Hey Nl,
I have clients from many places around the world, but I have a problem, I get emotional with them. Many atimes, I would leave this clients myself because of the fact that I want them to be happy so much that I fear I may fail them in a little way. It's called anxiety

In my business deals, I care about the objectives/goals of my clients, and with them, I always have a form for them to fill. I'm a very nice person, and very empathetic so most of my potential clients develop a high trust and love for me. And thus, when they put mouth into the story of their lives, I won't be able to stop them, and they go very deep. I usually end up turning to a counsellor or a friend because naturally, I'm endowed with deep understanding of things,and how to solve some problems.

Back to business now, I would not wish to charge them too much, or make them feel uncomfortable in anyway (this is me naturally, I will not charge my friend in real life for a job that doesn't require me to extra spend, and I love me like that).

Sometimes, I fear if they are not happy with some things, it might add more to their depression, all these fear would make me run away or even tell them I'm busy or do it for free for them depending on the type of service they need.

It seems an average person from Europe and America has some problems they are battling, and I cannot turn myself off from their battle when I know the solution, that's not possible.
It seems I have no way out of this. I know myself always seeing opportunities for people near me and would wants to solve their problems or help them grow, this is why I do not have close friends, because I fear the mental work would be too much.
This night, I checked my mail and saw a potential client who has written me what I asked her to do, we started talking, and I notice it's heading to that direction of me turning to a counsellor, yes, I love counselling people, and making people feel at ease but it leads me to be too sympathetic that I end up charging less
What is your suggestion?
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If you are a Nigerian, and your only problem is poverty, you need to thank God. Some people are wealthy but full of different problems that disturbs their mental health so much. Be thankful

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Clients are not hard to find ...good clients are not impossible to find ...but a good friend....now that is something...

If you value business more, then you will know that business and friendship don't mix so be nice and empathic but ruthless when its time for making money ...

If you value friendship more, then you will know that good friendship involves willingness to sacrifice even at the expense to self..knowing FULLY well that the other person will do the same for you in a heart beat ...

So if you know the value of your friendship with these clients of yours, you would easily be able to gauge how much involvement you would like to have in their personal issues and how much you will like to avoid personal issues for yourself and chase that paper...

2 cents

You cannot long separate the emotions from transactional sex. Since you left that part to us, I have to assume your product is sexual content or something of the nature.

Franzinni:
Clients are not hard to find ...good clients are not impossible to find ...but a good friend....now that is something...

If you value business more, then you will know that business and friendship don't mix so be nice and empathic but ruthless when its time for making money ...

If you value friendship more, then you will know that good friendship involves willingness to sacrifice even at the expense to self..knowing FULLY well that the other person will do the same for you in a heart beat ...

So if you know the value of your friendship with these clients of yours, you would easily be able to gauge how much involvement you would like to have in their personal issues and how much you will like to avoid personal issues for yourself and chase that paper...

2 cents

They are the one that start such not me. You know how whites people could be, especially when they find you a good person

ModelX:
You cannot long separate the emotions from transactional sex. Since you left that part to us, I have to assume your product is sexual content or something of the nature.

Lol, they are international client. My business have nothing to do with such things. It's branding & Smm services that I offer. Most times, they chat me first and tell me how they want me to help them

ModestGal:

They are the one that start such not me. You know how whites people could be, especially when they find you a good person

yeah white people are generally straight forward and hey, if you get to have them as good friends ...not a bad thing cus we are only as important as our connections ..


But bill them normal normal ... They understand the value of a good business transaction, so it shouldn't be a problem for you ...

If they wana tell you their life story listen and help ..then bill them normal normal haha dem no go vex ...

ModestGal:
Hey Nl,
I have clients from many places around the world, but I have a problem, I get emotional with them. Many atimes, I would leave this clients myself because of the fact that I want them to be happy so much that I fear I may fail them in a little way. It's called anxiety

In my business deals, I care about the objectives/goals of my clients, and with them, I always have a form for them. I'm a very nice person, and very empathetic so most of my potential clients develop a high trust and love for me. And thus, when they put mouth into the story of their lives, I won't be able to stop them, and they go very deep. I usually end up turning to a counsellor or a friend because naturally, I'm endowed with deep understanding of things,and how to solve some problems.

