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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by collinsmcmorgan(m): 9:31am On Feb 15, 2020
Well, this case is not for the singles.

Let the married couples here help the man.
He needs our help whether is fiction or not.
Let's just share our experience on how to help a brother, maybe someone is dying in silent or having the same problem.
Thank you

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by iLegendd(m): 9:32am On Feb 15, 2020
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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by galadima77(m): 9:34am On Feb 15, 2020
Omar09:


What op should do is continue knacking his wife's bestie, without remorse or fear. When problem come out divorce her or she divorces you then marry that her bestie. It's simple.

Save for those who really need salvation, some ideas outta remain unsaid amongst like minds!

Thumbs up!
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by kuverah(f): 9:34am On Feb 15, 2020
Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.
. Report the issue to her family and don't forget to confess the adultery part to them also. By so doing, you have peace of mind and the issue will be rectified
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Omar09(m): 9:38am On Feb 15, 2020
galadima77:


Save for those who really need salvation, some ideas outta remain unsaid amongst like minds!

Thumbs up!

Abi. They no want saving. I see how they reject salvation and yet cry foul. They are beginning to behave like women who will have the solution to their problems and not use it but will cry foul when it hurts them causes more damages. I think the role are being exchanged between both gender. And it's bad.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Pennykeyz(m): 9:43am On Feb 15, 2020
Ladylite:
Ha missimelda01 come and epp us on this if you are not too busy with your boo

You have entered valentine trap. Soon you will be having threesomes.

If you want it to stop. Bring a man to your house and call him your bestie... So the both of them can hook up and leave you alone. Then you and your wife can gracefully send them out by helping them gather some fund and get them their own accommodation FAR FAR away from your place.


Your wife really wants a threesomeeee without saying it verbally so she won't look like a sluttttyyy chic that she actually is. Ensure you get a male counterpart o.

FYI your wife is secretly cheating on you....

Get a bug on phone and hidden CCTV in the house. You will discover lesbiaan activities.

I wish you knew this before the marriage. Many lesbiaansss allow themselves marry and hang out to commit their heinous lewd acts under such guise because as long as it's same sex their husbands can't suspect a thing.


I hope when the both women get pregnant for you, you can shoulder it.


This matter will END once you inform family. But I know since you are enjoying it, you won't do it.






Omo madd oo... You have said it all
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by jamesfadairo(m): 9:45am On Feb 15, 2020
krissconnect:

Are you not mad? Answer honestly

I am not
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by causimalbarka(m): 9:51am On Feb 15, 2020
Bros!!
I'm not the poster oooo, though I'm also married, I love ur point....
I learnt a lot from it..

A man need to be man...



iLegendd:
You're complaining too much. I guess you're a pastor-to-be. Also, you act like a weak man because of the statement, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it."

Real men want issues while their wives pray for no issues. A relationship where the man does not want issues hardly last. It's more like saying, "I'm afraid of my wife because she is the boss."

I have told men countless times to learn 3 skills, else their marriages or relationships will NEVER last and those skills are

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

You probably have skill 2 and 3, but lack skill 1. They are playing a game and I know the game. Go learn about women and psychology.

When your wife's best friend gets married, your wife will 100% sleep with her friend's husband whether you like it or not. The swinging has already started. They may not even be bisexual or lesbians, but swingers. Though, they exhibited the "bi" attributes.

Modified:

Extra info: I didn't want to say this because it will make you depressed, but I'll reveal it. Your wife is 100% currently sleeping with another man.

That person is probably her ex and he is so great in bed, but as a bad boy, that young man refused to commit, so she dumped him and got married to you before she hits menopause.

She has been cheating with him, but she felt she has betrayed you, so she used her friend to set you up to equalize the cheat.

Now, she no longer feels remorseful. She is so happy the equation is equal. She can now sleep with that young man or those young men day and night without feeling like a LovePeddler or a cheat.

Afterall, she'll say to herself, "I have been with these men and slept with them countless times before I met you. Moreover, you too slept with my friend, so no biggie."

Your wife gained 3 things

1. She is no longer feeling remorseful
2. She is still having the best sex of her life behind your back as she has been having before meeting you
3. If you catch her and accuse her, she will tell you the story of how you first cheated on her with her best friend and paint you as an unfaithful husband

Note: Her best friend has already told her even though they are both acting as if they didn't know what happened. It's all staged. Best friends reveal things to each other they can't even reveal to their parents or spouses. The bond between besties is unexplainable — especially the ones I like to call 'partners-in-crime.'

