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Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by Dtruthspeaker: 4:12pm On Nov 22
MrBrownJay1:


fight someone for doing something they've done for +20yrs? lol... stop wasting your time, as such action can send you 6 feet under. tell your mother to leave this abusive demon and basta... but raising your hand on your father aint gonna end well for you!

do you actually think that any father would accept that the ungrateful child they fed/raised/schooled for +20yrs suddenly think he/she can beat you and tell you what to do?!

That is why it is Very Bad to Do A Wicked Thing, for when you Do Wrong, even your New Born Baby, is Right To Reject You, because you are Evil!

For it is The Law - "All Workers of Wickedness Must Be Cut Off" and "A wise King Scattereth All Evil"
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by SUPERPACK: 4:14pm On Nov 22
OchoL:


I gave you the response that matches your stupidity and I will do it again.
The rant of a dead useless ant.
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by OchoL: 4:18pm On Nov 22
SUPERPACK:
The rant of a dead useless ant.

Lol. So this is the best you can come up with? cheesy Childish git
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by SUPERPACK: 4:18pm On Nov 22
OchoL:


Lol. So this is the best you can come up with? cheesy Childish git
The rants of a dead useless ant.
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by Dtruthspeaker: 4:33pm On Nov 22
bukatyne:


An interesting angle.

What if the children decide to relate with the parents from a distance?

Seeing the father continually treat the mother like trash and her constant acceptance is enough to finger any child's brain.

Before the son does something that makes the father curse him.

This is the Law -"The Curse, causeless, shall Not Come".

"They that forsake the law praise the wicked: but such as keep the law contend with them" Proverbs 28:4
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by Dtruthspeaker: 4:36pm On Nov 22
Saintmary:
Well, the person of interest is your Cousin's Mom. She is the one who forced and still forces everyone else in your family to come in contact with the man. If she had separated from him (since she obviously refused to divorce him even at the cost of her well being) you guys could have related with him from a distance, making things easier for all involved. Very selfish, lazy and foolish woman.

Meen, you are wicked oh, No Compassion at all!
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by Saintmary(f): 6:25pm On Nov 22
Dtruthspeaker:


Meen, you are wicked oh, No Compassion at all!
She is the one who refused to have compassion on herself and her innocent kids.
She's the wicked one.
I'm only showing you guys who she is.
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by Saintmary(f): 6:27pm On Nov 22
OchoL:


Very lazy and foolish indeed. A woman who is old enough to have given birth to grown kids like this, yet hasn't saved or established anything for herself to leave an unfavourable situation with her dignity intact. Tueh!
Abi o

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Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:23pm On Nov 22
Saintmary:

She is the one who refused to have compassion on herself and her innocent kids.
She's the wicked one.
I'm only showing you guys who she is.

You are not in that house to know that she is "Very selfish, lazy and Foolish" to Rightly Ground your Accusation of her, So you Falsely Accuse her.

Secondly, you have even Wrongfully judged her without hearing her own side, therefore, you have Unfairly Judged. This is No Different from the police passing judgement on you because of your dreadlock to kill you for "Yahoo Yahoo"!

Thirdly, No Wicked Act should be done on the infirm or the fool!
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by frozen70(f): 7:48pm On Nov 22
OchoL:


My dad beat my mother and growing up I used to defend her and even fight him on her behalf. Until I grew up and became a wife myself and saw how Manipulative and nasty my mother truly is. My father was a victim of years of snake-like manipulation and emotional abuse and tried to fight back the only way he could. My mother deserved the beating tbh but she continued to stay so that she can leech off his wealth. She didn't want him to move on and find peace elsewhere. Neither did she want another woman to enjoy his wealth. She's a sociopath and all her children eventually grew up to hate her

She got what she bargained for
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by Saintmary(f): 11:58pm On Nov 22
Dtruthspeaker:


You are not in that house to know that she is "Very selfish, lazy and Foolish" to Rightly Ground your Accusation of her, So you Falsely Accuse her.

Secondly, you have even Wrongfully judged her without hearing her own side, therefore, you have Unfairly Judged. This is No Different from the police passing judgement on you because of your dreadlock to kill you for "Yahoo Yahoo"!

Thirdly, No Wicked Act should be done on the infirm or the fool!

Really!!!
Really!!!!
See how this person is spinning a clear case of severe stockholm syndrome.

I'm sure you have a lot of people ready to trade words with you on this forum.
Face them abeg. I need to rest.
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by We4all: 12:13pm On Nov 23
anastasius:

No wonder we have many dysfunctional humans around. Imagine growing up under this family.
Rubbish. Ur cousin dad or ur dad?
U people lie too much

And you talk too much. Don't you know the difference between "my cousin's dad" and "my dad"?
Re: If Pushed To The Wall By Your Parents, How Much Can You Tolerate? by Hathor5(f): 12:34pm On Nov 23
The problem is that his mother chooses to stay in an abusive marriage. Your cousin should not bother intervening. It won't help. But I can't blame him for losing his cool with his father. For his own sake and his mental health he should stay away from this destructive environment. It's hard but healthier in the long run.

One of the reasons why I don't believe in 'for better or worse' or 'you should honor your parents'. My loyalty and respect can't be mandated by any laws, worldly or religious, they are earned.

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