Born20win:
Sorry meant to say cote

Eya, it's okay, education isn't everything. The correct spelling is "caught"

Mizwisdom:



Eya, it's okay, education isn't everything. The correct spelling is "caught"

Thanks I corrected it

I can forsee a new game that she will introduce to the neighbours' children when playing next time; called naked wrestling. Right now, she's thinking seriously about the rules of the game.

Tales by moonlight as usual

frozen70:


To me ohhh, I think you have to let her know that you guys are trying to have another baby that's why she met you and dad playing

Then ask her what gender she wants

After that, tell her to pray for God to help you and daddy get another child

Then you advise her that anytime any body wants to touch your body, run away because they have HIV AIDS

sex education should be taught to these children at early age so that they know what it is about

Then you guys can go to eateries and have a meal and when you cone back tell her they took her out to enjoy herself, so she should pray hard for you to have another baby

I don't want to blame you for the carelessness because you must have learnt your lessons

My dear I don’t want to go thru this baby talk with her anymore, last time it ended up with so many tears from her , she was even ready to go and stay with the neibor because over there they have many children she will play with me she was just tired of being the only child. This thing was stressful for me now she has forgotten about that, I don’t want to remind her again

Born20win:

My dear I don’t want to go thru this baby talk with her anymore, last time it ended up with so many tears from her , she was even ready to go and stay with the neibor because over there they have many children she will play with me she was just tired of being the only child. This thing was stressful for me now she has forgotten about that, I don’t want to remind her again

That's alright, my advice was base on your question, probably I responded late

Pls let her be, it's already over

Try and get her a beautiful doll baby

You never can tell

frozen70:

If you reason well, this is a girl child not a boy child
Mothers to daughters and sons in terms of sexual matters
Fathers to son, in terms of sexual matters
See it from that direction

hmm, ok.
its just a matter of a decade.

RisenPhoenix:
I can forsee a new game that she will introduce to the neighbours' children when playing; called naked wrestling.

Oshey o foreseer of the universe.

Ododo oro.

Elimon:
Bet anything in this life...but that girl will never let go of that memory...ever!
Funny thing is shell get to tell someone
Talking from experience

ibkayee:
Beat her for what exactly?

Well done, you've just ruined your daughter's life lool i'd be scarred forever

Like you didn't see worse when you were a kid, park well jare!

Iceyjays:
Like you didn't see worse when you were a kid, park well jare!

I didn't thank goodness lol

ibkayee:

I didn't thank goodness lol

Hmmmmm

Belurved1:
Ododo oro.

Translation

Reality talk

Elimon:

Translation

orbitalgis:


How does one write like this?This is painful to read.

Judging by how she typed, that should tell you it wasn't easy for her but she still had to try to her best ability because she needed advice desperately.
We should learn to stop judging people, give them a chance to express themselves as best as they can, and try our best to understand them.
No matter how smart we think we are, we don't always know it all.

Elimon:
Bet anything in this life...but that girl will never let go of that memory...ever!
Funny thing is shell get to tell someone
Talking from experience

She'll eventually grow into it, and probably laugh about it in the future. For now, she's probably the most miserable 7yr old

ojun50:
If say yr husband beat her una for no like wetin I go tell una dis night....

Start yr conservation like dis....
Why did you run out wen yr dad is beating me? .... then you listen to wht she is about to say

No be small beating

Thanks for helping a soul literally.

Kylekent59:
For a better understanding, this should be the summary :

My Daughter Caught Us Having Sex. Plz Help!


Please house, I need your help. My 7 years old daughter caught me and my hubby this afternoon having Sex. Actually, she was playing downstairs with the neighbours' children. We were not expecting her to come back upstairs anytime soon. Suddenly, she barged into our room and my hubby was on top of me. She saw both of us[ my hubby and i] naked which made her run out of the room.

My hubby and I were embarrassed with what she has seen, and because of that, my hubby wanted to deal with her, but i told him not to, it's not her fault : we should have locked the door. Now we don't know what to tell her. She has been quite and haven't asked me anything about what she had seen earlier.

She is now asleep, but i can't stop thinking about it. Is it necessary for me to talk to her about the sudden barge and what she saw or should i let go of it and move on as normal?. Thanks


Now I understand. You should have left your husband immediately ,and rush down to her, hug her, peck her, and tell her a story. Her mind would be brought back immediately.

donbachi:
In the morning start better cry,b4 her..if she ask why u are crying.tell her "u and ur husband came out 4rm d bathroom and an insect enter ur chonko miliky..dat wat she saw,was ur husband was trying to kill d insect and dat,d insect is still in there and u dont know wat to do...ask 4 her thought.

shwo chairman which one be chonko miliky again?

