Good days Nairalanders.

I knw this might sound funny but it's a problem i need advise to solve as I keep getting ashamed of myself each time I make out with my wife. I have been married for close to 3 years now with a daughter and each time I'm making out with my wife, I do cry joyfully in the process and sometimes moan which keeps leaving me in shame before my wife after sex. Our sex life wasn't that strong when we were dating because of distance, now we live together and this thing keep happening. It's really embarrassing and I can't help it. I have met and explained to some of my close friend and they said it's nothing to worry about that I should worry over other things to help build my family, but I'm so uncomfortable with such awkward reactions during make out, my wife doesn't complain about it, but I doubt if it's something a normal man should be doing. I'm ashamed of myself writing this as I have never heard such similar experience anywhere by any man.

Is it something I should overlook or see a doctor?

Please see a doctor

And be shouting..."my wife harder,I'm cumin"

I do cry joyfully in the process and sometimes moan

Chineke nna!!
What did I just read?

I'm just trying to picture your facial expression while crying and moaning for your wife with bia bia.

It's only a man without problems that moan so loud during love making. Buhari and APC no dey gree me enjoy sex these days.

Nothing to worry about bro, you moaning shows you're really enjoying your wife's..

mrsample:
Please see a doctor

Lol
Doctors don suffer for una hand.

It is normal when you love sex more than money. You shouldnt be ashamed of being child-like. You are just a pusssy-loving man.

u better hide your wife, such women are known as bomb azz pussy, blows your mind out!

Of all your problems, this one is more important to you
What is your ringtone........ its sweet ooo, you are killing me,............ I will pay another bride price oooo.

Maybe your wife uses kayamatra, so you won't leave her

Oga, you are perfectly normal

You have probably seen too much porn and now think a man moaning excessively is cool.
Those people are acting for cameras, don't be deceived.

Learn to keep your moans down to the barest minimum...it's her voice the walls should be hearing, not yours man.

I really hope she's not using Kayanmata on you, if not you are finished with the way you're going...

Some people don't have life outside Nairaland they bring all problems here. Smh.

Nairaland40:
Good days Nairalanders.

I knw this might sound funny but it's a problem i need advise to solve as I keep getting ashamed of myself each time I make out with my wife. I have been married for close to 3 years now with a daughter and each time I'm making out with my wife, I do cry joyfully in the process and sometimes moan which keeps leaving me in shame before my wife after sex. Our sex life wasn't that strong when we were dating because of distance, now we live together and this thing keep happening. It's really embarrassing and I can't help it. I have met and explained to some of my close friend and they said it's nothing to worry about that I should worry over other things to help build my family, but I'm so uncomfortable with such awkward reactions during make out, my wife doesn't complain about it, but I doubt if it's something a normal man should be doing. I'm ashamed of myself writing this as I have never heard such similar experience anywhere by any man.

Is it something I should overlook or see a doctor?

werey leleyii shaa

Funniest thread of 2020. This is damn funny

May I ask why you think its abnormal?
If your wife doesn't mind then there is no problem, I saw a thread where a man came to complain that his wife wanted him to moan during sex to show her that he is enjoying it.

Too much pornography is making people have the wrong ideas about sex and believe that everyone should act a certain way while being intimate.thats just wrong, do what works best for you both.

Probably neighbours have a story to tell some day... You think no one hears?

Is your wife complaining but make sure you are not disturbing your neighbors with your cry cry

Nairaland40:
Good days Nairalanders.

I knw this might sound funny but it's a problem i need advise to solve as I keep getting ashamed of myself each time I make out with my wife. I have been married for close to 3 years now with a daughter and each time I'm making out with my wife, I do cry joyfully in the process and sometimes moan which keeps leaving me in shame before my wife after sex. Our sex life wasn't that strong when we were dating because of distance, now we live together and this thing keep happening. It's really embarrassing and I can't help it. I have met and explained to some of my close friend and they said it's nothing to worry about that I should worry over other things to help build my family, but I'm so uncomfortable with such awkward reactions during make out, my wife doesn't complain about it, but I doubt if it's something a normal man should be doing. I'm ashamed of myself writing this as I have never heard such similar experience anywhere by any man.

Is it something I should overlook or see a doctor?

Lol.. Op this isn't a health issue so no need to see a Doc. The thing here is i think the sex is go good and you're actually very attracted to your woman and also there's probability you never really experienced sex much prior to your marriage. You already said that you never got to have enough sex with ya woman during courtship and I'm sure you most likely never had sex with any other lady whether before you met ya woman or during when you met her.. And thats why you feel so excited having regular sex now.

As for your wife not complaining about it. Of course she most likely wouldn't complain because she will feel she's sweet in the middle and you enjoy making out with her thats why you react that way whenever you both make out. As a matter of fact, she'll be happy deep inside of her that she makes you moan.

What you need is self control. As a man, you only need to learn to control showing the excitement by moaning. I know it might not be easy at first but you just keep trying and I'm sure with time, you'll surely master the act. As the sex continues with time, you'll learn to control yourself the more. Like i said earlier, it isn't a health problem. Good luck to you

This s reminds me of my ex flatmate's bf. Whenever those two close their door like this, the guy will not allow me to hear word with haaaaaaaaa! Ohhhhhhhhhh! Wooooooooooo! Poor me will just lock my door jeje begin listen to music and desperately avoid eye contact with him whenever I see him.


You mean you were crying as in tearing up too? Interesting!

That's a woman with a bomb pùssy. The Vaseline crew members above will not understand Op's orgasmic joy.

They've desensitized their preek with excessive masturbation.

You’re being sensual and too carried away by vaginal pleasure.
It sounds foolish and you must grow out of it immediately.