Women love different sweet dicks and your woman now has the privilege to get as many as she wants without remorse. Why? You did it too and she knows you'll still do it again and again.

She now has the belief that, "For my husband to cheat with my best friend and think I don't know, he can actually cheat with other women, especially his ex, so why shouldn't I cheat with my ex too? After all, if you do me I do you, man no go vex."

Final Tip: Just watch how happier your wife will be nowadays because a huge burden has been lifted off her shoulder. It's just like someone who accidentally killed another woman's child and out of fear, hurriedly buried the child. She will be restless while pretending to be happy — as she silently prays for no one to ever find out. All of a sudden, she woke from sleep and realized it was just a dream.

Do you know how relieved she will feel? That is exactly how your wife is feeling. She believes she can happily fly now like a free bird.

Las las, if yawa gas, she go say na you start am, but truly, she is the one who started the cheating and confided with her partner-in-crime, best friend, to switch the game and make you look like the bad person.

Truly, you are finally the bad person because you weren't man enough to control your marriage and who comes in or how many days a visitor is allowed to stay. That statement you made above is still making me angry. How can a real man say, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it?"


Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Kakamorufu(m): 10:26am On Feb 15, 2020
make sure the friend leaves the house..

and keep ur mouf shut angry
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Chin168: 10:26am On Feb 15, 2020
hmmmm.....Seriously
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Martinez39s(m): 11:19am On Feb 15, 2020
galadima77:


"Alpha fvcks, Beta bucks" is still fresh!

Thanks man! ilegendd

To the OP, you just have be weak to be played.

Cc: Martinez39s, Ubunja, Omar09, Kennedyiheme02, AstroG
When it comes to redpill on game, I don't know anybody more knowledgeable and shrewd than iLegendd, Ubunja, and HARDDON. As you can see from his reply, iLegendd is criminally underrated here because he doesn't release his stuff for free. Ubunja and HARDDON have released for free and have helped many. The little redpill you release on nairaland will go a long way in helping some silent members and individuals that even visit here as guests. I remember a particular Sunday when a lot of topics were released in appreciation and praise of Ubunja and it angered a certain MariaLavina who campaigned with lies and appealed to Seun and the mods to ban the redpill men and their posts. It backfired as her posts and topics were obliterated and she DEACTIVATED out of frustration. grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by dude99(m): 11:44am On Feb 15, 2020
MickzyDonald:
Please what's the title of this movie because they showed it on African magic Yoruba but i wasn't paying attention to it because i didn't like Yoruba movie's

You're right! The ladies who brought the "supposed friend" is busty right?
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by mousco(m): 11:47am On Feb 15, 2020
iLegendd:
You're complaining too much. I guess you're a pastor-to-be. Also, you act like a weak man because of the statement, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it."

Real men want issues while their wives pray for no issues. A relationship where the man does not want issues hardly last. It's more like saying, "I'm afraid of my wife because she is the boss."

I have told men countless times to learn 3 skills, else their marriages or relationships will NEVER last and those skills are

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

You probably have skill 2 and 3, but lack skill 1. They are playing a game and I know the game. Go learn about women and psychology.

When your wife's best friend gets married, your wife will 100% sleep with her friend's husband whether you like it or not. The swinging has already started. They may not even be bisexual or lesbians, but swingers. Though, they exhibited the "bi" attributes.

Modified:

Extra info: I didn't want to say this because it will make you depressed, but I'll reveal it. Your wife is 100% currently sleeping with another man.

That person is probably her ex and he is so great in bed, but as a bad boy, that young man refused to commit, so she dumped him and got married to you before she hits menopause.

She has been cheating with him, but she felt she has betrayed you, so she used her friend to set you up to equalize the cheat.

Now, she no longer feels remorseful. She is so happy the equation is equal. She can now sleep with that young man or those young men day and night without feeling like a LovePeddler or a cheat.

Afterall, she'll say to herself, "I have been with these men and slept with them countless times before I met you. Moreover, you too slept with my friend, so no biggie."

Your wife gained 3 things

1. She is no longer feeling remorseful
2. She is still having the best sex of her life behind your back as she has been having before meeting you
3. If you catch her and accuse her, she will tell you the story of how you first cheated on her with her best friend and paint you as an unfaithful husband

Note: Her best friend has already told her even though they are both acting as if they didn't know what happened. It's all staged. Best friends reveal things to each other they can't even reveal to their parents or spouses. The bond between besties is unexplainable — especially the ones I like to call 'partners-in-crime.'

