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Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by MoneyMindset(m): 11:45pm On Jun 30, 2020
Nigeria to UK

UK-based Nigerian medical doctor, Dr Funmilayo Harvey was accused of rape by another doctor Dr Bola Aseyan, has responded to the allegation.

In a post he just made on Twitter, the doctor stated that they met on Twitter in 2019 and despite never setting eyes on each other, the relationship was never stable.
Dr Funmilayo responds to rape allegation – We had sex twice
He further revealed that Bola, who is a practicing doctor in Nigeria, and not the UK, insisted on coming to the UK to visit, for reasons best known to her, as her Visa was initially not granted.

According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had.

He then mentioned that he specifically asked her if she was insinuating he sexually abused her and she replied saying NO.

In his rebuttal, Harvey wrote on how he accommodated Bola for 4 months in his apartment despite the duo not being in talking terms, and his only crime was him not allowing her into his heart.

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Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278065186935648257

I helped a male friend come for holiday in UK- a male doctor too. He stayed 2months in my house- I left my master bedroom for him too. He’s on this same twitter @princeowolabie

This was before she came into the picture.

Me being kind to anyone has nothing to do with gender.
https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278220859921047553

I’ve seen all the criticisms- in truth, deserve it.

I appreciate everyone who has attacked me- just as I may have.

But for now, there’s a war ahead.
No one knows how long a war lasts.

But when all this ends, I will be back here a stronger, better, wiser man.
God bless you all.
https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278222879197466624

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ibkonekt(m): 1:55am On Jul 01, 2020
nothing new under the sun...next

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DaddyRochie1642: 2:21am On Jul 01, 2020
Never Trust A BITCH!!!, ... It Never Ends Well.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by otipoju(m): 3:09am On Jul 01, 2020
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

As her calculation to take over the house no work, the next thing na to destroy the house.

Na thier way.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 4:18am On Jul 01, 2020
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...






The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Adasun(m): 4:25am On Jul 01, 2020
All dis pape matter self,na God hand e dey.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by tobechi20(m): 4:51am On Jul 01, 2020
if a girl has made up her mind to have sex with u, she gets drunk on purpose

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Tallesty1(m): 5:56am On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...






The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in a an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.
They were both drunk sir
J111333:
That's his word against the law, sir.
Which kain stupid law be that?

Two drunk people had sex and one is accused of rape? Is the law mad?

The guy too didn't consent to sex that night so she has no case.




Let them keep throwing rape accusations upandan and continue making it difficult for women in need of help to get help.

The doctor has been housing a guy for long but no issues, he housed a girl for 4 months.

Gave her food, access to internet etc and what he gets in the end is being labeled a rapist.

No wonder our men up there have been killing their women, especially those in the medical field.







I always tell men to be careful around anything that has tyre, engine or breasts.


It will definitely give you troubles.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 6:02am On Jul 01, 2020
sad





That they both had sex when they were both drunk can actually land him in hot water. A smart lawyer can turn the matter on its head.

As it stands, the lady has scores she wants to settle with the man and she is willing to go any length to tarnish his image.

I have advised my fellow men to draft an agreement before engaging in fuckery.


...*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX!*
Due to the current and numerous allegations made by women, which include rape and many other sexual misconduct towards women, there is now an agreement to be signed before any poking "*action*".
Please print a Copy which can be used in the Court of Law .

*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX*......
I, __________________________, the undersigned Female Partner (herein referred to as the 'Screwee'), am about to enjoy sexual intercourse with________________________ (hereafter referred to as the 'Screwer'), certify the following:-
1. THAT I am above the lawful age of consent.
2. THAT I am not under the influence of any narcotic. N(s).
3. THAT the afore mentioned Screwer did not use any force, threats, coercion or promises to influence me.
4. THAT I, the Screwee, am in no fear of him whatsoever.
5. THAT I do not expect or wish to marry him.
6. THAT I do not know if he is married or not and neither do I care.
7. THAT I am neither asleep nor drunk.
8. THAT I am entering this relationship with him; because I love SEX and want it as much as he does.
9. THAT in the event that I receive full satisfaction, which I expect, I declare in advance the capacity and willingness for further participation at regular intervals.
10. THAT I will not act as a witness against him nor will I file charges against him in the event that,
(a) I contract an STD
(b) I become pregnant
(c) I feel that he is violating any legislation - moral, legal or otherwise.
*SIGNED BEFORE JUMPING INTO BED ON THIS* ___ *DAY OF* _____ (MONTH) ________ (YEAR) AT ______ (AM/PM)
________________________________
Signature of Screwee :=-...
PS: Not taking anything for granted...erryting is now strictly bizniz...

