Never hit a woman. ✖️
Never hit anyone. ✔️

Teach your sons to respect women. ✖️
Teach your kids to respect everyone. ✔️

A gentleman doesn't raise his voice on a woman. ✖️
A reasonable human being doesn't raise his/her voice on people and expect them to keep quiet on the basis of gender. ✔️

A gentleman will apologize Even when he's not wrong. ✖️
Only a manipulative fellow will expect a man to apologize to her even when she's wrong because she has a vagina. ✔️

Stop behaving like a woman. ✖️
If you think the behavior is wrong maybe women should stop doing that too. ✔️

It's not her role to cook. ✔️
It's not his role to propose, to buy all the goods for your parents for introduction, to spend millions before he can marry you, spend millions for your relatives before he can call you wife,. spend millions to gift you the desired wedding.
It's not his role to provide, or pay the school fees of the kids or give you the baby girl lifestyle. ✔️
(Eliminate gender roles altogether not those that doesn't favours you).

So we are clear, equality not preferential treatments.

Cococandy and pocohantas will not like this, especially the part about proposing and spending money

Since the time of separated languages when building the tower of Babel, culture all over the world has lost its fair balance. Only that the cultures of the most advanced Nations seem to have more believers in them by virtue of their advancement... I'm talking about the western culture. And for the fact that Nigeria gained independence from one of those countries, they're enslaved to their culture too. China, India for example would not yield their cultures to western. I see no reason why one gender shd be favored beyond the other in culture's name. The best precepts to follow for a balance in gender is that given by God in the bible/Quaran.

NL will be fun today

And I agree with the OP.

Nothing gets to me than 'stop behaving like a woman', 'he nags like a woman', or the ultimate: 'why are you dragging with a woman'? etc.

I am appalled when I see women say these things on NL.

You are just insinuating that only women nag or behave weak.

I wouldn't see such as a plus.

You were making sense until you got to point 5 and made it a gender thing.


Please rephrase and keep it gender neutral. Everything no be war.

Oluromantic:
Since the time of separated languages when building the tower of Babel, culture all over the world has lost its fair balance. Only that the cultures of the most advanced Nations seem to have more believers in them by virtue of their advancement... I'm talking about the western culture. And for the fact that Nigeria gained independence from one of those countries, they're enslaved to their culture too. China, India for example would not yield their cultures to western. I see no reason why one gender shd be favored beyond the other in culture's name. The best precepts to follow for a balance in gender is that given by God in the bible/Quaran.

For Bible, I agree.

You guys are funny sha, we didn't set the rules, y'all did, we keep shouting equality, traditional men don't want equality becos sole financial provision feeds their ego in abundance, equality to them also mean domesticated equality too and God forbid they do that, go and do research on most homes, the wives are the coded breadwinner to lazy men, if y'all really want total equality, talk to yourselves first.

Make una just calm down and do to others as you wish done to you.

Meanwhile, I'm in search of a previously owned 1-1.5HP affordable inverter AC in pristine condition. Please mention me if you have one in Lagos. Budget is around 70k.Thank you! May the good Lord bless you

I just dey look you NaeChris
Btw, people spend millions on weddings in SouthWest Nigeria only if they want to show off. Haven't you heard of fathers-in law who bankroll weddings?
Did anyone force you to spend sef?

Gender equality cannot survive under Nigerian weather

Ariza:
You were making sense until you got to point 5 and made it a gender thing.


Please rephrase and keep it gender neutral. Everything no be war.

To me, he went offtrack at point 4

Mariangeles:


To me, he went offtrack at point 4

Lol... That's true.

One who isn't a sexist would advise everyone to have sensible amount of esteem and emotional intelligence to detect and deal with manipulations irrespective of who it's coming from.

Everything nah war for them on this forum

Una go carry Placard Las las

Ariza:
Lol... That's true.

One who isn't a sexist would advise everyone to have sensible amount of esteem and emotional intelligence to detect and deal with manipulations irrespective of who it's coming from.

