This is from my fiance's girlfriend, she came to me for help and i decided to come here for how best to advise her.

'I'm 26, a virgin but when i tried to have a good time with my fiancee, i discovered I don't have any bodily sensation, i mean i didn't experience any urge eventhough, we took a long time during pre-intimacy. 
like i'm frigid, please what do I do?'

Question is - Why is your fiancee's girlfriend coming to you for help regarding a sexual matter? Are u a s.ex therapist?

I'm not a sex therapist. she is a our friend and i think she can discuss this with us because there's a level of trust and i wouldn't want to disappoint her.

pls i think it would be better to answer the question rather than trying to pry into the reason why she had to come to us for help, that is distraction from the objective of this topic.

still looking forward to helpful contributions. Thanks @ all.

There is discussion on this topic that i know will help you, i tried to post the links here for you but i couldn't get it right becos other forum links were not allowed. You can send me a mail and i will send you the links and way out.

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FRIGIDITY - This condition relate to women.


It is a sexual unresponsiveness of the female to physical stimulation, and inability to achieve orgasm during intercourse. The solution to this condition is here.

A 26 yr old virgin comes to the situation with a lot of preconceived ideas.

For a female, the psychology is important: Is she ready? Does she believe what she is doing is right? Does she trust her man? Does she believe he is the right man?

The male is also an important factor: Is he doing enough to turn her on? Is he putting pressure on her for her to have s.ex?

I would suggest they don't make a date to have s.ex as that would put too much pressure. Let is flow naturally from a good time/date, good laughs etc.

Most importantly, let her relax and enjoy herself is she is ready. It is an expression of love in the right circumstance.

thanks@ all and especially sms4health.

i appreciate

slimming: There is discussion on this topic that i know will help you, i tried to post the links here for you but i couldn't get it right becos other forum links were not allowed. You can send me a mail and i will send you the links and way out.

FRIGIDITY - This condition relate to women.


It is a sexual unresponsiveness of the female to physical stimulation, and inability to achieve orgasm during intercourse. The solution to this condition is here.

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netsurf: This is from my fiance's girlfriend, she came to me for help and i decided to come here for how best to advise her.

'I'm 26, a virgin but when i tried to have a good time with my fiancee, i discovered I don't have any bodily sensation, i mean i didn't experience any urge eventhough, we took a long time during pre-intimacy. 
like i'm frigid, please what do I do?'

Hi Netsurf, i will like to advice her not to think of sex now but to focus on sometime better than sex. Sex outside marriage is wrong. It a sin nd that might be a begining of many big problem, if their married emotion will come naturally. Thank u.

Pls keep ur virginity. U'll be glad u did. Keep it for dat man dat will pay ur dowry, I mean he'll value u more.

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