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 6:07am On Jul 01, 2020
Tallesty1:
They were both drunk sir
That's his word against the law, sir.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 6:26am On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
That's his word against the law, sir.

He can also claim that she raped him while he was drunk, it goes both ways.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by phemmyfour: 6:49am On Jul 01, 2020
"They were both drunk"

Being drunk is not a consent sir

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by heykims(m): 6:55am On Jul 01, 2020
I knew that bitch was twisting story
The guy try sef, sex just twice and u lived together for 4 months.
Meanwhile, the second sex was after the so called alcohol induced first and they were conscious and alert shocked

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by FunkyAlhaji2015: 7:03am On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
That's his word against the law, sir.

Bro the lady blew every chance of suing by having sex with him the second time

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by legionISproteus: 7:22am On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...






The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.

THEY WERE BOTH DRUNK.

THEY, in this context, is the pronoun for two people. So she wouldn't get into trouble for having sex with a drunk guy, but the guy should get into trouble for having sex with a drunk girl, abi?

I'm happy you're not a judge

Update: You too Dobson43, I had to include you here angry

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by KarlWhyte(m): 7:34am On Jul 01, 2020
After God....fear women, some of them can go to any length to pull a man down especially if they dont get what they want....

we were not there when it happened, i wont rush into any conclusions.....this should serve as a lesson to we MEN.....when the
bible said FLEE FROM TEMPTATION....E GET WHY!!!

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Rgade: 7:40am On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...






The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.
They were both drunk oga. Why should he be the one in trouble and not the other way around?
After all, she also slept with a drunk person.
A woman shouldn't be held responsible for her actions when drunk,but a drunk man should.
Simps like you have been beaten to submission by these biased females with their warped logic to believe that the man is ALWAYS the villain.
Stay woke oga.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by oyatz(m): 7:43am On Jul 01, 2020
So how was the man supposed to know that she didn't give consent when both went out to socialize and got drunk?


For a lady who traveled all the way from Nigeria to UK to meet and stayed with a man, what does this suggest?



J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...






The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 7:55am On Jul 01, 2020
legionISproteus:


THEY WERE BOTH DRUNK.

THEY, in this context, is the pronoun for two people. So she wouldn't get into trouble for having sex with a drunk guy, but the guy should get into trouble for having sex with a drunk girl, abi?

I'm happy you're not a judge

Update: You too Dobson43, I had to include you here angry




My dear, learn to comprehend. I mentioned that a smart lawyer can turn the case on its head since it's debatable how drunk both parties were especially the guy. Guys can get a lady drunk and pretend they too were under intoxication too. That way, he could have his way. But his case can be blown to pieces by a competent criminal lawyer who knows his onions.




My guy, we both know a lady cannot travel from Lagos to Abuja to see a guy without sex already been on the table talk less of travelling from Nigeria to UK. And we also know she didn't come visiting to play Ludo with the guy nor did she spend 4months alone with a man who is neither her father nor her brother just for the sake of visiting. We also know that under usual cases of rape......the assaulted party runs and seeks redress immediately.



I am just pointing to the fact that the excuse that they both got drunk that the doctor gave is not a enough.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by itsme01: 8:18am On Jul 01, 2020
cool




He sponsored your visit Visa, lodged you in his house for 4 months , asked you out and you accepted yet call him a rapists

In 2020 rape now has new meaning


Even a Carpenter, farmer or Vulganiser would easily win this case

The key word in all rape case is "Consent" consent is defined as : agreement to do something

The guy's lawyer only needs to show the court how the lady's action was in "agreement" to the guy's action

*Witnesses that can testify to them being in a romantic relationship
*Chats and text showing they dated
*Pictures and Videos showing their romantic involvement


.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by itsme01: 8:25am On Jul 01, 2020
Dobson43:





My dear, learn to comprehend. Go back and re-read my message. I mentioned a smart lawyer can turn the case on its head since it's debatable how drunk both parties were especially the guy. Guys can get a lady drunk and pretend they too were under intoxication too. So his case can be blown to pieces by a competent criminal lawyer who knows his onions.




