i met this lady early this year, where we were to do some things. I noticed her and later I met her and we talked. though I noticed this high female ego in her but I didnt take it seriously, I figured since she was just meeting me, she should still put up attitude. later on I collected her number and we began chatting. though I told her my interest in her, and she was like we should get to know each other better since I only met her once. so the day finally came that we were to meet. I had to get a clean shave and cut my hair as usual to look nice. then we met, though it was a program, because we are undergoing a program that would bring us together once in while. so we planned and used that opportunity to meet. after I got there I called her and I noticed that she said she was somewhere, and describing the place to me. then I told her I was standing outside. though I could see where she was, but I wanted her to leave that place and come out. so she took a while to come out. then as she was coming out, I waved at her to see me, she saw my wave but didn't react. wow!! I was a bit shocked sha, but I kept my cool, then she came over and then we talked a little, the conversation was just building about 3 minutes, then surprisingly, she said she wants to go and sit down back where she came from. I was a bit shocked, because most of our chat was based on our meeting, that we were to talk. then after she said she wanted to go back and sit down with her people, she just turned and moved. so for it not to look like she left me standing I quickly turned too and moved in the opposite direction.
later after we got back to our various destination, I chatted her and asked her why she left that we had not spoken at all, and all we needed to say was was for that meeting. she just replied in a cold manner, like it was nothing. though I stopped chatting her, I just wanted to clear my conscience. because I really took her seriously, but I was totally mesmerized by her action.

Is she the shy type ? What I observed was maybe she is the shy type cos I’m like that most times in public. After chatting up and down , I will act very different live.

Well still get to know her better dear... give her more time to be comfortable with you and the relationship. Some people are kinda very uptight .

Ginaz:
Is she the shy type ? What I observed was maybe she is the shy type cos I’m like that most times in public. After chatting up and down , I will act very different live.

Well still get to know her better dear... give her more time to be comfortable with you and the relationship. Some people are kinda very uptight .

well, reading lady's perspective I will not jump into conclusions yet. I stopped chatting her since last week. and I just asked her about something on Sunday about church. though she responded with straight answers and I stopped the conversation. then later yesterday she commented on my WhatsApp status. we just chatted casually.

Hahahaha

If you had posted this on romance section, those frustrated boys would have bashed your slim ego with insults.

My advice....

Calm down, take a deep breath and clear your mind. You can choose to delete or keep her number. But whatever you choose to do, never call her again.. B!tch is not interested.

I don't know how mature she is but I think she's currently in a relationship with one boy. By the time he's done fvcking the witches out of her, she'll remember the guy she walked out on at a program.


Last last, you go take her back

She is not into you. Move on.

Kenoxman:
She is not into you. Move on.

You know her right and you are in her mind

faithfull18:

You know her right and you are in her mind

So u are the one ehn...? Good u showed up.

Kenoxman:
So u are the one ehn...? Good u showed up.

In your mind abi

faithfull18:

In your mind abi

Nairaland is not faceless afterall. We have had cases like this before...may be this might just be another one.

She's not feeling you as much as you're feeling her, and that's okay.
Just make sure you don't continue calling and chatting her unless it's absolutely necessary, and when that happens, remember to always keep it casual.

If you're the kind of guy who knows how to be smart with wordplay, you can always drop a few lines that ignite her sexuality without looking like you're trying too hard.
However, I don't usually advise moves like this because it's a very thin line. You either have to be really intelligent with words and it will make her blush, or you are really bad at it and you end up looking like a dork.

She's not attracted to you or she's the shy type. Don't go about dropping sexual-like wordplay, some women are turned off by those. Play it cool, keep communicating with her, respectifully. If she remains uninterested, move on.

though I am a person that doesn't really run after girls. I will just keep things cool.i stopped chatting her since last week. and I just asked her about something on Sunday about church. though she responded with straight answers and I stopped the conversation. then later yesterday she commented on my WhatsApp status. we just chatted casually.

Ginaz:
Is she the shy type ? What I observed was maybe she is the shy type cos I’m like that most times in public. After chatting up and down , I will act very different live.

Well still get to know her better dear... give her more time to be comfortable with you and the relationship. Some people are kinda very uptight .

It is very straight
She is shy, I think