Women love different sweet dicks and your woman now has the privilege to get as many as she wants without remorse. Why? You did it too and she knows you'll still do it again and again.

She now has the belief that, "For my husband to cheat with my best friend and think I don't know, he can actually cheat with other women, especially his ex, so why shouldn't I cheat with my ex too? After all, if you do me I do you, man no go vex."

Final Tip: Just watch how happier your wife will be nowadays because a huge burden has been lifted off her shoulder. It's just like someone who accidentally killed another woman's child and out of fear, hurriedly buried the child. She will be restless while pretending to be happy — as she silently prays for no one to ever find out. All of a sudden, she woke from sleep and realized it was just a dream.

Do you know how relieved she will feel? That is exactly how your wife is feeling. She believes she can happily fly now like a free bird.

Las las, if yawa gas, she go say na you start am, but truly, she is the one who started the cheating and confided with her partner-in-crime, best friend, to switch the game and make you look like the bad person.

Truly, you are finally the bad person because you weren't man enough to control your marriage and who comes in or how many days a visitor is allowed to stay. That statement you made above is still making me angry. How can a real man say, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it?"



May wisdom kee u at 989yrs
May u have answers to what u dont even know about
May u live longer and longer

U be chairman for woman issue.
Any woman related issues we will look for u for advice
U r an antidote to women wahala

You have said it all. Truth nor talk say make them nor talk am.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by iLegendd(m): 12:19pm On Feb 15, 2020
mousco:


May wisdom kee u at 989yrs
May u have answers to what u dont even know about
May u live longer and longer

U be chairman for woman issue.
Any woman related issues we will look for u for advice
U r an antidote to women wahala

You have said it all. Truth nor talk say make them nor talk am.

Amen!
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by iLegendd(m): 12:53pm On Feb 15, 2020
Martinez39s:
When it comes to redpill on game, I don't know anybody more knowledgeable and shrewd than iLegendd, Ubunja, and HARDDON. As you can see from his reply, iLegendd is criminally underrated here because he doesn't release his stuff for free. Ubunja and HARDDON have released for free and have helped many. The little redpill you release on nairaland will go a long way in helping some silent members and individuals that even visit here as guests. I remember a particular Sunday when a lot of topics were released in appreciation and praise of Ubunja and it angered a certain MariaLavina who campaigned with lies and appealed to Seun and the mods to ban the redpill men and their posts. It backfired as her posts and topics were obliterated and she DEACTIVATED out of frustration. grin grin grin grin

Nice post. Though, I'll like to correct one thing.

I'm not underrated. I'm just no longer interested.

I wish you were here in 2016/2017 when I ruled the Romance Section of Nairaland. In less than 10 minutes, my posts usually gets up to 1k views and in 2 to 3 days, it gets 10k views or more. Some had 60,000 views without hitting front. I was getting more views at the time than a lot of people who made frontpage.

Many of the people who hated me at the time did that not because I was bad, but because I was getting more attention than people like Aîrforce1, Explórers, etc. in less than a week of being around. They thought I was using jazz, but no, it's just the benefit of telling a captivating, naughty, funny, educative, and inspiring stories.

At the time, a certain lady attacked me and said I was overrated and she doesn't know why people love flocking my threads.

On the other hand, nice guys, jealous guys, etc. were abusing me left and right. It was fun being the center of attraction for 2 years, but damn, some of them really said nasty and mean things to me, but I endured. They were creating threads left and right with my name on the title just to abuse or praise me.

I stopped posting when a certain Nairalander said, "Oga, this thing you're posting for free is money — just package it."

I turned all the posts to books, packaged them, deleted them from NL and deactivated my first account and in that same 2017, I created a new moniker and decided to stay on the low while eating money from those books like a king.

At this moment, I'm chilling while my successors take care of the journey. You don't expect Obansanjo to be talked about more than Buhari today.

OBJ is now an elder statesman, not a politician. I'm no longer a redpiller, PUA, a dating coach, or whatever it's being called. I'm now a supervisor of redpillers, dating coaches, alphas, betas, nice guys, etc.

It will be a crime to say 2face or Mayweather are underrated because Burna Boy or Anthony Joshua are raves of the moment.

