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'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Kobojunkie: 6:07pm On May 06, 2020
With limited access to abortion and antenatal care, many young mothers are falling prey to the country’s human traffickers


Young pregnant girls are being targeted by traffickers via social media. Photograph: Adekunle Ajayi/NurPhoto

wo months after 17-year-old Ebere fell pregnant last year, she considered having an abortion. But she was told by a doctor that such a process – eight weeks into her pregnancy – could lead to complications.

Going home to her parents after visiting the doctor wasn’t an option for Ebere, who feared her strict father would beat her and shame her in their neighbourhood. The father of the baby had denied all responsibility and threatened to kill her if she ever tried to contact him again.

A nurse, who saw the troubled young girl sitting in the hospital, approached her to find out what was wrong. Ebere explained her situation and the nurse showed her a Facebook page of a man she said was a social worker who helped pregnant women in her position. She told her to call the phone number.

“When I called and explained my situation, he asked me to meet him at a popular restaurant in town,” says Ebere, speaking to the Guardian in her home city of Enugu, in south-eastern Nigeria. “When we met, he offered to take me to his home and care for me until I gave birth, but only if I was willing to sell the baby to him.”

With no other options, Ebere accepted his offer. She moved in with the man without telling her family. For her, it was the best way to escape the trouble she’d have faced had she returned home, and she could make some money at the same time.

“I didn’t even ask him what he wanted to do with my baby,” Ebere says. “All I wanted was to get rid of the baby and take my money.”

After Ebere gave birth to a boy, the man she’d been living with sold the baby to a married couple. He gave the young girl 70,000 naira (about £140). Ebere returned to her family, telling them she had been kidnapped by traffickers who took her to a remote village and forced her to work as a domestic slave before freeing her.
“Everyone felt sorry for me,” says Ebere. “My parents wanted to inform the police but I convinced them not to do so by giving them the impression I didn’t want to be reminded about the trauma of my captivity.”
Ebere is one of many young girls in south-eastern Nigeria that the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (Naptip) says have been drawn into a lucrative trade in baby trafficking. According to the agency, girls involved in the trade are known as “social mothers”. Impoverished young women with nowhere else to turn and who have no access to abortion or antenatal care are being targeted.
Traffickers pose as social workers, offering help to pregnant women who need support. In reality, Naptip says they are frontmen and women in the business of selling babies to couples or to middlemen. They typically charge $1,500 (£1,200) for a baby girl and $2,000 (£1,600) for a boy.
“Many young girls are being impregnated by their boyfriends but because they don’t want their families to know about their pregnancy, they meet baby sellers who hide them until they give birth,” says Comfort Agboko, head of Naptip’s south-east office. “Their babies are then sold by these baby sellers who only give them a token of maybe 50,000 naira (about £100).”
Stories of baby trading are not uncommon in Nigeria, where at least 10 children are reportedly sold across the country every day. Each year several children – including nearly two dozen freed in February – are rescued by security forces from traffickers, most of whom operate in the south of the country. The majority of those trafficked are children of young women held captive until their babies are born and then released, their babies sold on. Naptip says cases involving social mothers are increasing in the region.
“Baby sellers see the business as a normal trade and that is why they act as if they are selling any other goods,” says Agboko. “In some cases, the child passes through up to five buyers.”
Authorities have struggled to deal with human trafficking due to inadequate funding and a lack of cooperation between the police and Naptip. When cases do reach court, a sluggish judicial system allows trials to drag on for years, denying timely justice for victims.“We are being frustrated by court processes,” complains Agboko, who says Naptip has apprehended a number of baby traffickers in recent months. “Many times we go to court, we are told that the judges are in tribunal [for local election petitions] or have gone for one assignment or the other.”
While those challenges remain, traffickers continue to use every available avenue to trade babies, including contacting expectant mothers via social media.
“About half a dozen single mothers we have supported financially in the south-east have said they had been in touch with baby traffickers in a bid to market their infants,” says Abang Robert, public relations head of Caprecon Development And Peace Initiative, an NGO providing support for victims of human trafficking and single mothers. “In most cases, the deal fell through because the traffickers offered so little.”For mothers such as Ebere who have sold their babies using traffickers, there is no way back.
“My father would have killed me if he saw that I was pregnant with a man I wasn’t married to,” says Ebere. “I had no choice but to let the baby go.”

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Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Tissaia(f): 6:07pm On May 06, 2020
shocked
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Simplyleo: 6:13pm On May 06, 2020
There is a group of people that the only thing that deserves their respect is money.

This is why they have placed the likes of Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates and Dangote on the same status with god. As far as they are concerned, everything these big men say or do are just perfect.

The more reason they wake their parents up from sleep as if they are kicking footballs. Especially if the parents are poor.

To those people, selling their own babies to make some 10k is not a big deal. After all, what they want and worship is money.

Meanwhile, I didn't check name in this report o. Before one overzealous mod ban me for tribal comment. undecided
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Xristars(m): 6:13pm On May 06, 2020
What can I say. SAD! Young girls keep your legs closed until you are married.
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by AbbeyvanPersie(m): 6:15pm On May 06, 2020
If you must fvck, use condom. It will save you a lot of troubles
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by AbbeyvanPersie(m): 6:16pm On May 06, 2020
shocked
bros lalasticlala, are you not surprised by this news?
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by princdebola201(m): 6:17pm On May 06, 2020
If not for poverty how will a sane human carry pregnancy for 9months and end up selling it for meal ticket.

