff that we do not need.
We pile “junk” that might be useful to another.
We have clothes in wardrobes all over.
We hoard everything we own. Lace of 92, gele of 88.

Many even hoard love and praise.
They hoard affection.
No one is deserving of love.
No one is deserving of help.
When they lose one they love, they cry, because they hoarded words of affection and more.

Life is meant to be lived.
That we will die is certain.
The uncertainty is when and how.
The wise one lives everyday as the last.

This is not to be read as encouraging wastage.
Or failing to save for tomorrow.
Empty your barns regularly to the needy so you also can have new.

At the end, the only thing you take with you, is how well you impacted the lives of others and your relationship with God, Nourish that..........


To whom it may concern......

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by MANNABBQGRILLS: 9:06pm On Feb 10, 2020
Take Note : This thread is only for reasonable, sensible and good people.
Not for pessimistic souls.

#PositiveVibesOnly

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by Biofil84(m): 10:23pm On Feb 10, 2020
Certainly true about the giving aspect, some people are just too tight fisted even to thier blood relatives same father same mother and that just pisses me up.

Nice one though .

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by budaatum: 10:24pm On Feb 10, 2020
post=86543950:
Take Note : This thread is only for reasonable, sensible and good people.
Not for pessimistic souls.

#PositiveVibesOnly
Not for pessimistic dead souls


Please note!

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:26pm On Feb 10, 2020
budaatum:

Not for pessimistic dead souls


Please note!
Noted!
Thank you High Chief Budaatum! cheesy

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by Lamanii22(f): 10:30pm On Feb 10, 2020
Biofil84:
Certainly true about the giving aspect, some people are just too tight fisted even to thier blood relatives same father same mother and that just pisses me up.

Nice one though .


You can't blame some.. Money ritual might be the cause... Some Ogun owo will require that you be stingy...
Re: Live A Life Of Giving by Froshloaded: 10:31pm On Feb 10, 2020
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Lamanii22:



You can't blame some.. Money ritual might be the cause... Some Ogun owo will require that you be stingy...
You are absolutely right...
I have a man in my street, he can't spend on his self and he is fucking rich ..
Who does that

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by Lamanii22(f): 10:43pm On Feb 10, 2020
Froshloaded:
grin

You are absolutely right...
I have a man in my street, he can't spend on his self and he is fucking rich ..
Who does that


Imagine oo... It is the level of his ritual... God forbid it! I'd rather keep hustling...

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by Froshloaded: 10:45pm On Feb 10, 2020
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Lamanii22:



Imagine oo... It is the level of his ritual... God forbid it! I'd rather keep hustling...
Abi..
What's the essence of having money that I can't spend...
May God bless our hustles ijn

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by Lamanii22(f): 10:53pm On Feb 10, 2020
Froshloaded:
grin
Abi..
What's the essence of having money that I can't spend...
May God bless our hustles ijn


Amin jesu

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by 1stHooligan(m): 3:16am On Feb 11, 2020
Nice one Mr bbq at least you made a sensible post today

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Re: Live A Life Of Giving by 1stHooligan(m): 3:19am On Feb 11, 2020
Lamanii22:
. Some Ogun owo will require that you be stingy...
I thought it has been proven beyond doubt; this is 2020, there is no such thing as Ogun Owo and Nollywood has no true reflection of reality.
Re: Live A Life Of Giving by Lamanii22(f): 6:42am On Feb 11, 2020
1stHooligan:

I thought it has been proven beyond doubt; this is 2020, there is no such thing as Ogun Owo and Nollywood has no true reflection of reality.


There still is... Maybe not common.. But people still do ajo owo and Ogun owo...

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