I don't know why must of us are crucifying this man. Yes, what he did was bad. But put your self in such situations. Are you telling me if it were to be your blood sister that had gotten married to this young man, all of you insulting him will still call him a thief for using his boss money to save your blood sister life.
I hate when people are not been real. Most of us will do worst if we had find our self in such situations. We are talking of life here.
If this same man had rush here to seek for financial assistance to save his dieing wife, it still same people calling him thief that will still advice him to run to church, mosque or relative to seek for help.
The deed had been done, all that is needed is solution.

@op, just man up . One thing must kill a man. The mistake had been made, just approach your boss and deliberate how best you can be able to pay up.

Thanks for standing by your wife when she needed you, God bless you.
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No body should come for my head.

Op my advice to you is to keep your pride and ego aside and follow this instructions.

Call your wife and family, inform them where you are and where you're going next.
Go straight to your boss house not his office but his house, immediately the gateman opens the gate for you lie down flat with sincere tears rolling from your eyes and beg your boss.
Tell him you deserve more than any punishment he is going to melt on you but all you're pleading is for him to have mercy on you, explain the situation in details without mincing words.
And if he still insist on taking you to police station don't argue, quietly follow the officers and tell them you deserve more than kirikiri sef but all you want from him is his forgiveness.

Why don't Nigerian couple discuss childbirth , anytime she gets pregnant , you guys don't have to keep it , all this thing baffle me , is it that common sense is scarce in this country ? You don't have money and you were quick to impregnate your wife in 2 succession , Better go and return your Oga money , I hate people who don't plan big decisions , you put yourself in unnecessary problem because your penis is more incharge than your brain .
This is why I love my father , it took him 4 hear before he and my mom had me because they were saving and preparing for a child , my next brother had a 2 year spacing , stop popping out kids when you are not financially ready .

Greenbullet:
Why don't Nigerian couple discuss childbirth , anytime she gets pregnant , you guys don't have to keep it , all this thing baffle me , is it that common sense is scarce in this country ? You don't have money and you were quick to impregnate your wife in 2 succession , Better go and return your Oga money , I hate people who don't plan big decisions , you put yourself in unnecessary problem because your penis is more incharge than your brain .
This is why I love my father , it took him 4 hear before he and my mom had me because they were saving and preparing for a child , my next brother had a 2 year spacing , stop popping out kids when you are not financially ready .

boss evening abeg come update us, for base on say wetin u talk for morning

CHUPEZ123:
boss evening abeg come update us, for base on say wetin u talk for morning

later bro , just finish 2nd round , make I drink water.

Vyolet:
Stop running and own up to the boss, look for a plan to pay back his money. You stole his money, stop justifying it with what you did with the money.
I don't even understand why you will marry on a private school salary. You had nine whole to plan, all you could come up with is stealing your boss's money.

When those posts about getting married with 40k salary,.etc come up, you try to advise the men that it's not a good idea. They will calculate it for you...food stuff 5k, transport 4k, rent 15k...use baby napkin instead of diapers, buy ogi instead of cereal, blah blah blah.

When they now face this kind of situation, they will say it's their village people following them.

blank:
So you stole your boss's money because you think he did not have any use for it? Why did you not go and steal from the market as you needed money? Tell me they would not burn you in the market square.

lol @ market square. Its been a while u came online with your other moniker

MoonWater:
lol @ market square. Its been a while u came online with your other moniker

What other moniker?

blank:


What other moniker?

don't mind me. Glad to have you around.

Happy palm Sunday too

daddytime:
A very sad situation. Man up and face him like a man he won't kill you.


You said you are a private school teacher?

I sure won't allow you to teach my kids the English language.

what is ur qualification.. Fool u

Op . The worst place to bring your problem is NL. U did there right thing by using the money. Don't be too hard on yourself. U didn't use the money for side chic, flexing or wasting it. U used it to save two lives. Don't worry God will see you through. Cheer up. Because u used the money well. Just go to your boss, humble yourself before him, let him see that u are remorse. Explain to him. Tell him u will pay installmentally. Please don't give up. It is a phase. It will surely pass. People will talk but remember we have a friend in Jesus. Humble yourself before your boss. I wish I can talk to him on your behalf. Be hopeful

blank:
So you stole your boss's money because you think he did not have any use for it? Why did you not go and steal from the market as you needed money? Tell me they would not burn you in the market square.

If the wife is your sister, u wouldn't have been thinking upside down like a slowpoke.. a mad man suggestion is even better than your useless opinion fool... So many daft people on nairaland ... SMH...

fredopareto:
what is ur qualification.. Fool u

Olodo rabata

pocohantas:
So, some clueless chick married a broke cheating NIGERIAN man?

What of the lady you got pregnant HERE?

I don’t know when ladies would realise that love is not enough. Especially when dealing with community pricks.

Go fix your mess Oga.

Oh my God

pocohantas:
So, some clueless chick married a broke cheating NIGERIAN man?

What of the lady you got pregnant HERE?

I don’t know when ladies would realise that love is not enough. Especially when dealing with community pricks.

Go fix your mess Oga.

Lesson to the ladies, don't step on another woman to become 'Mrs'

bocajunior37:
Please try and follow every detail of my story i need matured advice, please don't judge me.
Am a private school teacher and I got married three years ago my wife took in on our honeymoon night which was against my wish because after marriage guy man need to pick himself up after spending. Nine months later she delivered through ceseran (c.s) operation i had to borrow money from my boss 100k to pay back why working though we lost the baby due to stress. Last year she took in again, i prayed and cried to God for her to born successfully lo and behold she had to deliver through c.s again i was devasted, i cried and beg the doctor because the money for the operation is much i had to deposit my savings of 150k to the doctor and go out to source for the balance of 100k. I had to make use of my boss 100k without informing him to God be the glory the operation was successful my baby came out december 25th last year.
Now my boss want to arrest me because of his money[b] i had to run away from my home please advice me[/b]..

At the boldfaced, this is theft and your boss has the right to arrest you. I will do the same if I was your boss. You betrayed his trust.

blank:
So you stole your boss's money because you think he did not have any use for it? Why did you not go and steal from the market as you needed money? Tell me they would not burn you in the market square.

Are you mad ni? He said he used it for hospital bills. Should he have allowed his wife to be detained at the hospital? Your head no correct

pocohantas:
So, some clueless chick married a broke cheating NIGERIAN man?

What of the lady you got pregnant HERE?

I don’t know when ladies would realise that love is not enough. Especially when dealing with community pricks.

Go fix your mess Oga.

Are you mentally okay? Your head no correct.