That's all for now. I no longer talk much on anything relationship or dating except the person is willing to pay handsomely. When you know the value of what you give, you won't give it for free forever. The best things in life are paid for, except the air we breathe. Apart from air, which is life/love, every other worthwhile things are paid for.

Since I now talked less and don't care about the fame anymore, I allow my books do the talking, my account receive the alert, then I go and spend on whatever I want.

This is more gratifying to me now than arguing on Nairaland trying to defend myself from haters as I used to in 2016/2017.

Since 2018, it's been parte after parte, smiles after smiles, and alert after alert.

So, I have cleared the air for you for a better understanding of where I stand on the table.

Note: Nigerians will worship/abuse you when you give them your life/time for free. Stop the free giveaway and the worshiping will stop, but the abuse will remain. The only people who may worship or praise you are those who benefited when you were dishing out free info.

The newcomers will think you're a greedy/hungry salesman and will hate/abuse you without knowing you've done your best when they weren't around.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by kayboardist(m): 1:42pm On Feb 15, 2020
I'm sure your wife didn't visit her parent but must have gone to nack her friends husband too

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Gbagbuo247: 1:59pm On Feb 15, 2020
Ladylite:
Ha missimelda01 come and epp us on this if you are not too busy with your boo

You have entered valentine trap. Soon you will be having threesomes.

If you want it to stop. Bring a man to your house and call him your bestie... So the both of them can hook up and leave you alone. Then you and your wife can gracefully send them out by helping them gather some fund and get them their own accommodation FAR FAR away from your place.


Your wife really wants a threesomeeee without saying it verbally so she won't look like a sluttttyyy chic that she actually is. Ensure you get a male counterpart o.

FYI your wife is secretly cheating on you....

Get a bug on phone and hidden CCTV in the house. You will discover lesbiaan activities.

I wish you knew this before the marriage. Many lesbiaansss allow themselves marry and hang out to commit their heinous lewd acts under such guise because as long as it's same sex their husbands can't suspect a thing.


I hope when the both women get pregnant for you, you can shoulder it.


This matter will END once you inform family. But I know since you are enjoying it, you won't do it.

The last Paragraph is nothing but the truth. I won’t tell anybody either. I will enjoy the extra KPEKUS

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Gbagbuo247: 2:15pm On Feb 15, 2020
iLegendd:
You're complaining too much. I guess you're a pastor-to-be. Also, you act like a weak man because of the statement, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it."

Real men want issues while their wives pray for no issues. A relationship where the man does not want issues hardly last. It's more like saying, "I'm afraid of my wife because she is the boss."

I have told men countless times to learn 3 skills, else their marriages or relationships will NEVER last and those skills are

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

You probably have skill 2 and 3, but lack skill 1. They are playing a game and I know the game. Go learn about women and psychology.

When your wife's best friend gets married, your wife will 100% sleep with her friend's husband whether you like it or not. The swinging has already started. They may not even be bisexual or lesbians, but swingers. Though, they exhibited the "bi" attributes.

Modified:

Extra info: I didn't want to say this because it will make you depressed, but I'll reveal it. Your wife is 100% currently sleeping with another man.

That person is probably her ex and he is so great in bed, but as a bad boy, that young man refused to commit, so she dumped him and got married to you before she hits menopause.

She has been cheating with him, but she felt she has betrayed you, so she used her friend to set you up to equalize the cheat.

Now, she no longer feels remorseful. She is so happy the equation is equal. She can now sleep with that young man or those young men day and night without feeling like a LovePeddler or a cheat.

Afterall, she'll say to herself, "I have been with these men and slept with them countless times before I met you. Moreover, you too slept with my friend, so no biggie."

Your wife gained 3 things

1. She is no longer feeling remorseful
2. She is still having the best sex of her life behind your back as she has been having before meeting you
3. If you catch her and accuse her, she will tell you the story of how you first cheated on her with her best friend and paint you as an unfaithful husband

Note: Her best friend has already told her even though they are both acting as if they didn't know what happened. It's all staged. Best friends reveal things to each other they can't even reveal to their parents or spouses. The bond between besties is unexplainable — especially the ones I like to call 'partners-in-crime.'

Women love different sweet dicks and your woman now has the privilege to get as many as she wants without remorse. Why? You did it too and she knows you'll still do it again and again.

She now has the belief that, "For my husband to cheat with my best friend and think I don't know, he can actually cheat with other women, especially his ex, so why shouldn't I cheat with my ex too? After all, if you do me I do you, man no go vex."