Well NBS have already confirmed south east region as poverty capital of southern Nigeria i'm not suprised
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Kobojunkie: 6:22pm On May 06, 2020
AbbeyvanPersie:
If you must fvck, use condom. It will save you a lot of troubles
Save whom a lot of troubles? The woman who carries the burden of the mistake made or the man who can easily walk away in a setting such as the one that is Nigeria? undecided undecided undecided
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Kobojunkie: 6:23pm On May 06, 2020
princdebola201:
If not for poverty how will a sane human carry pregnancy for 9months and end up selling it for meal ticket.
Well NBS have already confirmed south east region as poverty capital of southern Nigeria i'm not suprised
Sell it as a meal ticket or sell it because she is not able to care for it? Lets not generalize please.
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Kobojunkie: 6:24pm On May 06, 2020
Xristars:
What can I say. SAD!
Young girls keep your legs closed until you are married.
Really? The same way young boys keeps their dicks tied before they are married? undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by princdebola201(m): 6:25pm On May 06, 2020
Kobojunkie:

Sell it as a meal ticket or sell it because she is not able to care for it? Lets not generalize please.
i gues u re not aware there re 100 of babyfactory business in all south east states

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Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by AbbeyvanPersie(m): 6:27pm On May 06, 2020
Kobojunkie:

Save whom a lot of troubles? The woman who carries the burden of the mistake made or the man who can easily walk away in a setting such as the one that is Nigeria? undecided undecided undecided
condom will save you and your side chick from transfering STD to each other and save that your side chick from unwanted pregnancy.
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by DanseMacabre(m): 6:29pm On May 06, 2020
Simplyleo:
There is a group of people that the only thing that deserves their respect is money.

This is why they have placed the likes of Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates and Dangote on the same status with god. As far as they are concerned, everything these big men say or do are just perfect.

The more reason they wake their parents up from sleep as if they are kicking footballs. Especially if the parents are poor.

To those people, selling their own babies to make some 10k is not a big deal. After all, what they want and worship is money.

Meanwhile, I didn't check name in this report o. Before one overzealous mod ban me for tribal comment. undecided

Your post smacks of ethnic bias and cowardice. If the needful is done now by either banning you or striking out such trite and psychopathic comments, you go start to cry up and down.

Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Simplyleo: 6:31pm On May 06, 2020
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DanseMacabre:


Your post smacks of ethnic bias and cowardice. If the needful is done now by either banning you or striking out such trite and psychopathic comments, you go start to cry up and down.
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Get the heck outta my mention.

And what stops you from doing either or both?
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Simplyleo: 6:33pm On May 06, 2020
princdebola201:
i gues u re not aware there re 100 of babyfactory business in all south east states
Even if he is claiming "not aware", we are aware.
undecided
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by DanseMacabre(m): 6:33pm On May 06, 2020
Simplyleo:
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Get the heck outta my mention.

And what stops you from doing either or both?

Taaah! Die it!
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Simplyleo: 6:58pm On May 06, 2020
DanseMacabre:


Taaah! Die it!
Well, I can't remember mentioning any tribe. But can you mention the tribe is involved in those practices?

grin grin grin
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Kobojunkie: 7:16pm On May 06, 2020
princdebola201:
i gues u re not aware there re 100 of babyfactory business in all south east states
This particular story is not about the babyfactories but about the plight of young women in Nigeria today. The market for Babys that fuels these many babyfactories you speak of is a whole 'nother topic for another thread
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Kobojunkie: 7:18pm On May 06, 2020
AbbeyvanPersie:
condom will save you and your side chick from transfering STD to each other and save that your side chick from unwanted pregnancy.

Who wears the condom? The chick or the man? If the man does not wear the condom, what is the woman left with to protect herself?

Lets not now pretend we do not know that our children are already having sex en masse in a country like Nigeria. Read the Editorial again to better understand that this is not a call to chastise gals but a call to do something about a problem that remains unchecked.
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by AbbeyvanPersie(m): 7:57pm On May 06, 2020
Kobojunkie:


Who wears the condom? The chick or the man? If the man does not wear the condom, what is the woman left with to protect herself?

Lets not now pretend we do not know that our children are already having sex en masse in a country like Nigeria. Read the Editorial again to better understand that this is not a call to chastise gals but a call to do something about a problem that remains unchecked.
exactly, what are you trying to prove? From my 1st comment to the last one, bring out my mistake. Didn't you read my comments or you have something against me?
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Xristars(m): 8:30pm On May 06, 2020
Kobojunkie:

Really? The same way young boys keeps their dicks tied before they are married? undecided undecided undecided undecided
You just said so.
I'm an advocate of abstinence, I will never advice pre marital sex and use of condom. Dont let d devil decide you.
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Kobojunkie: 8:46pm On May 06, 2020
Xristars:

You just said so.
I'm an advocate of abstinence, I will never advice pre marital sex and use of condom. Dont let d devil decide you.
Advocate all you want though but the story is about an already pregnant woman seeking help in a country where cultural taboos structured against the female kind still continue to pose serious problems, leading desperate women into selling babies. How does suggesting abstinence help in her case?
Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Cuddlebugie(f): 8:55pm On May 06, 2020
Tribal bigots have polluted this thread.

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Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by irunoko(m): 9:02pm On May 06, 2020
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Re: 'I Had No Choice': The Desperate Nigerian Women Who Sell Their Babies by Biafra1stson: 9:14pm On May 06, 2020
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