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Hello everyone.

Had to create this moniker to avoid the bashings.

I am 26 currently and I'm single. But my problem seems to be that I'm more comfortable relating and thinking of relationships with ladies older than I am. I have dated in the past (Two relationships) and all were older than me. One was older than me with 5 years and I was very okay with it

I always tend to see ladies younger than me as too immature or unserious. I don't know if this is a problem.

I met a lady in her 30s recently. She's brilliant, a kind soul, crazy and everything I wish for in a lady, but she told me she can't have a relationship with me, although she admits she did actually like me. Her reasons are that I am not ready to wife her, and she doesn't think I'll be comfortable with it in the future

My friends think I'm crazy for liking ladies older than I am. I really don't know what to think anymore

It's not like it's a fetish, but ladies in their late 20s and 30s tend to know what they want, are responsible for themselves, are serious minded. Although they have their flaws, but these are the kind of people I want to get attracted to.

I don't know if this is psychological. Or if anyone who was in these shoes can advise me

Thanks

One chilled bottle of beer for you !

Vuvuvuzela:
Hello everyone.

Had to create this moniker to avoid the bashings.

I am 26 currently and I'm single. But my problem seems to be that I'm more comfortable relating and thinking of relationships with ladies older than I am. I have dated in the past (Two relationships) and all were older than me. One was older than me with 5 years and I was very okay with it

I always tend to see ladies younger than me as too immature or unserious. I don't know if this is a problem.

I met a lady in her 30s recently. She's brilliant, a kind soul, crazy and everything I wish for in a lady, but she told me she can't have a relationship with me, although she admits she did actually like me. Her reasons are that I am not ready to wife her, and she doesn't think I'll be comfortable with it in the future

My friends think I'm crazy for liking ladies older than I am. I really don't know what to think anymore

It's not like it's a fetish, but ladies in their late 20s and 30s tend to know what they want, are responsible for themselves, are serious minded. Although they have their flaws, but these are the kind of people I want to get attracted to.

I don't know if this is psychological. Or if anyone who was in these shoes can advise me

Thanks

bogdaddy:
One chilled bottle of beer for you !

Lol

Have you ever been in this kinda situation before?

Nothing bad about it. But just watch your back because it all balls down to experience, lust and manipulation. She might be tempting you, she might be really in love, so find out where her love compass is pointed out before "stories that touches the heart".

We have had enough " please advice me" stories here on nairaland about relationships. Its better to avoid trouble than to be taking pills after being sick.

It is normal.

No to be honest

Vuvuvuzela:
Lol

Have you ever been in this kinda situation before?

Vuvuvuzela:
Hello everyone.

Had to create this moniker to avoid the bashings.

I am 26 currently and I'm single. But my problem seems to be that I'm more comfortable relating and thinking of relationships with ladies older than I am. I have dated in the past (Two relationships) and all were older than me. One was older than me with 5 years and I was very okay with it

I always tend to see ladies younger than me as too immature or unserious. I don't know if this is a problem.

I met a lady in her 30s recently. She's brilliant, a kind soul, crazy and everything I wish for in a lady, but she told me she can't have a relationship with me, although she admits she did actually like me. Her reasons are that I am not ready to wife her, and she doesn't think I'll be comfortable with it in the future

My friends think I'm crazy for liking ladies older than I am. I really don't know what to think anymore

It's not like it's a fetish, but ladies in their late 20s and 30s tend to know what they want, are responsible for themselves, are serious minded. Although they have their flaws, but these are the kind of people I want to get attracted to.

I don't know if this is psychological. Or if anyone who was in these shoes can advise me

Thanks

Same here. I prefer women in their late 20s to early 30s. I can't date anyone less than 28-29. I'm just not. I need someone on the same level as me.

It is not a bad thing my brother, it happens to reasonable and mature guys becus it is difficult for them to handle babyish attitude from lower girls. I will advice you date your age group since you are 26 already or you continue playing games with older women till you get to like 30 n start dating or marry girl btw 26-30

You are not alone the kind of girls i love ❤️
1st 32 the other one 30 while I am 29
One 25 years old I am trying to reason with she’s telling me I need to be more spiritual she can’t date a guy who don’t pray or go to church.... the other one 24 years old still in school 2 levels can’t wait for her

Thank you all for your responses

I'm happy I am not alone on this.