Final Tip: Just watch how happier your wife will be nowadays because a huge burden has been lifted off her shoulder. It's just like someone who accidentally killed another woman's child and out of fear, hurriedly buried the child. She will be restless while pretending to be happy — as she silently prays for no one to ever find out. All of a sudden, she woke from sleep and realized it was just a dream.

Do you know how relieved she will feel? That is exactly how your wife is feeling. She believes she can happily fly now like a free bird.

Las las, if yawa gas, she go say na you start am, but truly, she is the one who started the cheating and confided with her partner-in-crime, best friend, to switch the game and make you look like the bad person.

Truly, you are finally the bad person because you weren't man enough to control your marriage and who comes in or how many days a visitor is allowed to stay. That statement you made above is still making me angry. How can a real man say, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it?"



Why do I have this feeling that you are the one who wrote the story with a different moniker. Else, how could your analysis be so apt ?
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Nobody: 3:01pm On Feb 15, 2020
My brother, let's cut the long story short!

You will invite your wife and her bestie to a round table discussion in your living room. In front of her bestie, tell your wife, in plain language, that you slept with her bestie when she traveled and that you want her bestie to leave the next morning because you don't want to get her pregnant.

Don't lay blame on any body's doorstep, accept the blame, apology to both of them, abandon the living room for them and retire to your bed room and sleep.

Next time be more careful please, a wise man see danger and avoid it says the holy book.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Lil123: 3:18pm On Feb 15, 2020
Man, if you want to make things right, don't ever sleep with her friend again. Face the situation, confess to your wife and let her know that your marriage need serious help. Eliminate that her friend as soon as possible ( I didn't say you should kill her o.kick her out of your house) then, pray to God to deliver your marriage. Take heart.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by iLegendd(m): 4:30pm On Feb 15, 2020
Gbagbuo247:


Why do I have this feeling that you are the one who wrote the story with a different moniker. Else, how could your analysis be so apt ?

REPLY (Sadly, I didn't proofread, so ignore typos and you'll surely learn something from it).




Lol. I'm an insider. I have lots of experiences about women. I have dated blacks, whites, and Asians, and I have spent more than 10 years studying women and human psychology.

I never wanted to talk about what I'm about to say. Someone has asked above which school I studied, but I didn't reply to avoid writing a long story.

Back then in the university, I was a nice guy and I get rejected by women because I was nervous and didn't know how to talk to them or handle them despite being among the top 3 students in the school and getting a distinction in my first year in school since most of these Western universities award you certificates after each school year.

Yes, my grade was at the top of the class, but no one knew I was dying inside because of my inability to get a girlfriend.

I got frustrated and said, "Enough is enough — man shall not live by school alone." This was how I did everything possible to unravel women, their games, psychology, and get into their heads. My grade in school began to dwindle, but I didn't care — afterall, God, Bill Gate, Zuckerberg, etc. do not have certificates, so why should I kill myself.

I started swagging up and going to club at night and most times, as the only black guy around in some of those clubs, all attention will be on me. This gave me access to mingle with lots of young and naughty white/Asian girls. Most times, they are the ones that'll woo me and get my number. The faces of the white guys always look like shît as if they are planning to kill me because their pretty women are falling for me without stress.

A lot of crazy things happened, which I won't talk about and I learned a lot about women. Too many fine girls, but I was confused to choose. Finally, I settled with a stunning Asian girl since I know their p*ssies are tight and the sex will be great. Nothing compared to and extremely tight p*ssy.

This girl loved me more than a woman should love a man. The sex was the kind she never had and troublesome and mysterious behavior made her addicted.

Despite how beautiful she was, she always feels insecure/afraid as if I'll soon dump her and get a white woman, not her, an Asian woman. Too things happened and lots of experiences were gathered.

Finally, I became too confident because I have now got the key. Sadly, I was no longer interested in women despite her beauty. I just realized every single woman/girl is a LovePeddler even if she's still 12 years old. There are only 2 people who aren't LovePeddler and they are your mom and sister. To you they aren't whóres, but to another man who isn't related to your family, they are what they are.

Women being whóres doesn't mean women are bad — it just means "Their Toto dey itch them and they are looking for a good-bad guy who isn't a kiss-and-tell to help them quench the itching by scratching it on a regular basis."

Not less than 90% of men no nothing about women even if they are intelligent or PhD holders.

Today, I can confidently say, "Women are just nàked before my eyes even when they are wearing clothes."

