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Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by cassidy1996(m): 3:59pm On Dec 06, 2019
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Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by airminem(f): 3:59pm On Dec 06, 2019
Wow.

Marc 18 + Travis 23 + Ethan 22 + Christopher 22, Total ages put together = 85. That woman is suppose to be 85years.
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by okpalaAnambra: 4:00pm On Dec 06, 2019
One of the causes of preeclampsia, fathering different children from different men
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Nobody: 4:00pm On Dec 06, 2019
Interesting
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by bobokeshington: 4:00pm On Dec 06, 2019
Ha.... Nkan nbe
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by classicfrank4u(m): 4:00pm On Dec 06, 2019
Ladyhippolyta88:
And who says women cannot have more than one men.

I like this kind of relationship ooo grin

All this audio feminists, abg go siddon one side undecided

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Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Olodo24: 4:00pm On Dec 06, 2019
ScottDM1:
This kind relationship no dey Naija oo
yes because Nigerians go abuse her

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Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by TheRedpillguy: 4:01pm On Dec 06, 2019
Simping X.
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by shockingist: 4:01pm On Dec 06, 2019
Wonders shall never end in America

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Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by grandstar(m): 4:01pm On Dec 06, 2019
The world is getting madder and madder every single day (Read 2 Timothy 3:1-5,13)

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Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 06, 2019
The √69 is 8some ryt?? Another mad 1
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by mandate12: 4:02pm On Dec 06, 2019
Are you not ashamed of yourself? Rubbish
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Timileyin1234(m): 4:02pm On Dec 06, 2019
See how old 20years guys look
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by paulandy2(m): 4:02pm On Dec 06, 2019
ScottDM1:
A pregnant 20-year-old lady who is in a polyamorous relationship with four men is planning to raise her baby with all her lovers.

Tory Ojeda who lives with her partners in Jacksonville, Florida, began the polyamorous relationship three years ago.

The mum-to-be who is seven- months pregnant met one of her partners Marc, 18, in high school and then got into a relationship with Travis, 23, two months later.

Back in July, she announced her engagement to Travis before falling in love with their long-term mutual friend Ethan, 22, and Christopher, 22, who is the baby's father.

Speaking to Barcroft TV, she said: “Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was.



“Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us.

“But as far as I guess, socially goes, we're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad.

“We’re all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.”

During the interview, she also said her boyfriends are “welcome” to pursue other people if they wish to.

“Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner.



“Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it’s kind of difficult.

“I’d like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.”



On how they get intimate, she said they all have their own bedrooms but her partners “swap in and out” of her bed, each night, making sure each of them gets an “equal turn” in spending the night with her.

On the issue of jealousy, Ethan said: “There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other.”

She added: “There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person.”

Reflecting on his own experiences in his current relationship, he said: “Seeing [Tory] with Ethan was a lot easier because I was friends with him.

“Her and Chris was a bit dicier at first, there was a lot more jealousy and I'll openly admit that. The same goes for Marc because I'd never interacted with them.”

When asked how he feels about sharing the responsibilities of being a father, Christopher said: “It’s definitely a little interesting.

“I grew up with the idea of you know, one dad, one mum. But there is a lot of support between all of us dads and it’s something we can tag team.



“We always joke about the idea of getting stack in an endless loop of go ask your dad.”

On what her family and friends think about her relationship, Tory said: “Most of my friends know all my partners and they love us and think that we’re cute and such. My family is kind of quiet about their disapproval.

“Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing.

“A lot of people have grown up in monogamy culture of, you don't really love someone if you have eyes for somebody else.”

Christopher added: “My family is slowly coming around to the idea. The pregnancy has helped with that. But at the very beginning, I know my mother and father were hesitant about it.

“Her main concern was that she didn't like the idea of me having a partner who was not fulfilled with me alone.”

However, Ethan’s family are “very active” in their support, along with Tory’s older brother, Alistair.

Alistair said: “I will admit that since I'm her older brother, that I just have that tendency I suppose to be protective.

“I'm more so concerned that she's happy, that she is in a relationship where they both love each other mutually or in this case more people love each other mutually.

“I don’t see anything wrong with Tory’s relationship.”



On the reaction, she gets from people about the bizarre relationship, she said: “We definitely get weird looks”

“I’ve had people just say rude comments when we've just been hanging out at a fast food place.

“I've been called a hoe more than once.

“Maybe in our future, we might see it become a common thing where people don't bat an eye on it anymore at all. One can hope.”



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hmmm??
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Nobody: 4:04pm On Dec 06, 2019
Yuck
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by TheRedpillguy: 4:04pm On Dec 06, 2019
Ladyhippolyta88:
And who says women cannot have more than one men.

