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Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago
It lasted a little over a year
He told me he Loved me when he broke up with me
I told him that I loved him and always will
Unfortunately I stuck to that.
Doesn't matter how many guys I've "seen"
the feeling never goes away, if anything it gets stronger
When we hang out and he wraps his arms around me and just holds me everything still feels natural
But we work better as friends then together
We used to always fight over nothing
And now we never fight
He has this 6 month rule where if you still feel the same way 6 months after the breakup
You can get back together
We already broke this rule once.
I don't think we should get back together
I just need to know this:
Will this feeling eventually go away
Or should I just tell him how I feel?

@ poster, u cant get over him because u still see him, And why, if I may ask, did u guys break up?

OP,
Must you date?

You have two options:
1. Get back together and give it a try. No guarantees of success either and the issues you hv not resolved in the past will surface again. Your time apart and relationships might also get in the way.
2. Dont get back together and stop being friends. Friendship is really impossible btw you two. Your friendship will only sabotage future relationships. Might also lead to cheating.

Being friends after break up? It will only work if you are trying to get over him. If you keep the idea of getting back together in your mind it will ruin the friendship as well as ruin your chances of being together again.

well if you are friends and never fight, what changes when you label your friendship as a relationship?
If you guys get back together you have to remember why you never fight as friends and keep that feeling going.

omega25red:
well if you are friends and never fight, what changes when you label your friendship as a relationship?
If you guys get back together you have to remember why you never fight as friends and keep that feeling going.

Exactly.