I stopped dating not because I can't keep a woman, but because women love me more than I want. I don't like when people love me too much — I prefer being feared to being loved or respected.

Whenever I date a woman, she 100% wants it to lead to marriage at all cost, so I had to withdraw from dating and only keep female friends, not girlfriend.

I told a certain busty Nigerian girl three months ago that a woman can't cheat on me, but if she does, I'll know immediately. She looked at me, but didn't say a single word.

This girl had tried to have sex with me for more than 3 weeks, but I kept switching the game and playing naughty plays with her without going for sex. One day, it finally happened and it was on the 25th of December, 2019. We started the work from 10 PM on the 25th till the next day being 26th. This happened in my friend's room and he was around in that same room pressing computer since he is also in Amazon book writing business — he was rounding up a book.

In the morning, I showered and left and when I came back, the girl wasn't around. In the evening, she came back, saw me on bed, went straight to kiss, but I humorously told her I charge 20k per kiss and she laughed. She tried to force a kiss on me, but I refused and told her to pay first. "Okay, I'll pay," she said, but I refused.

From her body language, I 100% knew she went to meet another man — probably a man she had known even before knowing me since we are just new friends of less than a month.

I know if I ask her point blank where she went to, she'll lie because it's their nature and there is nothing any man born of a woman can do about it.

I intentionally asked her if she went to meet a man and she said, "Hell no." She showed me her newly fixed fingers and eyelashes and how she went to her madam's shop and she did all those things for her for free.

Instead of me asking her over and over and getting angry as most men used to, I started telling stories unrelated to my intention and making her laugh. These stories were crafted to disarm her lying filter and activate her honest filter.

Even though women love lying, they also love being honest since they have two filters. Sadly, the way men frame their questions is the reason most women's lying filters automatically activates itself and they start lying.

Truly, a woman doesn't want to lie to the one she loves, but she has no choice because the filter was automatically activated by the inappropriate way you framed your question. This pushing them to naturally start lying and become defending while evoking their tears technique so they can start crying to give the illusion that they are honest.

A lady confessed to me and told me about this tears technique and she said all women use it. Men hate seeing pretty women cry, so the moment tears drop, a woman automatically looks innocent as if you're accusing her false. You'll end up apologizing for accusing her, but my dear, you've been played. Any woman who cries easily when being accused is the greatest liar of all time — it's just a technique. This is the height of female manipulation.

So, the moment the lying filter has been activated, a woman will continue lying no matter how much she loves you and you love her. So, as a man, you're the reason why a woman lies because you don't know how to frame your question and put her at ease to enable her activate her honest filter instead of the lying filter.

One of the things I psychologically projected into her subconscious mind was how honest she is to me and how I'll never use her honesty against her. I talked about some naughty things I did and she was a little jealous, but laughed. I neutralized her. I penetrated her mind and planted everything to favor me before I strike with my question.

Take off your jean, but she refused because she wasn't in the mode for sex. Her resistance made me understand something.

Finally, I applied the final trick and that is looking straight into her eyes without saying a word as if I'm seeing through all the bad things she just did a few house ago. "What's that?" she asked as she struggles to hold the eye contact. Guilty conscience flooded her body and she was shaking without knowing. Through her eyes, I saw her crime.

"Is his dick big?" I asked her. "Which dick?" she replied in fear while trying to act like a female James Bond. "I know everything that happened, and I'm not disappointed. You are a woman and women love varieties, so it's not your fault, but at least, you should've controlled the urge. I know you must've tried, but it's not easy."

Telling her it's not her fault that all women do it, she became silent and started confessing and apologizing as she asks forgiveness that she won't do it again.

I have gotten the answer I needed, so I switched to some naughty storytelling. And inside the story, I kept embedding some commands meant for her subconscious mind. "Have you truly forgiven me?" she asked again and I said yes.

Deep down, I haven't forgiven and never will because real men don't forgive cheating women. They are only meant for sex, then pass them to a nice guy to marry. Cheating women is meant for nice guys, not real men.

Anyway, she isn't my girlfriend because I don't date. She just loves even though I kept her in the friendzone. Also, I don't give her money because I don't spend a dime on the opposite sex except I want to. At the same time, she doesn't ask me for money — women hardly ask me for money. They are always afraid and they need to because the moment you start leeching, it's game over. No more sweet dick for you and the friendship will end.