I like this kind of relationship ooo grin
Nothing is wrong with this relationship. I will participate in this relationship if the woman is not fat, young and sexy. Ofcus will never take group pictures, I will just come through at night, smash and dash. Plus am not raising no kids.
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Splendor27: 4:04pm On Dec 06, 2019
Everyday with it own madness,,,,people never want to be okay no more.
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:06pm On Dec 06, 2019
classicfrank4u:


[s] All this audio feminists, abg go siddon one side :[/s] -\
sharrap
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by TheRedpillguy: 4:07pm On Dec 06, 2019
These are the type of men that feminists want. Soft, walk like they don't have bones. And can sit around and take group pictures like this. And yeah do everything the woman says like a slave. All I see is 5bitchis, the kid might not even belong to any of them.

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Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by erai30(m): 4:10pm On Dec 06, 2019
Some of our girls operate more than this babe, but the fact is that she did it openly unlike Amaka with 5 boyfriends, 2 sugar daddies shocked.

Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by 5thAngel(f): 4:16pm On Dec 06, 2019
GeneralPula:
In Pasumaz voice;

Moh leh lah yah Pupo, Kosi ount’o buru;
T’obinrin bah loh ko meji... lipsrsealed
O di ashewo
T'obinrin ba lo ko meji, illegal ni

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Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Rekhina(f): 4:23pm On Dec 06, 2019
light099:
Damn!
nikkypearl, pocohantas, Rekhina, obembet, come check out these four balless, pssy niggars. My alpa male grandfather who had 30 wives, 15 concubines and 7.5 sidechicks would be furiously gnashing his teeth in anger in his grave at this shiit.

That first picture looks so ridiculous, they should be deployed to Sambisa forest to fight like men, so that they can start thinking the way men think.
White men have sissy chromosomes in their genes, that is why their women can die for rude black men.
nna oge adirozi
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by airminem(f): 4:39pm On Dec 06, 2019
Ethan and Christopher will turn out to be gay partners.

cheesy

Travis and Marc will also become gay. Then, she Tory will have to leave..

sad..... cos she will be worn out.

FVCK. What was she thinking... grin
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by healthserve(m): 4:50pm On Dec 06, 2019
light099:
Damn!
nikkypearl, pocohantas, Rekhina, obembet, come check out these four balless, pssy niggars. My alpa male grandfather who had 30 wives, 15 concubines and 7.5 sidechicks would be furiously gnashing his teeth in anger in his grave at this shiit.

That first picture looks so ridiculous, they should be deployed to Sambisa forest to fight like men, so that they can start thinking the way men think.
White men have sissy chromosomes in their genes, that is why their women can die for rude black men.


Na wa o Nnwane, this your comment
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by healthserve(m): 4:51pm On Dec 06, 2019
TheRedpillguy:
These are the type of men that feminists want. Soft, walk like they don't have bones. And can sit around and take group pictures like this. And yeah do everything the woman says like a slave. All I see is 5bitchis, the kid might not even belong to any of them.



Guy you no go kill person
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by healthserve(m): 4:52pm On Dec 06, 2019
One look at the pic, one would realise the woman is the strongest persona in the picture and the men in the picture all look weak


Where's the fun in getting married to men like these?
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by healthserve(m): 4:55pm On Dec 06, 2019
Ladyhippolyta88:
And who says women cannot have more than one men.

I like this kind of relationship ooo grin


Baby lawyer you're beginning to have bad ideas o
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Hathor5(f): 4:57pm On Dec 06, 2019
CapitalHYC:
Oyinbo and their Weird lifestyles gan self .... Las Las.. Each and everyone of them would still cheat on her engaging in online relationship or One night stands grin grin

Oyinbo find her weird too just like you do but unlike you they think a man married to more than one woman is weird too.

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Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:57pm On Dec 06, 2019
healthserve:



Baby lawyer you're beginning to have bad ideas o
grin grin
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by healthserve(m): 4:58pm On Dec 06, 2019
Ladyhippolyta88:
grin grin


I'm ermm. Stop thinking such thoughts. You're going to get married... cheesy grin
Re: Pregnant 20 Year Old In A Polyamorous Relationship: To Raise Baby With 4 Dads by Nobody: 6:08pm On Dec 06, 2019
OkwuNaUka:
If men can be polygamous, women can be polygamous too. It's her choice andthe men are happy living with her. Who I am to judge them?



Meanwhile, to those saying this kind of relationship is not existing in Nigeria, let me remind you that our girls keep more than TEN BOYFRIENDS at once. It's the same.
you can't compare men and women in this situation. It's biologically impracticable for a woman to be polyamorous. A man can marry 20 wives and Impregnate all of them once, they will all have their own babies and there won't be any sort of confusion. In this situation, the woman will need at least 6 years to bear children for all her pússy husbands and DNA test will be required to share the children among their fathers.
Men and women are not/ can never be the same. All these equality rubbish is just nonsense

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