Over the years, amazing facts and insights have come to the limelight on Infidelity but i had to bring this down to an African level.

1) FELLAZ, YOU MAY CHEAT ON YOUR SPOUSE IF YOU DEPEND ON THEM FINANCIALLY
This point is something that concerns the men more than the women. A man who financially depends in part or completely on his spouse is 30% more likely to cheat on her than women. Women are only 5% likely. This is an important fact to take note of especially in African economies where the standards of living keep nose-diving on a daily. Job losses are also a constant and affected families are forced to re-adjust their family life.This adjustment is harder for the men. Now below is a point that i found interesting while researching. The solution to this problem is finding a job that can give you an opportunity to add value in your own little way. It works out great for your sense of manhood.

2)FLIRTING MEANS SOMETHING DIFFERENT TO BOTH OF YOU
This is an act we see everyday across Africa and the world over. Harmless as it seems, it’s fast becoming a serious issue. A report published in the Interpersonal Relations and Group Processes journal mid-2008 showed that Men who flirt with an attractive person of the opposite sex,become less tolerant of their partners mistakes BUT for women, they became more tolerant after they flirted with someone else.

Research says there a basically 6 reasons people flirt and this is

* Sex: A need to sleep with the other party

* Fun: It’s a sport

* Exploring: Gauging what a relationship with party 2 could be like

* Relational: Improving the intimacy of an existing relationship

* Esteem: Helps ones self-esteem

* Instrumental: When some other party needs to get something from you (ouch!)

3)THE SEX OF WHO MY PARTNER CHEATS WITH MATTERS
When speaking to client’s who had been cheated on by a partner, i noticed a pattern. Men who their wives cheated on with another man felt angry but in those colorful cases where the woman cheated on him with another woman, they “claimed” to be angry but on further observation and discussion, it turned out they were aroused and wished they could have angry sex with the other woman with their spouse watching �.

The women however would feel disappointed if their partner cheated on them with someone of the opposite sex BUT women who their partners cheated with someone of the same sex, 90% of them were up for ending the relationship. The top reasons being that a man who could hide his sexuality wouldn’t be able to tell the truth about anything else.

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