Denique:
The headline is misleading

I was going to bash him until I read his post. Although, he tried to water down his writeup but he made a somewhat valid point...

Nonetheless, he's totally wrong to call a rape victim a gold digger...has any victim come out to seek for compensation of any kind other than ask their rapists to own up, apologise and turn a new leaf?

SM has made a lot of us more aware and brave, so don't blame a rape victim of a century ago for speaking out now. People heal differently!

To some, speaking out immediately after the act is like facing the monster all over again...You don't want that now, do you?

Our legal system is what needs an upgrade or maybe an overhaul sef

Most Americans speak out years later and still get justice...without any physical evidence!

All we seek is Justice!!

And if you don't want a call out after you blow like bomb, then behave

donaldking10:
tell them gold diggers like them Dakolos family.

ityP:



Well, for those who wait years before saying anything, how many accused have gone to jail? Pastor Fatoyinbo is NEVER gonna go to jail for rape. He and others would evade justice and the victim would be scarred for life. False accusations no dey harm anyone. Encourage victims to speak out early, it helps to put these beasts behind jail for good

ityP:



Technology won't help a rape case of 10 years ago though. Forensic science, DNA analysis and all only help those who take advantage of these early. I understand the keeping mute because of stigma. But any who keeps mute should keep at the back of her/his mind that speaking years after won't get them justice. The only thing it will get them is sympathy and few hours fame

donaldking10:
tell them gold diggers like them Dakolos family.

Shellsploit:
Well said!
Why would u rape when u can easily do soapy with xvi**********

Data is cheap sef.

Where is naijadrivacars sef

Sterope:
This one is clearly mad! Coming from a club owner in Nigeria, I won't be surprised if he is one of them.

EngineerOloye:
So he's mad because he has a contrary opinion, or because he runs a club?[Qquote author=Sterope post=90411670]This one is clearly mad! Coming from a club owner in Nigeria, I won't be surprised if he is one of them.

Gracealone:
Probably that's when people would listen more.

Anyone that believes he has a future should steer clear from rape.

salford1:

I thought I was the only one seeing otherwise.

Walahi. following some Nigerian news and posts can make one's IQ reduce by some digits

The amount of likes on the instagram posts really tells about the collective reasoning of Nigerians and the state of the Nation. Imagine an American or British celebrity posting such. Im career don done be dat

pansophist:


What if the person didn't become famous?

Gracealone:


The fact is that your success would always irritate your victim, when others begin to give you the respect they believe you don't deserve.
If a victim never hears anything about the rapist, he or she might not be agitated as such.

Gracealone:
Probably that's when people would listen more.

Anyone that believes he has a future should steer clear of rape.

yeyeosoronga:
When Busola Dakolo spoke out years ago as a young girl after her rape, nobody listened.
She grew and became a woman, and so did her alleged abuser grow and become a popular man.
She blew the whistle on him, and the world listened.
Many didn't care if the perpetrator was a nobody and the victim a minor. We always seem to overlook children who are sexually abused.
When they grow older, wiser with experience under their arm, and make their accusations they are believed more and can actually make people listen.
As the perpetrators are getting richer, their victims too are getting richer with more access to help/information

Denique:
The headline is misleading

I was going to bash him until I read his post. Although, he tried to water down his writeup but he made a somewhat valid point...

Nonetheless, he's totally wrong to call a rape victim a gold digger...has any victim come out to seek for compensation of any kind other than ask their rapists to own up, apologise and turn a new leaf?

SM has made a lot of us more aware and brave, so don't blame a rape victim of a century ago for speaking out now. People heal differently!

To some, speaking out immediately after the act is like facing the monster all over again...You don't want that now, do you?

Our legal system is what needs an upgrade or maybe an overhaul sef

Most Americans speak out years later and still get justice...without any physical evidence!

All we seek is Justice!!

And if you don't want a call out after you blow like bomb, then behave

tevinsolt:


I disagree with the first part of your statement.
dependent on how well the evidence is preserved .... the DNA of the culprit can be detected.

How long does DNA evidence last?
about 6.8 million years
That means that, under ideal conditions, DNA would last about 6.8 million years, after which all the bonds would be broken. But DNA would not be readable after about 1.5 million years, the researchers said. The oldest DNA recorded was found in Greenland ice, and estimated to be between 450,000 and 800,000 years old

Yes, but the earlier you speak up the better.

Gracealone:
Probably that's when people would listen more.

Anyone that believes he has a future should steer clear of rape.

Sterope:
This one is clearly mad! Coming from a club owner in Nigeria, I won't be surprised if he is one of them.

Shellsploit:
Well said!
Why would u rape when u can easily do soapy with xvi**********

Data is cheap sef.

Where is naijadrivacars sef

ModestGal:

He would be definitely or an apologist, see how Nairalanders are supporting him, this shows how much rapist we have in Nigeria and rapist apologists. And how the society support rape.
If a girl is raped, she has all the right to speak up whenever she feels comfortable, speaking up is not easy for victims depending on their age, friends, confidence, parents or the abuser, there's usually fear, confusion, depression on victims. We are in the process of teaching girls to be able to speak up by supporting them and giving them confidence.
Most of these people speaking up now is because they are grown and matured enough that they already feel so loved and they know they have nothing to loose, and they do not fear people that would judge them. For instance, Busola is already in a happy marriage, maybe well loved by her husband, she has discussed with her husband abs she trust him, she cant be compared with a young lady of 20years old from a judgy parents and who lives with people like Nairaland rape apologist monsters, and with friends who would laugh off her like the girls on this thread, with a jealous boyfriend who would call her a harlot immediately.

And when I see female rape apologist, I just smiled and understand na them'' useless females that are even the ones that would make jest of a raped friend, they are the one that have decided to be slaves for their boyfriend and when their friends refuses to be used like a slave, they mock her. This morning, I was still talking to a woman that turned herself to a slave, shes constantly being beaten and maltreated, and she was abusing another lady for not enduring maltreatment saying all men are thesame that whoever she marries would still beat her even more than her prior husband, and thus she's at fault for not enduring.
Sometimes I cry for Nairalanders, people of this mindset are the reasons we have high rape in the country and the reason Africa is backward in everything because their thinking is backward

Denique:
The headline is misleading

I was going to bash him until I read his post. Although, he tried to water down his writeup but he made a somewhat valid point...

Nonetheless, he's totally wrong to call a rape victim a gold digger...has any victim come out to seek for compensation of any kind other than ask their rapists to own up, apologise and turn a new leaf?

SM has made a lot of us more aware and brave, so don't blame a rape victim of a century ago for speaking out now. People heal differently!

To some, speaking out immediately after the act is like facing the monster all over again...You don't want that now, do you?

Our legal system is what needs an upgrade or maybe an overhaul sef

Most Americans speak out years later and still get justice...without any physical evidence!

All we seek is Justice!!

And if you don't want a call out after you blow like bomb, then behave

anonymous1759:

[s]Bloody buttlicker always interested of what the U.K. And US will say. You need to understand we run a different society rubbish[/s]

Sterope:
This one is clearly mad! Coming from a club owner in Nigeria, I won't be surprised if he is one of them.

DonBenny77:

And you are a fooler