Mariangeles:

She'll eventually grow into it, and probably laugh about it in the future. For now, she's probably the most miserable 7yr old

She is not miserable she is doing fine playing with the neibor kids

Godsfavour78:
shwo chairman which one be chonko miliky again?

honeypot.

Born20win:

She is not miserable she is doing fine playing with the neibor kids

Thank God for that.

Mariangeles:

Thank God for that.

Thank you my dear

when i was about her age..i do sleep in the sitting room which is after parents room..i woke up to a funny breathing..i went into their room..i thought my dad was beating my mom...which he has never done before i became more worried..i went straight touched my moms head ..my dad remained still..i asked my mom is she is okay..she said yes..i went back to sleep..nobody said anything about it..but it never left my memory..i didnt understand what actually went on that night untill my first day to watch porn..so i will advice to talk to your daughter..7years is not to small to know about sex education.all she need to know

SHABASHA:
when i was about her age..i do sleep in the sitting room which is after parents room..i woke up to a funny breathing..i went into their room..i thought my dad was beating my mom...which he has never done before i became more worried..i went straight touched my moms head ..my dad remained still..i asked my mom is she is okay..she said yes..i went back to sleep..nobody said anything about it..but it never left my memory..i didnt understand what actually went on that night untill my first day to watch porn..so i will advice to talk to your daughter..7years is not to small to know about sex education.all she need to know

Thanks I will start teaching her sex education for from tomorrow but I don’t know how to start . I’m a bit nervous

Born20win:

Thanks I will start teaching her sex education for from tomorrow but I don’t know how to start . I’m a bit nervous

She's too young for sex education for heaven's sake. That is meant for teenagers.

Beat yourself n ur husband for been so careless are you really trying to spoil or expose ur daughter to this at such tender age?


Shame shame shame, shame!!!

Born20win:
Plz hux I nid ur help ooh my 7yes daughte caught t me and hubby this afternoon having sex actually she was playing downstairs with the neibor children we was not expecting her to come back anytime soon to my surprise she just entered our room boom hubby was on the top of me she saw both us naked then run. We was very embarrassed he wanted to go and beat her I told him to forgive b/cos it’s not her fault and we don’t know what to tell her. She is been quiet didn’t ask me anything about what she saw. She is now asleep but I can’t stop thinking about it. Is it necessary for me to talk to her about the incident in the morning or I should just leave it and carry on as normal. Thanks

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donbachi:
In the morning start better cry,b4 her..if she ask why u are crying.tell her "u and ur husband came out 4rm d bathroom and an insect enter ur chonko miliky..dat wat she saw,was ur husband was trying to kill d insect and dat,d insect is still in there and u dont know wat to do...ask 4 her thought.

Whaaaaat?! LMFAO!!!

Franzinni:
She knows what was going on don't think she doesn't .. But then in my opinion I would advice to not talk about it with her because she would not bring it up as well ... Talking about it only makes it more real and then it becomes a thing.. But if you carry on as usual she will in time push it into the back of her memory since it never became a thing ... Now I am no therapist or psychologist I am just using my layman understanding and how I have come to understand how the human mind works ... Retain power dynamic by not acknowledging that it happened ...life will return to how it has been . please keep locked doors cus its not easy to unsee somethings. Have a wonderful day ma'am

Lol at 'becoming a thing'. But you have a point. On the other hand, they might tell her it is what big people do.

Born20win:
Plz hux I nid ur help ooh my 7yes daughte caught t me and hubby this afternoon having sex actually she was playing downstairs with the neibor children we was not expecting her to come back anytime soon to my surprise she just entered our room boom hubby was on the top of me she saw both us naked then run. We was very embarrassed he wanted to go and beat her I told him to forgive b/cos it’s not her fault and we don’t know what to tell her. She is been quiet didn’t ask me anything about what she saw. She is now asleep but I can’t stop thinking about it. Is it necessary for me to talk to her about the incident in the morning or I should just leave it and carry on as normal. Thanks

If you have to tell her, (Maybe) you should tell her it's what adults do. That when she has her husband she will also do it.

Sex education before now was initially meant for teenagers, but today's children are well informed. As soon as a child can reason a little bit, please educate them on sex. A friend recently withdrew a 10years girl that was staying with the parents because the girl was playing with a 4 years old boy's sexual organ trying to have sex with him. When she was interrogated, she said she do see her mother several times having sex.

SweetCunt97:
She's too young for sex education for heaven's sake. That is meant for teenagers.