Do not worship a woman’s pussy as it could lead an untimely death.

Rather cry or moan when worshiping your creator or as money keeps dropping into your net worth base.

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There's nothing wrong with moaning out loud. It's not effeminate. Don't mind the sanctimonious men here telling you otherwise, they'd give up everything they could to be in your stead.

Majority of their prickks are dead. Very numb. Thanks to excessive masturbation. That's why they are just wailing unnecessarily. So, OP enjoy your wife's glorious and sweet pusssy till your prickk becomes numb too.

I love men who moan. Jeez, that shiit turns me on and makes me grind harder.

Them no dey tell person twice.

UyaiIncomparabl:
There's nothing wrong with moaning out loud. It's not effeminate. Don't mind the sanctimonious men here telling you otherwise, they'd give up everything they could to be in your stead.

Majority of their prickks are dead. Very numb. Thanks to excessive masturbation. That's why they are just wailing unnecessarily. So, OP enjoy your wife's glorious and sweet pusssy till your prickk becomes numb too.

I love men who moan. Jeez, that shiit turns me on and makes me grind harder.

Them no dey tell person twice.

you pretty but you are still looking for tall dark igbo man

manlawal:

you pretty but you are still looking for tall dark igbo man

Afonja amaka

NextD18:

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Op, bring the roof down. You be man wey sabi. If possible connect loudspeaker to your room and use it to face the street.

Tweiker, Nairaland sexologist oya come and give your expert input in this noisy matter.

UyaiIncomparabl:
There's nothing wrong with moaning out loud. It's not effeminate. Don't mind the sanctimonious men here telling you otherwise, they'd give up everything they could to be in your stead.

Majority of their prickks are dead. Very numb. Thanks to excessive masturbation. That's why they are just wailing unnecessarily. So, OP enjoy your wife's glorious and sweet pusssy till your prickk becomes numb too.

I love men who moan. Jeez, that shiit turns me on and makes me grind harder.

Them no dey tell person twice.

So as you dey like dis, you can grind hard... With which strength?

Ishilove:
Op, bring the roof down. You be man wey sabi. If possible connect loudspeaker to your room and use it to face the street.

Tweiker, Nairaland sexologist oya come and give your expert input in this noisy matter.

I'll definitely give it my best shot.

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Nairaland40:
Good days Nairalanders.

I knw this might sound funny but it's a problem i need advise to solve as I keep getting ashamed of myself each time I make out with my wife. I have been married for close to 3 years now with a daughter and each time I'm making out with my wife, I do cry joyfully in the process and sometimes moan which keeps leaving me in shame before my wife after sex. Our sex life wasn't that strong when we were dating because of distance, now we live together and this thing keep happening. It's really embarrassing and I can't help it. I have met and explained to some of my close friend and they said it's nothing to worry about that I should worry over other things to help build my family, but I'm so uncomfortable with such awkward reactions during make out, my wife doesn't complain about it, but I doubt if it's something a normal man should be doing. I'm ashamed of myself writing this as I have never heard such similar experience anywhere by any man.

Is it something I should overlook or see a doctor?

Hi,

I have more experience and knowledge about sex in my little finger than most people will ever accumulate their entire life.

Yeah, growing up the girls were always there, hell man, avoiding them was the problem, but also I was into psychology. I studied sex and relationship deeply for fun and my knowledge is such that some think I'm a therapist or something.

Listen...

You are creating a problem in your life where none exists and worrying yourself sick over it.

1. Your case is nothing serious.
Moaning in bed/during sex is perfectly normal. Go to the bedroom window of any sexually active bachelor and hear for yourself. 70% of the time, the man is the one who moans and cries not the woman. There are men who even weep and grant like pigs during sex. The important thing is that your partner isn't bothered by it. I've seen a couple joke about the woman stuffing her pantie into the man's mouth during sex in a hotel room because he was making so much noise that she was scared one of the other guests down the hall would report them to the hotel management again!

That reminds me. A few years back Man. United star Paul Pogba had the same issue with singer Dancia. The hotel management had to move other guests off the entire floor after several complains that the couple were screaming so much dung sex (it was in the news, goggle it). And here you are complaining bitterly about ordinary moaning

2. Your problem is inexperience
Lemme guess, you weren't sexually active before marriage and still aren't.
News flash... your manhood is under-used and still very sensitive. The fact that your wife who's had a child (which would have widened her vagina) can still causes you this level of pleasure tells me that you have, not just an under-used penis, but one above average size too.
Only time and constant sex will heal you of this thing you see as a problem.


3. Have you talked to your wife?
She may not be telling but most women love it when men are like babies in their hands and that CAN HAPPEN ONLY during sex. Talk to your wife. That which you see as shame may be her greatest delight but your negative reaction is making her hide it.

4.Always remember, it's all part of sex!
That which you are complaining about now is what millionaires pay heavily to experience with traditional prostitutes in the orient, who have been trained form age 5 to give men pleasure.
Japanese and Chinese traditional prostitutes, called courtesans, have special skills they apply to make a man 'weep and scram helplessly with pleasure' during his moment of the 'clouds and rain' (orgasm). The sex skill is a 2000 year-old secret. And you wonder why one Chines emperor married a prostitute and gave her the key to his kingdom!


You are a very normal man but feel free to go and see your doctor for some little green pills containing multivitamins and a bill of 30k.

Good luck!

crackkhaus:

So as you dey like dis, you can grind hard... With which strength?

I don't make too much noise about sex as them no dey award person. But just know say, when I start, na you go tire. No be mouth. Hmmm!

See ehn, na you go change your name from Crackkhaus to Crackhead.

I no dey talk again o.