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I believe many of you can relate with this because you may either be a victim of envy or the one envious of someone else. If you belong to any of the categories, this article is aimed at helping you navigate this emotion. Envy is a strong emotion that can easily over-power the person who feels it.

“Many couples who have fallen in love now live with partners who went from a place of admiration for what their partners do, to a place of i can do it too (which is a marvelous thing). However many have taken it overboard to a point of envious competition”.
This is something many partners NEVER want to mention because it sounds very twisted to even begin to imagine it in a relationship. Fortunately we are not looking at this emotion from a relationship point of view but rather as it applies to living.

The Psychology of Envy and Jealousy:

This emotion "envy" has shockingly been at the root of many success stories as well. People who have accepted this emotion the moment they felt it and quickly channeled it to goal setting, planning and letting the urge motivate them towards growth and expansion turn out as better individuals.
Unfortunately, our levels of self-will differ ..
When you want something and you are willing to accept that you want it, you get envious (yes thats the root of both go-getting and hating), become motivated to go and achieve it and admire other people who are also on the path to getting it. On the flip-side, there are people who want something another person has but rather than getting motivated to go and work for this get envious, then get jealous, start hating people who are on the path to becoming and in extreme cases resort to ...
https://templeobike.com/2020/05/01/admiration-envy-jealousy/

It's all about creating a balance. All things being equal, no one gets envious or jealous without feeling threatened. It's the fear that makes an individual jealous. E.g my friend or partner may stop communicating with me because they're doing better than I am and they may leave me. So in reaction to that, I start getting jealous. When two of you are going on the streets and you see one admired while you're not, you start feeling you may be abandoned and so envy and jealousy creep in. That is why it's better one gets closer to people of his calibre and if they step ahead, it's either you also move up or you reduce your presence around them.

I think the love between some friends are shallow from the go and not built on anything more than their love for basic things. When something good happens to one of the members, the rest feel this means they are not as succesful, appealing or favored. Which is wrong.

traihit:
It's all about creating a balance. All things being equal, no one gets envious or jealous without feeling threatened. It's the fear that makes an individual jealous. E.g my friend or partner may stop communicating with me because they're doing better than I am and they may leave me. So in reaction to that, I start getting jealous. When two of you are going on the streets and you see one admired while you're not, you start feeling you may be abandoned and so envy and jealousy creep in. That is why it's better one gets closer to people of his calibre and if they step ahead, it's either you also move up or you reduce your presence around them.

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