This is entirely my opinion , you are free to share yours..
For those of you who have forgotten her own narration of the story let me remind you..

She said the pastor came to her house pushed her on a chair and every thing was like a movie to her till he finished having sex with her, then gave her crest, and she was a virgin..

How can a lady loose her virginity like she is watching a movie ?
Well I think this is a case of seduction

I will say she was seduced and she wholeheartedly accepted to have sex with the pastor. Problem is that the pastor cannot come out boldly to say it was an agreed sex.

What is seduction ? There is a wide gap between rape and seduction.. In seduction you present sex as being attractive and enjoyable. And hope that the opposite sex falls for it.. Ladies are stronger than men when it comes to seduction. That is why Most men fall easily to seduction than ladies . in the Bible potiphers wife tried to seduce Joseph.
Men and women use this tool to get what they want from opposite sex. for ladies the can start by showing you their breast or pulling off completely.

For men they start by trying to kiss her , she says leave me alone. You force a kiss on her, next she start enjoying it, you go to her b**bs and next you try to go down to her honey pot. She stop's you, that is where must ladies regain consciousness.. ( note :she never regain consciousness ) They will pull there cloth and leave your house ..
Or they will pretend to be carried away and let you enter..
This is the point of decision making .. No man, I repeat no man will start sexual advance from a ladies waist.. It's start from kissing , romance , s**cking of b**bs before she either agrees or push you off completely...

So how can a girl be telling me she was watching a movie as she was being raped ?
Please tell us more..

Ill tell you more you deserve to be murdered.

Koboko444:
Ill tell you more you deserve to murdered.

Bros come back and correct your insult. If you want to insult me at least type correctly so that people will understand the insult.. Thank you

Koboko444:
Ill tell you more you deserve to murdered.

The fact that he came out to make it public years after her marriage bearing the shame and stigma and not seeking financial gains means she felt cheated, many girls that were deflowered willingly may feel sad after but not claim rape. So sir I think you misjudge this issue.

I thought, I was the only who was wandering how someone who is being rape will tell us that it was like a movie, in rape case's, there should be a resistance from the opposite sex, not to talk of a virgin, can you even make love to a virgin with her consent without her feeling awkward or pains, not to talk of forcing yourself on her, even the parents will know something was wrong, my people make una reason the matter nah

How are you so sure no man goes straight to the point.
FYI a rapist has no time beating around d bush