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Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by bocajunior37: 6:02pm On Mar 09, 2020
Please try and follow every detail of my story i need matured advice, please don't judge me.
Am a private school teacher and I got married three years ago my wife took in on our honeymoon night which was against my wish because after marriage guy man need to pick himself up after spending. Nine months later she delivered through ceseran (c.s) operation i had to borrow money from my boss 100k to pay back why working though we lost the baby due to stress. Last year she took in again, i prayed and cried to God for her to born successfully lo and behold she had to deliver through c.s again i was devasted, i cried and beg the doctor because the money for the operation is much i had to deposit my savings of 150k to the doctor and go out to source for the balance of 100k. I had to make use of my boss 100k without informing him to God be the glory the operation was successful my baby came out december 25th last year.
Now my boss want to arrest me because of his money i had to run away from my home please advice me..
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by StylishLord(m): 6:13pm On Mar 09, 2020
bocajunior37:

Now my boss want to arrest me because of his money i had to run away from my home please advice me..

We are all human oga, Just explain to him how it went. we all av conscience naa
is not the wish of every man that his wife should deliver through c.s. pls stop running bikonu
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by daddytime(m): 6:16pm On Mar 09, 2020
A very sad situation. Man up and face him like a man he won't kill you.


You said you are a private school teacher?

I sure won't allow you to teach my kids the English language.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by madridguy(m): 6:30pm On Mar 09, 2020
Go to the police and write undertaken for your boss.
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by 2special(m): 6:39pm On Mar 09, 2020
Inform your family members including your in-laws, they should be able to help you with the money.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by elektra(f): 7:05pm On Mar 09, 2020
It is you that is making your boss’ life hell.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by blank(f): 7:35pm On Mar 09, 2020
So you stole your boss's money because you think he did not have any use for it? Why did you not go and steal from the market as you needed money? Tell me they would not burn you in the market square.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by bukatyne(f): 8:38pm On Mar 09, 2020
bocajunior37:
Please try and follow every detail of my story i need matured advice, please don't judge me.
Am a private school teacher and I got married three years ago my wife took in on our honeymoon night which was against my wish because after marriage guy man need to pick himself up after spending. Nine months later she delivered through ceseran (c.s) operation i had to borrow money from my boss 100k to pay back why working though we lost the baby due to stress. Last year she took in again, i prayed and cried to God for her to born successfully lo and behold she had to deliver through c.s again i was devasted, i cried and beg the doctor because the money for the operation is much i had to deposit my savings of 150k to the doctor and go out to source for the balance of 100k. I had to make use of my boss 100k without informing him to God be the glory the operation was successful my baby came out december 25th last year.
Now my boss want to arrest me because of his money i had to run away from my home please advice me..

Until you loose your entitlement mentality and realize you actually wronged your boss, I don't see a way out.

Your boss is within his rights to arrest you for stealing, you would only appeal he tempers justice with mercy.

Explain your plight and give him a payment plan with 10% as a sign of repentance.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by dominique(f): 8:53pm On Mar 09, 2020
You made use of your boss's money without informing him or you stole it? Why didn't you ask for it like the first time? Your boss is within his rights to arrest you and have you charged to court for theft. Just appeal with him to give you a time window to pay back the money

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Vyolet(f): 8:58pm On Mar 09, 2020
Stop running and own up to the boss, look for a plan to pay back his money. You stole his money, stop justifying it with what you did with the money.
I don't even understand why you will marry on a private school salary. You had nine whole months to plan, all you could come up with is stealing your boss's money.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by sisisioge: 9:15pm On Mar 09, 2020
Na wa o....please turn yourself in and agree on how to repay the loan.

Meanwhile, find money to register your new family for health insurance coverage. That 150k you dropped at the hospital would have covered you, her, the baby and three more siblings to come for a whole year premium! Dont wait until emergency hits your to react.

Be wise my brother, good luck.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by OlawaleBammie(m): 10:08pm On Mar 09, 2020
blank:
So you stole your boss's money because you think he did not have any use for it? Why did you not go and steal from the market as you needed money? Tell me they would not burn you in the market square.


I dont tink u re a woman.

person wife dey feel deep pain and u dey say dis, which man in his right senses wil b watching his wife wallowing in pain while one unused cash is in d bedroom??


