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Palmerbarry:
Thanks sir, I appreciate. I can only let go if they'll send back a transparent message back to my contacts. I only took a loan of 5k and not 5 million. After the bad SMS, when I told them what really happened, they got irritated and offered to pay the bills instantly but I declined. That day happened to be an exam day, I couldn't concentrate.

I'm sorry to hear about your bad experience. I work at Some Loan and it is their policy to send those messages to a loan defaulter's contact.
They employ a lot of people and just like banks or other institutions that gives a target, there are bound to be employees who tend to be very harsh on customers in a bid to get them pay up their loan.
It's unlikely you'll get your demand for messages to be sent to your contacts to notify them that your debt has been paid, I'll advise you let it go, no matter how painful it is.

Once again, I'm sorry about your experience and for others who have experienced this.

Ok

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MiVida:
I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.

But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.

My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do!

I am the female version of you. Although I'm still in the relationship, I have little or no freedom. I cannot interact with a male friend or acquaintance without answering to a barrage of questions. Cuz of this, i only have one female friend who is close to him also, no male friends. I cant go out on my own volition, and if I do, he'll think i've slept with every male in town. What im getting at is, if there's no trust from the get go, then it's not worth it. love still keeps me here, and i feel if i let him go, i'll be alone as I dont have anyone i can call a close friend.

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phranklyn92:
As a lover of African dishes I find this really interesting! I mean for the life of me, how can one cook soup without fire?

I wish I know what can help with your scalp problem. It is well dear.

midnighter:
Does she preach at an appropriate moment or just randomly like those people who start in public transport?

I hope she finished the questions the tutor set for you people before she started the preaching Smh

It was before we had the class, everywhere was noisy and she requested for decorum to share the word with us

Tonyosas101:
Tell your friend to imagine how she would feel if a Muslim is doing exactly what she's doing in class

She should stop it. instead, concentrate on one person and do your preaching
Not disturbing the entire classroom with your belief

You should know the classroom was noisy, as typical for students waiting for lecturers to come, and all she did was ask for decorum and stated she wanted to share the gospel with the class.

tstx:
You lost me when you said this.
The worst kind of Christians are those who spew lies.

What is the lie in that statement, pls enlighten me

[quote author= post=85514840]@OP,
Please kindly screenshot the image we posted below and show it to your darling friend.....(who is now our friend also!)

Our Lord and personal Saviour has talked about this thousand of years ago.
It is not new...

And please kindly let her know that all of us @[/color] love her dearly also and she should keep up the good fight of faith.

[color=#990000]God gat her .........always! [/quote]Thank you, I will

I have a friend, who from her lifestyle, I know is born again. She was initially like me, religious but not saved from sin. Then she gave her life to Chris and since then, it seems she made new enemies. Our course mates don't like her because she is the odd one and mocks her anytime she preaches in class.

I, however, have been challenged by the new life she has. I've watched her grow spiritually and i want that Christ-like life for myself also.
Hence, i summoned courage to ask her how she remained in the faith as I have been besotted with rising and falling. Then she told me something.

If you really want to be saved and remain save you have to pray, not because of the fear of hell but pray because you desire a change in your life. You foremost have to crave a righteous life and pray, with faith,for forgiveness with this intention.
I got the message alright but I did not act on it.

My prayer for repentance have always been centered on the fear of hell, which i am 100 per center sure exist.

But God in his infinite mercy showed me a dream reiterating everything grace said. He showed me how to pray this prayer, which i found myself in this dream praying. I noticed that after the prayer, I felt the joy,peace and calmness i have always craved for and heard other people testify of.

emeijeh:
Your wife went too far for calling her people (after your very first slap)
What happened to the "no third party interference" sermon on your wedding day?

But Op, are you sure you have not hit or beaten her before that day?

Just keep apologizing.
She has to come back.

The first slap i received from my significant other has led to series of blows and kicks. It's usually not intentional but subsequently, more will come.

The guy look surprised

GeneralPula:
In Pasumaz voice;

Moh leh lah yah Pupo, Kosi ount’o buru;
T’obinrin bah loh ko meji...

O di ashewo
T'obinrin ba lo ko meji, illegal ni

Hmm. Hope it's not one of those tales that will have you hooked, then leave you hanging

Ghostfaze:
Kindly approve to the homepage, mods.


Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

U start counting the pregnancy from the first day of her last period, which is two weeks before your intimacy. So, 2 weeks plus 4 weeks is equal to six weeks. You don't start counting from the day you had sex with her

I hate, no, detest jungle Justice, as long as you don't kill anyone though

Ok. so I'll visit a museum to see someone's underwear. Ngwanu, no problem.
I wonder when we'll stop supporting mediocrity.

Goan make your own money o. This is the audio everything era.

It could be malassezia. Use nizoral shampoo and the tube cream. I had a skin condition like that and it worked for me

What about mixture na? partly crossriverian, partly from Abia

Switching to Airtel ASAP

I lost a friend cuz of this, he was just 23 years old. They still took his phone after stabbing him in his stomach. The heart of some men is desperately wicked.

kikiki. Call me mood spoiler.
P.S. la click la bend

her shoulders tho

Eggs for sale.

Hmm. No selfies in eternity o, heaven or hell