My guy, we both know a lady cannot travel from Lagos to Abuja to see a guy without sex already been on the table talk less of travelling from Nigeria to UK. And we also know she didn't come visiting to play Ludo with the guy nor did she spend 4months alone with a man who is neither her father nor her brother just for the sake of visiting. We also know that under usual cases of rape......the assaulted party runs and seeks redress immediately.



I am just pointing to the fact that the excuse that they both got drunk that the doctor get is not a enough.

What matters in a rape case is corroborative evidence and not your word vs my word

State of being drunk and intoxicated would actually mess up her case rather than help her case, especially if it was established she wasn't forcefully fed alcohol and not a minor



.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by luminouz(m): 8:29am On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...






The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.

Read well,they were both drunk,so no one had control over shiit

Abeg,talk another thing biko. This is not a case of rape,just bad blood between two people

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 8:33am On Jul 01, 2020
itsme01:


What matters in a rape case is corroborative evidence and not your word vs my word

State of being drunk and intoxicated would actually mess up her case rather that help her case, especially if it was established she wasn't forcefully fed alcohol and not a minor



.





Bro, it seems you really don't understand the finer points of a rape case. There is a matter of premeditated rape. A guy can get the lady drunk and claim that he was infact drunk as a skunk. He can repeatedly rock the lady under the cloak of drunkenness.


There are cases where the guy has laced a sex date drug with the ladies drink and has had his way. The lady the next day has no recollection of what happened. That too can happen. So I'd like you to understand the context I am coming from.


It is the finer points here like how many bottles did he take. How many did she take? Was he actually drunk or was he faking? A forensic investigator can recreate these circumstances and extrapolate concrete evidence here. Finer points here can get the man into a sticky situation.


But I also agree that you do have a point there too but things can swing the other way.


But what impedes the case here are other circumstances. A second act of sex plus still living with the guy for a period of 4months while the guy sheltered and took care of her. Moreover, the guy sponsored her visa trip from Nigeria and back and took her on a date and these things happened. Under these contexts, guy, the lady is aggrieved and wants a pound of flesh. These I pointed out in my previous submissions.




In all, this is simply a case of a relationship gone wrong. It's just an act no big deal. Go your way if things don't work out.








Updated. The reply given by the doctor was not available when I dropped this message and others above. For those in love with calling guys simps ride on.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by luminouz(m): 8:33am On Jul 01, 2020
Dobson43:





My dear, learn to comprehend. I mentioned that a smart lawyer can turn the case on its head since it's debatable how drunk both parties were especially the guy. Guys can get a lady drunk and pretend they too were under intoxication too. That way, he could have his way. But his case can be blown to pieces by a competent criminal lawyer who knows his onions.




My guy, we both know a lady cannot travel from Lagos to Abuja to see a guy without sex already been on the table talk less of travelling from Nigeria to UK. And we also know she didn't come visiting to play Ludo with the guy nor did she spend 4months alone with a man who is neither her father nor her brother just for the sake of visiting. We also know that under usual cases of rape......the assaulted party runs and seeks redress immediately.



I am just pointing to the fact that the excuse that they both got drunk that the doctor gave is not a enough.

Reason well. The excuse is good enough. Why should he be prosecuted for his actions when drunk.and the lady not questioned too? THEY WERE BOTH DRUNK. stop with the shalaye stuff. Other logical men have called you out.

You made good points in your 2nd paragraph

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by doggedfighter(f): 8:36am On Jul 01, 2020
All I see is a scorned woman

Will she succeed?

I doubt

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by itsme01: 8:37am On Jul 01, 2020
Dobson43:






Bro, it seems you really don't understand the finer points of a rape case. There is a matter of premeditated rape. A guy can get the lady drunk and claim that he was infact drunk as a skunk. He can repeatedly rock the lady under the cloak of drunkenness

The point to establish is simple "consent" ... The lady is an adult and no court of law would buy the baseless allegation that the guy force fed her alcohol against her wish, drove her from bar to his house also against her wish, and then gain consent from her... It would take a Professor of Law with SAN to push the lady's irresponsibility solely on the guy's shoulder since she isn't a minor or mentally retardedd


.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Denique(f): 8:40am On Jul 01, 2020
The Lawyers above are already settling the matter even before getting to court...no breaking of bottles on this thread sha undecided

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by MoneyMindset(m): 8:48am On Jul 01, 2020
ibkonekt:
nothing new under the sun...next
lol, aswr we are ready to take any news

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