Even if na side chic, am expecting him to do same cus the pain would b unbearable for the woman.


we go dey settle the debt after delivery ni o

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by missimelda01(f): 12:11am On Mar 10, 2020
Confusing topic
Confusing story

Sorry sir but if i were your boss i would arrest you, it's one thing to take something that belongs to someone else, it's another thing to run away. Do you think you're the only one with problems?
Go and apologize to your boss, pray God touches his heart to listen. Start making efforts to return the money fast.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by blank(f): 3:03am On Mar 10, 2020
OlawaleBammie:



I dont tink u re a woman, just spewing trash sorry to say.

person wife dey feel deep pain and u dey say dis, which man in his right senses wil b watching his wife wallowing in pain while one unused cash is in d bedroom??


Even if na side chic, am expecting him to do same cus the pain would b unbearable for the woman.


we go dey settle the debt after delivery ni o

The truth is the truth whether you like it or not, OP is a thief. You are also a potential thief with the mentality you have. "Unused cash" as if he worked for it.

He had 9 months from when he knew his wife was pregnant to start saving for CS as if the doctor would not have told him the risks involved and that having only 1 yr gap between pregnancies means she must give birth via CS.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Acidosis(m): 3:55am On Mar 10, 2020
OlawaleBammie:



I dont tink u re a woman, just spewing trash sorry to say.

person wife dey feel deep pain and u dey say dis, which man in his right senses wil b watching his wife wallowing in pain while one unused cash is in d bedroom??


Even if na side chic, am expecting him to do same cus the pain would b unbearable for the woman.


we go dey settle the debt after delivery ni o

If you steal from your boss or anyone else (doesn't matter whether you used the money to save your dying great grandmother), you would be arrested and made to pay. Do you know whether the boss saved the money to cater for his pregnant wife in 9 months? If you choose to be useless and not do anything for 9 months only to wait for the day of delivery in order to perpetrate your fraud, you go stay kirikiri for days.

Pregnancy is not a disease. It gives whoever is responsible 9 freaking months to prepare. Even if stealing is what you want to do with your destiny, 9 months is enough to do that and repay.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by frozen70(f): 4:42am On Mar 10, 2020
bocajunior37:
Please try and follow every detail of my story i need matured advice, please don't judge me.
Am a private school teacher and I got married three years ago my wife took in on our honeymoon night which was against my wish because after marriage guy man need to pick himself up after spending. Nine months later she delivered through ceseran (c.s) operation i had to borrow money from my boss 100k to pay back why working though we lost the baby due to stress. Last year she took in again, i prayed and cried to God for her to born successfully lo and behold she had to deliver through c.s again i was devasted, i cried and beg the doctor because the money for the operation is much i had to deposit my savings of 150k to the doctor and go out to source for the balance of 100k. I had to make use of my boss 100k without informing him to God be the glory the operation was successful my baby came out december 25th last year.
Now my boss want to arrest me because of his money i had to run away from my home please advice me..

Tell him to deduct it from your salary
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by OlawaleBammie(m): 8:08am On Mar 10, 2020
Acidosis:


If you steal from your boss or anyone else (doesn't matter whether you used the money to save your dying great grandmother), you would be arrested and made to pay. Do you know whether the boss saved the money to cater for his pregnant wife in 9 months? If you choose to be useless and not do anything for 9 months only to wait for the day of delivery in order to perpetrate your fraud, you go stay kirikiri for days.

Pregnancy is not a disease. It gives whoever is responsible 9 freaking months to prepare. Even if stealing is what you want to do with your destiny, 9 months is enough to do that and repay.


Its like ur brain is leaking excess water lately, Olodo.

See as dis one is talking like tins always work out as planned in life. Did u see where he said he had spent his whole savings of 150k? or eye dey pain u?
Didn't u see where he said he's a teacher? abi how well do ur country pay a teacher? the last tym i checked teachers in ur corntree are paid a meager amount of money

Did i encourage stealing in wat i wrote, i only said i could do same to save my dying wife, its wife we re talking about and not outsiders.

I tink if u dont have a issue with comprehension u wil dat he not will to steal, he only took it under duress and planned to refund later before oga know but shit happened and kasala burst.

what hapened to him can happen to any other person oga, dont tink life is treating us equal just becus U RE ONE OF THE SONS OF THE INFLUENTIALS AND WORKING IN A REPUTABLE OIL COMPANY SOO U FIND EVERYTHING EASY.

