Therevenger:
I decided not to speak the word of God to people in public places in group or alone but on social media because i found out that men ,boys and bitches have accounts on porn websites or watch porn but when you try to clarify them about sex topics dey would be forming saints,saying lies just to suit their public image.

loneprof:


Christians talk about sex even on the pulpit. The issue here is how you want them to talk about it. Everyone knows sexuality is part of our everyday lives, nobody can deny it and definitely not God who created it. But if you want them to discuss sexual topics in a way that it promotes sin or is considered perverse, then no good Christian should do that.

As for the people having accounts on porn websites, I'm sure they won't try to justify it. There are people still struggling with addictions they had in the past and God sees their efforts, it doesn't mean you have any right to judge them. When you mind your business in life, your problems will be few.

MrBrownJay1:


btw as for a stranger expecting to speak about these private matters with people.....lol, stop wasting people's time and yours. nobody should talk nor listen to you about "their" sexuality!

MrBrownJay1:
no respectable person should speak in public places about sexuality in Africa... any smart person knows that the people wouldnt be open/honest about their sexuality unless they were in a private setting.

speaking about sexuality in a public space is a waste of time.

Therevenger:
what brings the tag respectable into group of adults discussing about sexual topics.
You are sounding like the type that would be doing soapy at home but when you go out you tell people that masturbation is sin.
Don't get me wrong over masturbation is not good but soapy is not wrong when you do it moderately.

Therevenger:

I am not interested in speaking with anyone or listening to anyone speak on sexual topics neither am i saying that people should talk to me about their sexuality.
I only said Christian adults are too ashamed to speak on sexual topics in public places .

Therevenger:

Like i am not a Christian too.
There is nothing wrong in watching porn but it depends on the reasons why you watch it.
Who am i to condemn ?
From the way you are sounding it shows that you will feel ashamed to discuss such topic in public.

MrBrownJay1:


...thats because THEY SHOULDNT!!!!

loneprof:


Contrary to your assertions, there is everything wrong with porn. It is the source of so many sexual addictions and violence being witnessed today, there is also the spiritual side of it which I chose not to go into. So many things like sodomy and beastility are encountered on porn sites which could act as a demonic pathway.

I discuss sexual topics as long as it is healthy. If I need to discuss sexual health, sex in marriage and sex as a biological act, definitely yes. And please don't jump into conclusions about others, only know thyself.

MrBrownJay1:


...thats because THEY SHOULDNT!!!!

loneprof:
Don't mind the guy. Instead of respecting people's beliefs and decisions, he's referring to them as hypocrites just because they choose not to be perverted. Why not look for others who are interested in the topic and leave the Christians alone... Is it by force?

Therevenger:

You know dey watch adult blue film.I hear.

loneprof:


This is what you've been saying all along. People don't want to discuss porn, you guilt-trip them... Bros... Bye bye

MrBrownJay1:


i also find something really perverted in someone wanting to force total strangers to open up about their sexuality with him or whoever AND in a public place (of all places).

as for why the dude is focused on p0rn, as if it has any relevance to the topic, is a mistery...

Therevenger:
don't die in silence.
a Christian guy once told me that he was gay and i asked him if he also has sex with girls and he said yes then i told him he was bisexual and i discouraged him from having sexual feelings for men. The guy never new that a word like bisexual existed before then .He is now more into girls but I still want him to settle down soon so that he can be more responsible.

MrBrownJay1:


what a pile of ARRANT RUBBISH!!!!!
1st of all, Nigerian gays/lesbians wont be opening about their sexuality to strangers in public because homosexuality is a crime in Nigeria, and most of these people are looked down upon in Africa.

2nd, if you think that you can "discourage" gays/lesbians in being themselves, then no wonder people dont want to talk with you about their sexuality. you dont want to help people, you want to brainwash them into living the life that YOU see fit for them.

3rd, if you actually think that forcing a gay/lesbian person to be with women/men is the way to go, then you are more clueless than i thought. imagine wanting Bobrisky to be with a woman, get married and have kids. imagine the type of bleeped up family they will have?!!?!?!?
years down the line when that confused person will now have wasted their lives (and most importantly the life of their partner) pretending to be who they were not, just because deluded people like yourself want ed them to be with the opposite sex, at any cost. what a waste!

4th, i dont know why Bobrisky is the way he is, and i certainly wont try to pretend that i do or have answers for him, but as much as i do not understand his lifestyle, i know for a fact that this man should NEVER marry/date a woman... whether i like it or not. the minute you understand that, is the day you will have gained a few brain cells.

the minute anyone wants strangers to speak about their sexuality in public, so that you can judge them and try to brainwash them, thats when you have royally failed on this issue. you need to LISTEN to people, UNDERSTAND people and certainly not JUDGE them.

Therevenger:
The Christian guy was a former colleague and we often talked and joked about it.
Sexuality discussion is just generally about sex orientation,sex identity etc.you state what you like others state what they like. It is a choice to switch to which ever you chose to.

MrBrownJay1:


bro if it was really a choice for your friend to be bisexual then you wouldnt have tried to brainwash him into being solely with women... while you know deep down the dude like to be fukced in the nyansh. you didnt try to understand this dude, you solely wanted to judge him and thus brainwash him into being with women only.... now that dude will be dreaming of being fukced by men while mounting his woman (or have her jam fingers up his nyansh)

also, if a man is bisexual, then let him be fully honest with who he is, and let his partners also fully know who he is, so he wont waste anybody's time out there. some women may be down with iot and others wouldnt. its all about BEING YOURSELF!

Therevenger:
I did not brainwash him. I yarn the bro my mind say me like woman and i day straight forward, him say him be gay and he like woman too.
We discuss ,my reasons for the matter gap im own,e gat humble. Na im choice to feel the pain of a dick in his ass or put it in a pussy.

MrBrownJay1:


if this is your approach, and how you want to discuss sexuality issues with people then bro, i suggest you change your hobby... because its obvious you aint good at it.

remember, this has nothing to do with "you" OR with what "you" think, OR with what "you" do. stop being stuck on "yourself" and talk about "you" and "your" mind... because you are not listening to people, you are just trying to brainwash them into doing what "you" desire.... and now your friend is going to waste a good woman's life until some years down the line, she will now discover that the dude is gay and she wasted countless years dating a down-low dude.

this world is not fukced up because there are gays/lesbians in this world, it is fukced up when you have gays/lesbians that pretend to be straight...and are wasting good people 's life, because they want to please narrow minded people like you. then after 10 years of nonsense lifewasting, that deluded person will now come out of the closet and say they are into same sex...
***spit on floor***