So, cheating with "a-minute-man" who is ready to give her money for a 1 to 2 minutes' sex behind my back is inevitable. As I earlier said, women are whores and there is nothing you can do about it. Even God who created Eve can't do anything about it except he ends this world — that is the only solution.


So, women have two filters and the way you asked your question will determine the filter that'll be activated. The only person a woman activates her honest filter to at all time is her partner-in-crime.

So, as a man, if you want her honest filter activated every single time, you must become her partner-in-crime and that means you must also be telling her your secrets through storytelling. This was why I was telling her those naughty stories. I wanted to become her partner-in-crime before asking and I achieved it. PIC (partners-in-crime) don't hide things from each other.

In the midst of 200 policemen, there will be different groups of PIC.

I was teasing a 19 a year Churchy girl some years ago through phone and I brought masturbation into the topic and asked her if she does it and she said God forbids that it's a sin and she can never do such a degrading thing to her body. When I tried to go further in the masturbation topic, she was denying all things, so I switched topic and made her laugh with other fun topics.

Weeks or months later, I brought up the masturbation topic via phone call and told her that I'm tired of masturbating and I want to stop. I told her how I told God I'll never do it gain, but in few weeks time, I find myself doing it again, then I feel empty and bad about myself. I just told her so many things all in the name of making sure I subconsciously neutralize her and become her PIC so we can both reveal things to each other we will never tell outsiders.

"After you cum, do you always get this feeling I get like 'I shouldn't have done this — I feel so dirty — I should've controlled my urge?'"

"Yes," she replied and started telling me how she's trying her best to stop, but it's so hard.

From here, I started enquiring the year she started and she said about age 7 or thereabout.

At the end of the day, we became PIC. In the evening, she called with a hôrny voice and I knew she was in the mood. It endup up as a 45 minutes phone intimacy. The next day, she ran to my house.

One thing led to another, we kissed and when I tried to access the door in-between her legs, it was locked. She was a virgin. I hate unlocking virgins to avoid spoiling them.

If I open a virgin she is doomed to be a permanent whôre because she will be addicted and the day I'll end the relationship, she'll keep roaming and sleeping with all men in hopes to find something ecstatic as her first time, but she'll end up meeting a bunch of 1 minute men or tramadol addicts who don't understand how the vagina works and how to pleasure it like a pro, but all the just know is how to knack kpa kpa kpa.

Please, let me end the story here because I have too MANY things I haven't talked about.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by achi4u(m): 4:41pm On Feb 15, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:

Why would he allow her live with them in the first instance? It shows he's not in charge of his home
That's his first mistake,but Op is not an Angel.
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Yngson25(m): 4:56pm On Feb 15, 2020
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Mykel51:
Good Script !

I would produce it for you. Tony Umez would be the Husband, Genevieve the Wife and Ini Edo the wife's friend.

Movie Title: My Two Wives
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Gbagbuo247: 4:58pm On Feb 15, 2020
iLegendd:


REPLY (Sadly, I didn't proofread, so ignore typos and you'll surely learn something from it).



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Who get time to read all that

You think am that Jobless. Oga learn to to SUMMARIZE
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by watino: 5:05pm On Feb 15, 2020
iLegendd:


REPLY (Sadly, I didn't proofread, so ignore typos and you'll surely learn something from it).



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Bro you are filled with wisdom

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by iLegendd(m): 5:19pm On Feb 15, 2020
Gbagbuo247:




Who get time to read all that

You think am that Jobless. Oga learn to to SUMMARIZE

I understand your point and I have been there too. I do get lazy to read at times when the text seem long, but the reason I know a lot today is because I pushed myself to read and today, I charge people money just to read what I write. You'll miss if you don't read it.

At the same time, you won't be able to read that free reply I gave you in a year to two because it will be deleted, copied, and added in a book that people will pay 10k or more to read.

See, a lot of people quoted me above, but I didn't reply most. I replied yours, but here you are telling me it's too long.

Leaders are readers.

Did you notice how I made my reply so that when you quote me back the entire reply will not be quoted? It's because I know one day I'll come back at night, copy that post and add it to a book and delete it.

In that reply, I shared my personal sacred story and it's not the kind of story I like sharing for free.

Anyway, enjoy.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Gbagbuo247: 7:57pm On Feb 15, 2020
iLegendd:


I understand your point and I have been there too. I do get lazy to read at times when the text seem long, but the reason I know a lot today is because I pushed myself to read and today, I charge people money just to read what I write. You'll miss if you don't read it.

