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Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Please my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time.

I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.

She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.

This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .

Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.

What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.

obembet:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, please who can help us interpret this picture.

ezenwaez:
All NPower volunteers under the batch C non graduate category have now been posted, all Npower Batch C under the non graduate scheme can now check details of their posting and training organisation via the Npower NASIMS portal.
Npower non graduate category should not expect payment until they have commenced training at their individual places of primary assignments, strict compliance to instructions must be judiciously followed on the Npower NASIMS dashboard, failure to adhere to instructions will lead to payment hold, should payment commence.
All non graduates under the Npower Batch C programme are to commence training as scheduled on the Npower NASIMS portal.
Documentation might be sighted at places of primary assignments.

ezenwaez:
The October failed payment issues are being worked on regardless of the reason for the delay, all October payment that are outstanding will be paid, as this is being worked on, as soon as the payment issue is rectified all Npower volunteers having October payment issues will be paid, the rectification of the October failed payment will be completed soon, as we speak the November stipend is ongoing and Npower Batch C Volunteers have started receiving alert.
The October payment issue is being worked on as we speak, all Npower Batch C Volunteers are advised to continue to exercise patience as they keep checking their banking app and bank account for credit alerts.

JoyousFurnitire:
Hi, how can I reach you?

sandysan:
What's says the time now! 2:58am.. I couldn't find sleep, not even a little.. am depressed and lonely.. � don't no what is wrong with me, I need company, I want to love again� I want to feel loved, cared for and worth talking to again.. but d memory of 5yrs ago wouldn't free me... I need someone that won't judge me, someone to talk me out ND make. Me feel wanted.. be it male or female, I am dying slowly but have nobody to talk to.. always wetting my pillow with things... Am I d only one in this case...
Pls if u within my area, Abule egba, ishaga, Agege or ikeja.. I need company, I ask loosing it ���� aniukamaka20@gmail.com

vanderwaal404:
@Ezenwaez
Pls, my payroll dashboard is still blank for October stipend.
I applied with SSCE (N-Tech),
Any hope?

EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

earleswood:
1.Try stochastical distribution of Corona Virus distribution e.g. by transport routes, markets, etc.
2. The impact of social media on purchasing decisions.
Shikenan!

WoundedLamb:
This is why girls leave NL and never come back. Guys create posts (even useless ones sometimes) and get responses. But when a girl does, she's either insulted or sexualised. Sometimes, I'm happy the white man has more power than the black man cause the way blacks discriminate without even knowing it is alarming.

Say no sexism, especially misogyny.

blazepascal:
that's so nice

Toktee:
What can you do?
You guys are criminal and fraudsters.

Toktee:
You need proper education.

Toktee:
Did u read anywhere the op said he refused to pay?

smokeyupu:
You sound like you work with a fintech company..... Nice advice sha but its not that easy to brush off the damage to your reputation!! They will get what's coming to them...

Toktee:
Had it been the route you guys take in trying to retrieve your money is right, no one will complain, you give grace period and it has come and gone, what about legal route?
D you know that by defaming ones character is braking a law?
Have you ever seen banks employing such unethical and illegal means to compare customers to pay their debt?


SOKO(NUPE LANGUAGE).



#AVOIDSOKOLOAN.

OmodavidoX:
One of the rude girl working with Soko Loan spotted

Toktee:
Let what go?

Look some of this loan companies are worst than Buhari government, how can you damage someone reputation just because he failed to pay his loan on time?

we tolerate too much in this country.


It is not the same lending 9credit, quick cash, palm pay etc are doing?


I took loan from 9credit though it was just 2500 while in school, because of lectures here and there and exams at the corner, I forgot to pay back..
Two days to due date I was reminded of the pay day,I still forgot... two weeks later I received an SMS from 9 credit thanking me for paying my loan.

what they did was, they silently deducted their money from my account, I just smile.


What about quick cash, same thing they will even give you time and tell you if you are not ready to pay they can extend payday for you.




The best loan companies in Nigeria are QUICK CASH, 9CREDIT, AND PALM PAY ETC...

CHARLOE:
Oh really! U tarnish someone's reputation over 5k n all u can say is 'let it go', are u kidding me? Don't worry, a big lawsuit will be slammed against u guys soon!

GreatPro33:
The next protest will be against Soko Loan. Inform your bosses to be calming down o