Try to go outside one day, probably to the getto and see the other side of life.

BABA OLOWO IGBO.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Acidosis(m): 8:27am On Mar 10, 2020
OlawaleBammie:



Its like ur brain is leaking excess water lately, Olodo.

See as dis one is talking like tins always work out as planned in life. Did u see where he said he had spent his whole savings of 150k? or eye dey pain u?
Didn't u see where he said he's a teacher? abi how well do ur country pay a teacher? the last tym i checked teachers in ur corntree are paid a meager amount of money

Did i encourage stealing in wat i wrote, i only said i could do same to save my dying wife, its wife we re talking about and not outsiders.

I tink if u dont have a issue with comprehension u wil dat he not will to steal, he only took it under duress and planned to refund later before oga know but shit happened and kasala burst.

what hapened to him can happen to any other person oga, dont tink life is treating us equal just becus U RE ONE OF THE SONS OF THE INFLUENTIALS AND WORKING IN A REPUTABLE OIL COMPANY SOO U FIND EVERYTHING EASY.

Try to go outside one day, probably to the getto and see the other side of life.

BABA OLOWO IGBO.

Na you give me the job ba?

Just shut up and stop encouraging theft! If you can do the crime, then be ready to pay the price. Going to jail (when you steal), begging, or working without pay, shouldn't be too much to do to save a dying wife. Whichever you choose to do, be MAN enough to face the consequences.

See your lousy mouth like "we go settle the unused money later". Someone else's money? You see why many employers won't give you lots jobs unless you present your late great grandfather corpse as guarantor and surety? They know your poisonous attitudes so well. They know y'all care about nothing but yourselves.

You wan settle unused money later when you no get shi-shi or plans in the so called later to pay back. Little wonder Nigerians have learnt to stop giving out loans to friends and families because your later never come. And when they ask you to refund, you start insulting and calling them names.

If you don't know what to do to avoid "emergencies" like that, ask and stop typing rubbish.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by OlawaleBammie(m): 8:36am On Mar 10, 2020
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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by OlawaleBammie(m): 8:41am On Mar 10, 2020
Acidosis:


Na you give me the job ba?

Just shut up and stop encouraging theft! If you can do the crime, then be ready to pay the price. Going to jail (when you steal), begging, or working without pay, shouldn't be too much to do to save a dying wife. Whichever you choose to do, be MAN enough to face the consequences.

See your lousy mouth like "we go settle the unused money later". Someone else's money? You see why many employers won't give you lots jobs unless you present your late great grandfather corpse as guarantor and surety? They know your poisonous attitudes so well. They know y'all care about nothing but yourselves.

You wan settle unused money later when you no get shi-shi or plans in the so called later to pay back. Little wonder Nigerians have learnt to stop giving out loans to friends and families because your later never come. And when they ask you to refund, you start insulting and calling them names.

If you don't know what to do to avoid "emergencies" like that, ask and stop typing rubbish.

I dont even read d rubbish u typed

Well, am not sayin wat he did was good, noo its not good but wat am sayin is it can hapen to anyone.

we dont hav it equal ke, and wait did i ever say i wont face the consequences?? the only wrongdoing he's making is dat he chose to run away, me i wont run, i wil face watever comes out of it, 100 thousand pere cant send me to jail

He should have presented himsef to his oga and make a paper to ascertain wen he wil get his oga money back.

Oga life is not fair to some people oo, just cus tins are rosy for u doesnt mean others are having it same way o
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Raphsays: 8:47am On Mar 10, 2020
bocajunior37:
Please try and follow every detail of my story i need matured advice, please don't judge me.
Am a private school teacher and I got married three years ago my wife took in on our honeymoon night which was against my wish because after marriage guy man need to pick himself up after spending. Nine months later she delivered through ceseran (c.s) operation i had to borrow money from my boss 100k to pay back why working though we lost the baby due to stress. Last year she took in again, i prayed and cried to God for her to born successfully lo and behold she had to deliver through c.s again i was devasted, i cried and beg the doctor because the money for the operation is much i had to deposit my savings of 150k to the doctor and go out to source for the balance of 100k. I had to make use of my boss 100k without informing him to God be the glory the operation was successful my baby came out december 25th last year.
Now my boss want to arrest me because of his money i had to run away from my home please advice me..

