ProfAmaben:
This is very wrong. So it's only men that should include their spouse's name on purchased property not the other way around? I thought men and women are equal?

Ariza:
These are your claims that can't be verified but you are very entitled to it.

However let's not act like it's a common act, in a society where majority of couples will rather have their children as their next of kins , your claims is one kind . But then there is always an exception.

ProfAmaben:


Of course it can be verified but of what use is it to me to lie on a forum I use as a past-time?

Ariza:
As a matter of fact most men in my community exhibit that guy's character. So you have your answer.


But how many men do otherwise? convince me.

ProfAmaben:
This is very wrong. So it's only men that should include their spouse's name on purchased property not the other way around? I thought men and women are equal?

Ariza:


Funny enough those two may last longer than any sensible person will think.


Naso them go rock themselves till death do them part.

bukatyne:


Well, it is a typical Nigerian marriage, always trying to outsmart themselves.

They lack the definition of sacrifice, oneness, unity and love.

They never see themselves as a team hence will tag with anything or anyone than themselves to fight the battles of life.

That's why any advise to reflect the ideals above is rebuffed as slavish, mumuish, anti-woman, anti-men, anti-human, anti-everything.

How can a wife sleep comfortably beside a husband she does not trust to 'have her back' because they do not have kids? Are they not a team?

How can a husband in good conscience and everything moral ask his wife to document him as the sole owner of a property she single handedly bought?

If he said joint ownership, I would say he was upholding the ideal of oneness if he was going to reciprocate.

See people saying she is right to buy the land in her name only because it is her money. The husband was the one that did the whole hustling o!

What is the difference between the above and a husband who thinks his wife did not have any impact in his life/do anything because she was an housewife?

Toor.

bukatyne:


Well, it is a typical Nigerian marriage, always trying to outsmart themselves.

They lack the definition of sacrifice, oneness, unity and love.

They never see themselves as a team hence will tag with anything or anyone than themselves to fight the battles of life.

That's why any advise to reflect the ideals above is rebuffed as slavish, mumuish, anti-woman, anti-men, anti-human, anti-everything.

How can a wife sleep comfortably beside a husband she does not trust to 'have her back' because they do not have kids? Are they not a team?

How can a husband in good conscience and everything moral ask his wife to document him as the sole owner of a property she single handedly bought?

If he said joint ownership, I would say he was upholding the ideal of oneness if he was going to reciprocate.

See people saying she is right to buy the land in her name only because it is her money. The husband was the one that did the whole hustling o!

What is the difference between the above and a husband who thinks his wife did not have any impact in his life/do anything because she was an housewife?

Toor.

Romangalactic:

Are you sure you really want this? Na women go suffer am pass na Even cococandy will not agree to this type of gender equality

bukatyne:


Well, it is a typical Nigerian marriage, always trying to outsmart themselves.

They lack the definition of sacrifice, oneness, unity and love.

They never see themselves as a team hence will tag with anything or anyone than themselves to fight the battles of life.

That's why any advise to reflect the ideals above is rebuffed as slavish, mumuish, anti-woman, anti-men, anti-human, anti-everything.

How can a wife sleep comfortably beside a husband she does not trust to 'have her back' because they do not have kids? Are they not a team?

How can a husband in good conscience and everything moral ask his wife to document him as the sole owner of a property she single handedly bought?

If he said joint ownership, I would say he was upholding the ideal of oneness if he was going to reciprocate.

See people saying she is right to buy the land in her name only because it is her money. The husband was the one that did the whole hustling o!

What is the difference between the above and a husband who thinks his wife did not have any impact in his life/do anything because she was an housewife?

Toor.

Saintmary:

Everyone should hold on to their properties, male and female.
Everyone should write wills of their own, stating the handing over of their properties to their kids once the children are born.
That is equality.

Righteousness89:
The Fact is so many couples have lost the Foundation on which The institution of Marriage was Formed!

The Foundation of Marriage of this Generation has been altered, so what we have is a kind of Try your luck Scheme in Homes..

I won't say if the Woman is right or the Husband is wrong but until we go back to the Guidelines that GOD ALMIGHTY gave us when He created the institution of Marriage, we will keep Hearing things as this.

Any Man and Woman Who desire a Real Good and Faithful Home need to Adhere to the Principle of Marriage as Given by God in
Eph 5:22-28.

22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

Outside this, there is Nothing else.

Mariangeles:


An ambassador for Christ.
I pray to have your kind of boldness to preach the gospel.

Mariangeles:


What is the point of marriage then?
Just for sex and children

laosy:
I was going through normal trends on Twitter today, but a story got my attention on postsubman timeline about the story of an husband who got angry when he found out that the wife didn't put her name in the documents of the land she bought. The woman gave her reason that she hasn't gotten any kid for him hence she's still liable to be kick out of his house when things turn sour and moreover the man didn't contribute a dime in the money of about #7.2million.

So I brought it here on nairaland to know what you guys think about this. Check screenshots below;