The tongue is one of the smallest organs of the human body but can set the whole body on fire. Don’t think all the people around you today are your friends. You cannot easily differentiate your friends from your enemy when things are going well with you and that is why you have to control what you say to them .

Have you ever had a conversation and later come to regret it after? Well that is what this article is all about. No matter how close you are to someone, there are some deep secrets they should not know about you including your best friends.


A poet once said “look into the mirror, your best friend is the person you see in that mirror” so, some secrets are to be kept between you and you alone. But, if you have a hard time controlling your tongue, silence is one of the best ways to avoid this trap.

Please, no matter the level of intimacy, never share these secrets about your personal life.

1. GOALS FOR THE FUTURE

This sits top of the list because a man on a mission without a vision will surely end up in destruction. No matter your enthusiasm about your future plans and goals, never share them with anyone. Science says when you do this, you deceive your brain into thinking you have already achieved the goal hence you will feel reluctant to pursue it. When you keep your goals to yourself, you will always feel motivated to pursue it. Work hard in silence and let success make the noise.

2. YOUR INCOME

Your financial life is something that should be kept private to you alone. Your money or source of income is not something to be discussed about when in the public. Only some set of people like your spouse or next of kin should be allowed to have your financial details. You will save yourself from a lot of harm by keeping your financial life private.

3. PAST RESENTMENT

Experience they say is the best teacher but I tell you that it is the worst teacher because it gives you the test before presenting the lesson. No matter the situation, never make the mistake of sharing some of your negative experiences with people. Some people have many awkward experiences like rape, molestation, violence and many hurtful past no one will want to talk about. Sharing this with other s will always bring back those ugly memories and those you trust can even use it against you later.

4. YOUR SEX LIFE EXPERIENCE

It is an act of betrayal to share this level of privacy between you and your partner with someone else. No matter how you run out of what to say during conversation, never share this experience with any of anybody, it is between you and your partner alone.

5. GOOD DEEDS

You might have heard the famous “pride goes before a fall” and this is quite true. When you feel you have done enough well, you should not be the one to praise yourself before others. The reward of what your do in secret will always come back to you in secret. Don’t always make the mistake of bragging about yourself towards others. It brings you nothing. You will wonder why many philanthropist will always value their anonymity compared to public praise but the truth is there simply understand this principle.

6. FAMILY PROBLEMS

Don’t trust people with your little family secrets because it can come back to hurt you later. Family issues can be shared with one’s family member or spouse but anything aside this is not safe.

Ok

Let me ask, if I tell these things will I be jazzed?

Gjrich:
The tongue is one of the smallest organs of the human body but can set the whole body on fire. Don’t think all the people around you today are your friends. You cannot easily differentiate your friends from your enemy when things are going well with you and that is why you have to control what you say to them .

Have you ever had a conversation and later come to regret it after? Well that is what this article is all about. No matter how close you are to someone, there are some deep secrets they should not know about you including your best friends.


A poet once said “look into the mirror, your best friend is the person you see in that mirror” so, some secrets are to be kept between you and you alone. But, if you have a hard time controlling your tongue, silence is one of the best ways to avoid this trap.

Please, no matter the level of intimacy, never share these secrets about your personal life.

1. GOALS FOR THE FUTURE

This sits top of the list because a man on a mission without a vision will surely end up in destruction. No matter your enthusiasm about your future plans and goals, never share them with anyone. Science says when you do this, you deceive your brain into thinking you have already achieved the goal hence you will feel reluctant to pursue it. When you keep your goals to yourself, you will always feel motivated to pursue it. Work hard in silence and let success make the noise.

2. YOUR INCOME

Your financial life is something that should be kept private to you alone. Your money or source of income is not something to be discussed about when in the public. Only some set of people like your spouse or next of kin should be allowed to have your financial details. You will save yourself from a lot of harm by keeping your financial life private.

3. PAST RESENTMENT

Experience they say is the best teacher but I tell you that it is the worst teacher because it gives you the test before presenting the lesson. No matter the situation, never make the mistake of sharing some of your negative experiences with people. Some people have many awkward experiences like rape, molestation, violence and many hurtful past no one will want to talk about. Sharing this with other s will always bring back those ugly memories and those you trust can even use it against you later.

4. YOUR SEX LIFE EXPERIENCE

It is an act of betrayal to share this level of privacy between you and your partner with someone else. No matter how you run out of what to say during conversation, never share this experience with any of anybody, it is between you and your partner alone.

5. GOOD DEEDS

You might have heard the famous “pride goes before a fall” and this is quite true. When you feel you have done enough well, you should not be the one to praise yourself before others. The reward of what your do in secret will always come back to you in secret. Don’t always make the mistake of bragging about yourself towards others. It brings you nothing. You will wonder why many philanthropist will always value their anonymity compared to public praise but the truth is there simply understand this principle.

6. FAMILY PROBLEMS

Don’t trust people with your little family secrets because it can come back to hurt you later. Family issues can be shared with one’s family member or spouse but anything aside this is not safe.

Good one.

this ur list is a no no.

there are somethings in dz ur list that some persons (in one's life)must be aware of

I agree to your list ten outta hundred...