I understand your predicament and its quite unfortunate you had to go through all these.

You are a fool for running away from home.
You would have faced the music at worst you will pay back with part of your monthly salary if you can
prove yourself or your family members pull you through by paying out the 100k for you.

You can run but you can't hide.

Prayerfully Go back and see your boss at home when he least expects you and plead.
If you handle it correctly, you won't be arrested.

Also take note, until you have money don't impregnate your wife, because she will most likely
deliver through CS.

Wishing u all the best.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Nobody: 9:20am On Mar 10, 2020
Oga,Nairaland won't help you.You are in a seriously messed situation then u come to the gallows like NL?? If you don't take care you might be posting from prison cell next and also loose your so called Job.Who on earth would hire someone that absconds with their money??What you used the money is not a big deal, it's why u used the money without their permission that's Paramount.Your actions were disgraceful and unlawful.Better go and sell some of your possessions or a property,apologize and pay up.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by pocohantas(f): 9:28am On Mar 10, 2020
So, some clueless chick married a broke cheating NIGERIAN man?

What of the lady you got pregnant HERE?

I don’t know when ladies would realise that love is not enough. Especially when dealing with community pricks.

Go fix your mess Oga.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Oyindidi(f): 9:36am On Mar 10, 2020
OlawaleBammie:


I dont even read d rubbish u typed

Well, am not sayin wat he did was good, noo its not good but wat am sayin is it can hapen to anyone.

we dont hav it equal ke, and wait did i ever say i wont face the consequences?? the only wrongdoing he's making is dat he chose to run away, me i wont run, i wil face watever comes out of it, 100 thousand pere cant send me to jail

He should have presented himsef to his oga and make a paper to ascertain wen he wil get his oga money back.

Oga life is not fair to some people oo, just cus tins are rosy for u doesnt mean others are having it same way o
Op, go and defend yourself before your boss not this guy
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by OlawaleBammie(m): 9:38am On Mar 10, 2020
Oyindidi:
Op, go and defend yourself before your boss not this guy
I dont get u, am not the op na
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Oyindidi(f): 9:41am On Mar 10, 2020
OlawaleBammie:

I dont get u, am not the op na
Really? You carry the person matter for head

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Adgideon(m): 9:42am On Mar 10, 2020
Running away solves nothing, rather it worsen the issue, your boss na human being, and he has only one head back go and explain . Except there is something u are not telling us
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by OlawaleBammie(m): 9:46am On Mar 10, 2020
Oyindidi:
Really? You carry the person matter for head


Noo, not like dat, its always in me to b blunt.

Am not always economical with the truth.

See people bashing him here are worst dan him, dey can do an undo, THEY ARE BUNCH OF HYPOCRITES as u see dem so

And in life, we re always perfect in our mind until we face reality eye to eye

Mee o, i dont like telling lies, i wil repeat it... I wil never live my wife in pain wen i know dat i have something dat can solve d problem d wardrobe. naah! patapata make dem carry me go station. and at the long run i wil pay back but it would stil b a win win for me cus i wont lose my family.

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Olunmercy56(f): 11:19am On Mar 10, 2020
I really pity you op, but you could have begged your boss before stealing the money... Thank God for the safe delivery, you need to organize your family members to beg your boss. Solicit for funds from your parents, friends and church members. Also you need to zip up for now, don't bring any innocent child to this world to suffer
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by Richy4(m): 11:33am On Mar 10, 2020
Meet him.. Why are you running in the first place. what you have done is what every human being in your situation would do... but a lot of people will not run away...That is not manly...

Tell him to give you a payment plan. or draft a payment plan by yourself.... Pay by instalment...(10 or 20K Every month) make sure your credibility is still intact ie( by paying him whenever you receive the month paycheck come rain/ shine) it is not the end of the world embarassed

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Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by suaveBrother(m): 12:10pm On Mar 10, 2020
...when you run away from your problems you end up making bigger problems...
Re: Help! My Boss Is Making My Family Life Help by bocajunior37: 4:34pm On Mar 10, 2020
My nairaland oh thanks for the advice and bashing what happen to me in despirate time can happen to any one else sometimes before you jump to insult someone who needs advice try and put yourself in that person's shoe whether you are living rich or hustling. I will return and face my boss tomorrow if it is arrest so be it, am so glad i used the money to save my wife and daughter

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