At the same time, you won't be able to read that free reply I gave you in a year to two because it will be deleted, copied, and added in a book that people will pay 10k or more to read.

See, a lot of people quoted me above, but I didn't reply most. I replied yours, but here you are telling me it's too long.

Leaders are readers.

Did you notice how I made my reply so that when you quote me back the entire reply will not be quoted? It's because I know one day I'll come back at night, copy that post and add it to a book and delete it.

In that reply, I shared my personal sacred story and it's not the kind of story I like sharing for free.

Anyway, enjoy.




Taaa Gbafuoooo, People are talking money Inoru here na ako sh*t
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by MickzyDonald: 9:24pm On Feb 15, 2020
dude99:


You're right! The ladies who brought the "supposed friend" is busty right?
How did you know

Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by dude99(m): 10:55pm On Feb 15, 2020
MickzyDonald:

How did you know

Cause it's similar
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by MickzyDonald: 10:59pm On Feb 15, 2020
dude99:


Cause it's similar
Oh i see

Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by causimalbarka(m): 11:09am On Feb 16, 2020
You've brilliantly deposited sir..

But what's ur advice..

What will you advice him to do?

To divorce his wife or call both the woman and wife & talk to them or accept his faith and move on..


Please Sir...

I will really appreciate to see your reply
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by divineappo(m): 11:38am On Feb 16, 2020
iLegendd:
You're complaining too much. I guess you're a pastor-to-be. Also, you act like a weak man because of the statement, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it."

Real men want issues while their wives pray for no issues. A relationship where the man does not want issues hardly last. It's more like saying, "I'm afraid of my wife because she is the boss."

I have told men countless times to learn 3 skills, else their marriages or relationships will NEVER last and those skills are

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

You probably have skill 2 and 3, but lack skill 1. They are playing a game and I know the game. Go learn about women and psychology.

When your wife's best friend gets married, your wife will 100% sleep with her friend's husband whether you like it or not. The swinging has already started. They may not even be bisexual or lesbians, but swingers. Though, they exhibited the "bi" attributes.

Modified:

Extra info: I didn't want to say this because it will make you depressed, but I'll reveal it. Your wife is 100% currently sleeping with another man.

That person is probably her ex and he is so great in bed, but as a bad boy, that young man refused to commit, so she dumped him and got married to you before she hits menopause.

She has been cheating with him, but she felt she has betrayed you, so she used her friend to set you up to equalize the cheat.

Now, she no longer feels remorseful. She is so happy the equation is equal. She can now sleep with that young man or those young men day and night without feeling like a LovePeddler or a cheat.

Afterall, she'll say to herself, "I have been with these men and slept with them countless times before I met you. Moreover, you too slept with my friend, so no biggie."

Your wife gained 3 things

1. She is no longer feeling remorseful
2. She is still having the best sex of her life behind your back as she has been having before meeting you
3. If you catch her and accuse her, she will tell you the story of how you first cheated on her with her best friend and paint you as an unfaithful husband

Note: Her best friend has already told her even though they are both acting as if they didn't know what happened. It's all staged. Best friends reveal things to each other they can't even reveal to their parents or spouses. The bond between besties is unexplainable — especially the ones I like to call 'partners-in-crime.'

Women love different sweet dicks and your woman now has the privilege to get as many as she wants without remorse. Why? You did it too and she knows you'll still do it again and again.

She now has the belief that, "For my husband to cheat with my best friend and think I don't know, he can actually cheat with other women, especially his ex, so why shouldn't I cheat with my ex too? After all, if you do me I do you, man no go vex."

Final Tip: Just watch how happier your wife will be nowadays because a huge burden has been lifted off her shoulder. It's just like someone who accidentally killed another woman's child and out of fear, hurriedly buried the child. She will be restless while pretending to be happy — as she silently prays for no one to ever find out. All of a sudden, she woke from sleep and realized it was just a dream.

Do you know how relieved she will feel? That is exactly how your wife is feeling. She believes she can happily fly now like a free bird.

Las las, if yawa gas, she go say na you start am, but truly, she is the one who started the cheating and confided with her partner-in-crime, best friend, to switch the game and make you look like the bad person.

Truly, you are finally the bad person because you weren't man enough to control your marriage and who comes in or how many days a visitor is allowed to stay. That statement you made above is still making me angry. How can a real man say, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it?"


Sir, you are a legend

I salute your great insight

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