Lord_Reed:

Hello folks here are series of scenarios for both guys n gals to respond to in their own way:

your GF hardly calls u except wen she needs sometin den she can call u like 20 times in day.
dump her a$$ faster as we clearly have different views of a relationship

your GF hardly ever says thank u for stuff u do for her.
i would stop doing these things until she appreciate the gesture.

If u buy credit for her she won't call u until she wants some more credit.
then no more credit for this babe.

GF gets angry over lil tins quite easily n u have to apologise over n over again to get her to simmer down.
if she has issues then i will quietly remove myself from the picture so she can go and get help.

U discover GF is getting money from other guys.
thats the moment she will officially become EX gf.

Just a few scenarios to respond to with your own take on the issues. Go ahead guys n gals thrill me (as u usually do!).

Lord_Reed:

your BF hardly gives u money for your hair, clothes, creme, etc but he buys u food, takes care of some bills, buys u credit n bales u out of financial messes,etc
Is he supposed to give me money for things for my body? I can handle him buying food but i pay my bills and handle my own ish.

So if he does those things for u u gonna yell at him?

Why do i have to yell? Am i losing my voice or something?
I can settle for some sharing - half and half or alternate months with regards to bills.  As for hair and all that, sorry but no. . .it's not his responsibility.  Should he take responsibility for everything? What about wiping my nyansh? 

Lord_Reed:

Of all the guys that have toasted and are toasting u, BF is amongst the least financially capable.
And the point is?

The point is BF is struggling while the others just cruise. It would ease alot of financial burdens for u if BF was cruising too.

iice:

Which would be?

Lord_Reed:

your BF travels to Dubai but lies to u that his company sent him there meanwhile truth is he went on his own tip n for his own business.

I will be upset for lying and I don't get the point why he needs to lie.

your BF hardly gives u money for your hair, clothes, creme, etc but he buys u food, takes care of some bills, buys u credit n bales u out of financial messes,etc

Not a big deal coz it's my personal wellness and its my personal obligation to pay for it.

your BF doesn't have a job but he hustles for himself so he is not always liquid.

Its OK as long he is doing something good for himself to survive. Anyway, financial condition is not permanent.

Of all the guys that have toasted and are toasting u, BF is amongst the least financially capable.

He must have Goodwill.

BF is not very romantic but he's quite caring.

It's fine with me. It's not hard for a caring person to be romantic.

D-sense:

IIce stop teasing . . .lol

I dey ask nau. I don't know what you're thinking

Lord_Reed:

@iice
Having problems is not d problem we all do but dat lack of undastandin just kills it 4 me.
4 u lemme guess u are tom-boy n u are fiercely independent. so wat else?

True that. I just refer to them as my problems so no long tori
Plenty ooo

Lord_Reed:


@Eyah
so u won't suspect him of cheating?