I was born of wedlock, my mom died when I was 4 years old and i have been staying with my grandparents for as long as I can remember. I want to know my dad, I want to see him, if he is still alive. Here is the little information I can provide. My mom(her name is Linda),siblings and her parents used to live in Benue state before she went to school in ABU Zaria, though she never graduated, came back home pregnant. From the little I was able to deduce from my grandma, she beat her badly and threaten to chase her from the house, but she didn't reveal my dad's identity, her senior sister (my aunty) even told me that she asked her as a sister and she refused to say anything. I once saw my birth certificate, it showed that I was born in Port Harcourt, asked grandma about it but she gave me no reply.
All what I wrote above happened between 1999 to 2001. I write this hoping someone who knew my mother (Linda)or even my dad might contact me. I look forward to ur replys

I feel your grandma and aunty don't want you to know

You have given no 'Surname' in your write-up hence, there will be little we can do with just the name 'Linda'.

I am sorry more details needed.Linda what

Teaveapoet:
I feel your grandma and aunty don't want you to know

i feel so too thats why i came here for help

dawnomike:
You have given no 'Surname' in your write-up hence, there will be little we can do with just the name 'Linda'.

Ok the name is Linda Pauro

uruba23:
I am sorry more details needed.Linda what

Pauro

If she got pregnant while in school, i would suspect a fellow student should be responsible as boyfriend or maybe through rape. So, you should find out the course your late mum was enrolled for and year. This will enable you connect with her course mates and with luck you might get somebody who has the information you are looking for.

Acers:

i feel so too thats why i came here for help

You don't have enough details.

mu2sa2:
If she got pregnant while in school, i would suspect a fellow student should be responsible as boyfriend or maybe through rape. So, you should find out the course your late mum was enrolled for and year. This will enable you connect with her course mates and with luck you might get somebody who has the information you are looking for.

I think it is political science and i would've asked but my family is hell-bent on keeping any information about her from me.

Acers:

Pauro

Great lets us hope your Dad remembers her name
Linda Pauro because i doubt he is aware she was pregnant.I dont know do you have access to her credentials...your surname is rare

Teaveapoet:


You don't have enough details.

I don't

uruba23:

Great lets us hope your Dad remembers her name
Linda Pauro because i doubt he is aware she was pregnant.

i really have no idea if he knows or doesn't

Acers:

I think it is political science and i would've asked but my family is hell-bent on keeping any information about her from me.

As an educated person, you can embark on this search by yourself even with the curious uncooperative attitude of your family members. Get the year she was in school and you are almost there by seeking help through online platforms (nairaland, Facebook, instagram etc) or even traditional media like newspapers and tv. Just be patient and dont give up.

You hv not given us enough information to help us locate ur dad..

Your dad is ur grand dad or uncle or some other relative.
I remember one girl like that I dated in Akwaibom back then, when she started telling me her secrets, one that really caught me was when she said her uncle is actually her father. According to her, her mum's brother was sleeping with her mum and she's the result. As usual nah, they'll do their usual meetings and banish him. As at then o, she was so convinced her uncle /dad is the reason for her misfortune. Truly, she's really unfortunate, I was just there for the banging till I added mine to her collections of abortions. She should be 29years old now and still unmarried, probably with someone else collecting his share.

Bluehill1051:
Your dad is ur grand dad or uncle or some other relative.
I remember one girl like that I dated in Akwaibom back then, when she started telling me her secrets, one that really caught me was when she said her uncle is actually her father. According to her, her mum's brother was sleeping with her mum and she's the result. As usual nah, they'll do their usual meetings and banish him. As at then o, she was so convinced her uncle /dad is the reason for her misfortune. Truly, she's really unfortunate, I was just there for the banging till I added mine to her collections of abortions. She should be 29years old now and still unmarried, probably with someone else collecting his share.

Can you imagine and you are so confident you didn't take your share of her misfortune.

faithfull18:

Can you imagine and so you are so confident you didn't take your share of her misfortune.

The fvck u know about misfortune!

Bluehill1051:
Your dad is ur grand dad or uncle or some other relative.
I remember one girl like that I dated in Akwaibom back then, when she started telling me her secrets, one that really caught me was when she said her uncle is actually her father. According to her, her mum's brother was sleeping with her mum and she's the result. As usual nah, they'll do their usual meetings and banish him. As at then o, she was so convinced her uncle /dad is the reason for her misfortune. Truly, she's really unfortunate, I was just there for the banging till I added mine to her collections of abortions. She should be 29years old now and still unmarried, probably with someone else collecting his share.

Thanks bro, but I think you are wrong cuz in my family am the only one with a fair complexion and to be honest I don't look like them

Bluehill1051:
The fvck u know about misfortune!

You will soon get to find out.

Carry out a thorough research because the information you provided is not enough to locate someone

Acers:
I was born of wedlock, my mom died when I was 4 years old and i have been staying with my grandparents for as long as I can remember. I want to know my dad, I want to see him, if he is still alive. Here is the little information I can provide. My mom(her name is Linda),siblings and her parents used to live in Benue state before she went to school in ABU Zaria, though she never graduated, came back home pregnant. From the little I was able to deduce from my grandma, she beat her badly and threaten to chase her from the house, but she didn't reveal my dad's identity, her senior sister (my aunty) even told me that she asked her as a sister and she refused to say anything. I once saw my birth certificate, it showed that I was born in Port Harcourt, asked grandma about it but she gave me no reply.
All what I wrote above happened between 1999 to 2001. I write this hoping someone who knew my mother (Linda)or even my dad might contact me. I look forward to ur replys

I don't wish to be you, but if I were you

Settle down where you are now as its going to be your village and state of origin

If you are not obedient to your grandparents, you may not be recognised and may not have an inheritance

You have reached your final destination and the earliest you accept your fate the best for you

Which years was she at ABU Zaria and what course did she get admission for? If your aunt or grandparents have a pic of her at that age, upload it too.

Also try facebook. That forum is a veritable goldmine for finding lost family.