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Hello folks here are series of scenarios for both guys n gals to respond to in their own way:

Ur BF travels to Dubai but lies to u that his company sent him there meanwhile truth is he went on his own tip n for his own business.

Ur GF hardly calls u except wen she needs sometin den she can call u like 20 times in day.

Ur BF hardly gives u money for ur hair, clothes, creme, etc but he buys u food, takes care of some bills, buys u credit n bales u out of financial messes,etc

Ur GF hardly ever says thank u for stuff u do for her.

Ur BF doesn't have a job but he hustles for himself so he is not always liquid.

If u buy credit for her she won't call u until she wants some more credit.

Of all the guys that have toasted and are toasting u, BF is amongst the least financially capable.

GF gets angry over lil tins quite easily n u have to apologise over n over again to get her to simmer down.

BF is not very romantic but he's quite caring.

U discover GF is getting money from other guys.

Just a few scenarios to respond to with ur own take on the issues. Go ahead guys n gals thrill me (as u usually do!).

Dats the recycling process

C'mon folks lets hear u!

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=582473.msg7496644#msg7496644 date=1294602814]Hello folks here are series of scenarios for both guys n gals to respond to in their own way:

your GF hardly calls u except wen she needs sometin den she can call u like 20 times in day.
dump her a$$ faster as we clearly have different views of a relationship

your GF hardly ever says thank u for stuff u do for her.
i would stop doing these things until she appreciate the gesture.

If u buy credit for her she won't call u until she wants some more credit.
then no more credit for this babe.

GF gets angry over lil tins quite easily n u have to apologise over n over again to get her to simmer down.
if she has issues then i will quietly remove myself from the picture so she can go and get help.

U discover GF is getting money from other guys.
thats the moment she will officially become EX gf.

Just a few scenarios to respond to with your own take on the issues. Go ahead guys n gals thrill me (as u usually do!).[/quote]

LoL MBJ. . . direct as always

Hello folks here are series of scenarios for both guys n gals to respond to in their own way:

your BF travels to Dubai but lies to u that his company sent him there meanwhile truth is he went on his own tip n for his own business.
[color=#9900ff]Don't like lies.  What's the big deal in him lying about that? [/color]

your BF hardly gives u money for your hair, clothes, creme, etc but he buys u food, takes care of some bills, buys u credit n bales u out of financial messes,etc
[color=#9900ff]Is he supposed to give me money for things for my body? I can handle him buying food but i pay my bills and handle my own ish. [/color]

your BF doesn't have a job but he hustles for himself so he is not always liquid.
[color=#9900ff]Jobs come and go. [/color]

Of all the guys that have toasted and are toasting u, BF is amongst the least financially capable.
[color=#9900ff]And the point is? [/color]

BF is not very romantic but he's quite caring.
[color=#9900ff]We are matched then   I can't abide insipid sweetness.[/color]

your BF hardly gives u money for your hair, clothes, creme, etc but he buys u food, takes care of some bills, buys u credit n bales u out of financial messes,etc
[color=#9900ff]Is he supposed to give me money for things for my body? I can handle him buying food but i pay my bills and handle my own ish. [/color]

So if he does those things for u u gonna yell at him?


Of all the guys that have toasted and are toasting u, BF is amongst the least financially capable.
[color=#9900ff]And the point is? [/color]

The point is BF is struggling while the others just cruise. It would ease alot of financial burdens for u if BF was cruising too.

Do this apply to husbands and wives?

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=582473.msg7510854#msg7510854 date=1294774359]your BF hardly gives u money for your hair, clothes, creme, etc but he buys u food, takes care of some bills, buys u credit n bales u out of financial messes,etc
[color=#9900ff]Is he supposed to give me money for things for my body? I can handle him buying food but i pay my bills and handle my own ish. [/color]

So if he does those things for u u gonna yell at him?[/quote][color=#9900ff]Why do i have to yell? Am i losing my voice or something?
I can settle for some sharing - half and half or alternate months with regards to bills.  As for hair and all that, sorry but no. . .it's not his responsibility.  Should he take responsibility for everything? What about wiping my nyansh?  [/color]