Back to business now, I would not wish to charge them too much, or make them feel uncomfortable in anyway (this is me naturally, I will not charge my friend in real life for a job that doesn't require me to extra spend, and I love me like that).

Sometimes, I fear if they are not happy with some things, it might add more to their depression, all these fear would make me run away or even tell them I'm busy or do it for free for them depending on the type of service they need.

It seems an average person from Europe and America has some problems they are battling, and I cannot turn myself off from their battle when I know the solution, that's not possible.
It seems I have no way out of this. I know myself always seeing opportunities for people neare and would wants to solve thier problems or help them grow, this is why I do not have close friends, because I fear the mental work would be too much.
This night, I checked my mail and saw a potential client who has written me what I asked her to do, we started talking, and I notice it's heading to that direction
What is your suggestion?
............
If you are a Nigerian, and your only problem is poverty, you need to thank God. Some people are wealthy but full of different problems that disturbs their mental health so much. Be thankful

what kind of biz u do? and u saying u get emotional and sleep with them also abi kini?

Stop charging them.

bmdmixer:
what kind of biz u do? and u saying u get emotional and sleep with them also abi kini?

So I will sleep with people in the UK, US, Greece, etc from Nigeria? No be everyone dey dirty like you abeg, read what I posted, I get emotional with their problems when they tell me. They are usually females and I'm a female

WalkerMichael:
Stop charging them.

Will you be feeding me? My hair products cost 30k, will you be buying them for me? Will you be sending money to my account? Because I do cry when money in my account is in a bad state

Franzinni:
yeah white people are generally straight forward and hey, if you get to have them as good friends ...not a bad thing cus we are only as important as our connections ..


But bill them normal normal ... They understand the value of a good business transaction, so it shouldn't be a problem for you ...

If they wana tell you their life story listen and help ..then bill them normal normal haha dem no go vex ...

Thanks, listening to their life story can be too touching. I'm thinking of concentrating on Nigerian clients

ModestGal:

Thanks, listening to their life story can be too touching. I'm thinking of concentrating on Nigerian clients

Ramadan Mubarak dear

Just go into counseling job

ModestGal:

So I will sleep with people in the UK, US, Greece, etc from Nigeria? No be everyone dey dirty like you abeg, read what I posted, I get emotional with their problems when they tell me. They are usually females and I'm a female

maybe u feeling attached because dey are in foreign lands, africans n over seas sentiment

Elpacino481:
Ramadan Mubarak dear

Aamin
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bmdmixer:
maybe u feeling attached because dey are in foreign lands, africans n over seas sentiment

You sha wan abuse me abi? I feel attached to Nigerians the more, but for Nigerians, they become friends, I don't consider these one's as my friends

blaskikv:
Just go into counseling job

No money there for now, requires me to develop it to a certain stage with my money before I could earn from it

ModestGal:

You sha wan abuse me abi? I feel attached to Nigerians the more, but for Nigerians, they become friends, I don't consider these one's as my friends

ok get it locals not friends foreigners friends, n nope am not insulting.

ModestGal:

Aamin

Thanks. I'll chat you up later

Elpacino481:
Thanks. I'll chat you up later

Ok, please help edit my number from there

ModestGal:

Ok, please help edit my number from there

Done

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TheCalculator:

Good morning Sir,
you inquired about the price of oil perfume on my thread, I am unable to respond using my original moniker macsjebs due to a ban, Pls kindly reach me on whatsapp via the phone number on the thread
Thanks

Okay

I suggest you alter your business model to cater for the emotional needs of your clients.

Am I A Yahoo Boy

Frenchkiss564:
I suggest you alter your business model to cater for the emotional needs of your clients.

How?

Chuky7:
Am I A Yahoo Boy

Thanks for asking yourself

ModestGal:

Thanks for asking yourself

Hahaha � �