Everything nah war for them on this forum

Ike gwuru nwannem!
Mgbe obula ogu na mgba

SweetCunt97:
Una go carry Placard Las las

Look at dem menstruating immediately they saw the part where it not his role to spend money.

Saintmary:
I just dey look you NaeChris
Btw, people spend millions on weddings in SouthWest Nigeria only if they want to show off. Haven't you heard of fathers-in law who bankroll weddings?
Did anyone force you to spend sef?

Lol. I go chuk hand for your eyes o

Mariangeles:


Ike gwuru nwannem!
Mgbe obula ogu na mgba

Lol.... I don't understand ooooo.

saucecode:
Cococandy and pocohantas will not like this, especially the part about proposing and spending money

Make them hit head for wall na.

Oluromantic:
Since the time of separated languages when building the tower of Babel, culture all over the world has lost its fair balance. Only that the cultures of the most advanced Nations seem to have more believers in them by virtue of their advancement... I'm talking about the western culture. And for the fact that Nigeria gained independence from one of those countries, they're enslaved to their culture too. China, India for example would not yield their cultures to western. I see no reason why one gender shd be favored beyond the other in culture's name. The best precepts to follow for a balance in gender is that given by God in the bible/Quaran.

what is wrong there? that we have withdrawn preferential treatment?

Ariza:
You were making sense until you got to point 5 and made it a gender thing.


Please rephrase and keep it gender neutral. Everything no be war.

The article is not gender sensitive, it is gender corrective.

Fountainofyouth:
You guys are funny sha, we didn't set the rules, y'all did, we keep shouting equality, traditional men don't want equality becos sole financial provision feeds their ego in abundance, equality to them also men's domesticated equality too and God forbid they do that, go and do research on most homes, the wives are the coded breadwinner to lazy men, if y'all really want total equality, talk to yourselves first.

If a woman plays her role as help meet they call it bread winning. O di egwu

Mariangeles:


To me, he went offtrack at point 4

Lol. Bitter pill abi? that's how una sef dey go off track for decades.

Mariangeles:


To me, he went offtrack at point 4

We sef we say make we go off track small. No Monopoly in going off track.

NaeChris:
The article is not gender sensitive, it is gender corrective.

Your intention then isn't your projection.

saucecode:
Look at dem menstruating immediately they saw the part where it not his role to spend money.

saucecode:
Look at dem menstruating immediately they saw the part where it not his role to spend money.

Leave them

Ariza:
Your intention then isn't your projection.

as expected, a core feminist won't like it. The aim is to put things right, remove preferential treatment.

NaeChris:
If a woman plays her role as help meet they call it bread winning. O di egwu

It's like you don't understand English, do you know the difference between help meet and sole provider aka bread winner?

NaeChris:
as expected, a core feminist won't like it. The aim is to put things right, remove preferential treatment.

Lol see as your blood dey boil for your mind you don make sense oooo . Funny guy.


Well for your information, I don't do this Feminists versus Alpha shiit you all do here, perhaps you may want to choose another Target to market ain't buying this shiit.

Ariza:
Lol see as your blood dey boil for your mind you don make sense oooo . Funny guy.


Well for your information, I don't do this Feminists versus Alpha shiit you all do here, perhaps you may want to choose another Target to market ain't buying this shiit.

Lol. Go joor

Ariza:
Lol see as your blood dey boil for your mind you don make sense oooo . Funny guy.


Well for your information, I don't do this Feminists versus Alpha shiit you all do here, perhaps you may want to choose another Target to market ain't buying this shiit.

Lol. Go joor

Fountainofyouth:



It's like you don't understand English, do you know the difference between help meet and sole provider aka bread winner?

You see una problem, I said if they play their roles... ok sit-down for house na. Even at that sef them go take insult spoil their good side. How many women are absolute bread winners? less than 2% undisputedly.

NaeChris:
Lol. Go joor ;DLol. Go joor

Lol.
Your intention has always been visible in your projection. You denied it but every response from you so far states otherwise.

Have fun Brother.