[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=582473.msg7510854#msg7510854 date=1294774359]Of all the guys that have toasted and are toasting u, BF is amongst the least financially capable.
[color=#9900ff]And the point is? [/color]

The point is BF is struggling while the others just cruise. It would ease alot of financial burdens for u if BF was cruising too.[/quote][color=#9900ff]Again what is the point?  Does his struggling make him less of the man he is? Or is money supposed to magically correct the 'character/spirit' of a person?  Should i ask him for yacht and jet plane? If we can eat, transport ourselves (no i dont mean owning a car), get a fair amount of our needs and wants. . .what is wrong with that? Ease which financial burdens? I should be raking up the financial burdens and dump it on his head to settle? What about his own financial burdens?

Sometimes i don't understand people.[/color]

I don't understand men.

@Mrs, Eve
Go ahead n answer maybe we'll get to undastnd each orda more

@iice
i have a friend who'd luv 2 marry u! lol
Sadly u know dis is wat some struggling guys have to put up wit. I wish there were more undastndin females like u.

[color=#9900ff]Lol i know, i hear guys complain all the time.
Hoho! I maybe be understanding but i have my other problems [/color]

^^ . . . . brb

[color=#9900ff]Wetin again?[/color]

^^You said you have your own problems . . . . .I hope it's excluded what i'm thinking

[color=#9900ff]Which would be?[/color]

Men complain more than women. They are becoming sissify too much for me.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Which would be?[/color]

IIce stop teasing . . .lol

@iice
Having problems is not d problem we all do but dat lack of undastandin just kills it 4 me.
4 u lemme guess u are tom-boy n u are fiercely independent. so wat else?

I don't depend on no man for shit.

L. Reed, there is nothing wrong with Iice being independent and women have to learn to fend for themselves because there is no promise a negro gon stay with you. And God forbid he step out on her she will have to pick up where he left off.

You do not need to depend on no man ladies. Just keeping it real.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=582473.msg7496644#msg7496644 date=1294602814]your BF travels to Dubai but lies to u that his company sent him there meanwhile truth is he went on his own tip n for his own business.

I will be upset for lying and I don't get the point why he needs to lie.

your BF hardly gives u money for your hair, clothes, creme, etc but he buys u food, takes care of some bills, buys u credit n bales u out of financial messes,etc

Not a big deal coz it's my personal wellness and its my personal obligation to pay for it.

your BF doesn't have a job but he hustles for himself so he is not always liquid.

Its OK as long he is doing something good for himself to survive. Anyway, financial condition is not permanent.

Of all the guys that have toasted and are toasting u, BF is amongst the least financially capable.

He must have Goodwill.

BF is not very romantic but he's quite caring.

It's fine with me. It's not hard for a caring person to be romantic.[/quote]

@iice, Again what is the point? Does his struggling make him less of the man he is? Or is money supposed to magically correct the 'character/spirit' of a person? Should i ask him for yacht and jet plane? If we can eat, transport ourselves (no i dont mean owning a car), get a fair amount of our needs and wants. . .what is wrong with that?

You are a rare GEM

Hmnmnm. . .

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=582473.msg7520322#msg7520322 date=1294893093]IIce stop teasing . . .lol[/quote][color=#9900ff]I dey ask nau. I don't know what you're thinking [/color]


[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=582473.msg7529253#msg7529253 date=1294979923]@iice
Having problems is not d problem we all do but dat lack of undastandin just kills it 4 me.
4 u lemme guess u are tom-boy n u are fiercely independent. so wat else?[/quote][color=#9900ff]True that. I just refer to them as my problems so no long tori
Plenty ooo [/color]

@iice
Oyah tell us 2

@Mrs.Chima
Am not saying anytin is wrong wit iice's independence in fact I tink it makes for a more exciting relationship.

@Eyah
so u won't suspect him of cheating?

[color=#9900ff] Not meant for public consumption [/color]

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=582473.msg7534725#msg7534725 date=1295041751]@Eyah
so u won't suspect him of cheating?[/quote]If the reasons are not acceptable for me, I would think that there is something fishy on that trip.