flyingpig:
You no go like go back where you from If you report her to her father now she may play the female blackmail on you and twist the story, na so you go collect shame before landing the village.

Avoid that girl and any close moment with her and return to the village before 6pm today

Thank you

Unnerve:
How old is she?

youngsahito:
just warn about what she is trying to do and let her knows that you guyz are family and not lovers.
you also need to stop all this sexual talk with her

levi5:

Just 18
And from what i know she is still a V

mariahAngel:

Confront her!
Let her know you know the nasty thing she did to you and how ashamed and embarrassed you are of her.
Warn her to never try that again.
The shameless girl ought to be ashamed of her molesting self.
What kind of nasty "play" have you both been playing that gave her that audacity?
You, don't you know where to draw the line?

TonyeBarcanista:
Simp

BLUELemon:
on the contrary he is not. He is morally balanced

[s]A man that can control his dick has solved half of all his problems in life[/s]

TonyeBarcanista:
Simp

TonyeBarcanista:
Simp

TonyeBarcanista:
A morally balanced man won't be discussing sex and other disgusting topic with his 18 year old cousin.


A simp is not one that is promiscuous... It is one that can't act as a man and call bullshit to order. He isn't man enough to handle his issues (with an 18 year old kid for that matter), hence, his resort to NL to cry like a sissy.

mariahAngel:


Some men are their own problem.
What do you mean by calling him a simp?
The reason why most men hate to talk about their sexual abuse experience is because people like you shame them into silence.

What would you have done in such a situation?

..and I thought you were sensible

NerdyRudeGyal:
She must be very mad. You should feel violated because she did violate you. Rather than pretending like you were sleeping, you should've opened your eyes and made a fuss or better yet, given her one mega slap. It would've been difficult for her to deny it had you reacted right then. You should definitely still speak to her right away: let her know what she did constitutes sexual harassment and that she should NEVER try that shit with you again. If she had any sense, she would apologize to you. Moreover, put a stop to the sexual talks the next time she initiates them (she really shouldn't have the audacity to, after this incident) and keep your relationship at a nephew to cousin level only.

levi5:


The matured stuff we discuss is just abt relationships and feelings i dont talk to her abt dip sex stuff

bukatyne:


One brain resetting slap would have done the job since she is not listening to him.

levi5:
Hi all,
I had to create a new acct for this post.
I need serious advice for an issue am battling with.
So i visited my uncle before the lockdown and i have been staying with him and his family ever since.
I recently discovered some wierd behaviors from my cousin(female).
Wierd behaviors being that she likes hanging around with me. Always want me to carry her on my back, snap pictures, talk to her about matured stuff.
I just thought it was normal and part of being close to her as my sis.
Then fast forward to last Saturday i was down with malaria so after taking my meds i was resting on a couch in the living room this was around 11pm in the night so most of the other family members had already retired to thier rooms.
She(my cousin) then came to the living room she was making a call.
Then after her call she flashed the light from her phone on my face to look at only God knows what.
Normally i would have opened my eyes so she would know am awake so she can turn off the light but i was tired.
At first i thought ok probably she wants to feel my body temp to know if am getting better then i got the shock of my life when she touched my private area.
I then flinched. She immediately turned off the flash from her phone and moved to her room (all this while i pretended like i was sleeping so she wouldn't feel embarrassed and all)
I woke up the next morning with the mindset that i was going to confront her abt it but another thought came to my mind to let it go so it wont spoil the relationship and closeness we have as siblings.
Now i dont feel comfortable around her
Anytime i see her i just get angry and irritated.
Please what do i do so that all this can go away (all the feeling of hate and irritation i feel towards her)

TonyeBarcanista:

Your job as elder brother is to give her "brotherly/fatherly" advice and guide her! Not discuss sex or deep relationship with her.

Anyway, be forming woke

levi5:


I get your point bro.
Trust me b4 this happened i have longed stopped talking to her abt those matured stuff.