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I flirted with her and she responded positively. We talked ALOT about sex and about all the things we would do to each other when we have sex.

From your epistle, you just want to have carnal knowledge with her, stop confusing infatuation with love.
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Clearly, because she has a boyfriend (or told you she did) is the rationale behind the upsurge of love lust you suddenly developed to be the 'trophy winner' and outsmart her boyfriend.
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You are not man enough, no, you are not. If you want a sexual relationship so badly, go and think of getting married not trivializing dating for sexual gratification.

Guy cast your net and hunt there are many fish in the ocean, and stop this one point mentality, the more choice you have the less you care about a particular girl...

I have read this story before....same plot,same character. But where?

Palema007:
I have read this story before....same plot,same character. But where?

On nairaland

Dude u made a wrong decision by not knacking shit out of her ass before letting loose of her.

Miniso:
Dude u made a wrong decision by not knacking shit out of her ass before letting loose of her.

The same way someone will knack the stuffings out of your gf/wife

OP, both you and that girl are not serious. Someone in a relationship is still trying to make you side dick while pvssy has confused your senses, you can't see the trap in front of you.

Chii59:
The same way someone will knack the stuffings out of your gf/wife

OP, both you and that girl are not serious. Someone in a relationship is still trying to make you side dick while pvssy has confused your senses, you can't see the trap in front of you.

No problem, dude dat can't make my future wife cum, shudn't go close to her.

Miniso:
No problem, dude dat can't make my future wife cum, shudn't go close to her.

I hope you're aware that there will always someone who can fvckk better? So the day she meets someone like that, nature will take its course.

Chii59:
I hope you're aware that there will always someone who can fvckk better? So the day she meets someone like that, nature will take its course.

How can i get married to a lady and she will still be sleeping with other men while she is married, that means she shouldn't be married, she belongs to different men then, the point i was trying to make was that if any dude goes close to my future wife while she is single for now should get her happy dats all.

You made the right decision man for your sanity peace of mind. You will not regret it. Focus your mind on important things and forget about her.

I still feel like I made the wrong decision.

No need for long story OP, just dey ur dey make she dey her dey.

Gulbard:
Hi guys. There is this girl in my I've been talking to. She's intelligent and I find her very attractive. When we began talking I asked her if she had a boyfriend and she admitted she did. We kept talking and grew fonder of each other but the covid-19 break put some distance between us. Still, we continued communicatating through texts and calls. During the break she revealed that she was physically attracted to me and I told her I felt the same way. I flirted with her and she responded positively. We talked ALOT about sex and about all the things we would do to each other when we have sex.

At a point a began to feel that she lied to me about having a boyfriend because the kind of conversations we had didn't feel like one a girl in a relationship would have with another guy.

So i did some digging on social media and I discovered she actually had a boyfriend. So last week I asked her why she never talks about her boyfriend. I then asked her if her boyfriend attended the same college we both did and she said that he previously did but he graduated last year. This was a lie because from my digging her boyfriend wasn't even in his penultimate year yet. It surprised me that she'd lie about this.

I told her that I couldn't continue being friends with her because it put me in a position I didn't want to be in. I told her that I had feelings for her and I couldn't keep talking to her when I knew she had a boyfriend. She tried to convince me to remain friends, telling me that she cared about me and valued our friendship and that everything she had early told me about her attraction to me was real. I still maintained my position and told her that we should stop talking.

I haven't contacted her since and she hasn't contacted me. But I still have feelings for her and I really enjoy talking to her. I still feel like I made the wrong decision.

You shouldn't date her because

- She's a liar. When someone lies to you, it's because they don't respect you enough to be honest and they think you're to stupid to know the difference. She isn't honest and probably she would tend to be unfaithful to you just as she is to her current boyfriend
- You know in your gut that it's bad luck dating her. Our minds have the ability of sensing danger. If your gut tells you something is wrong, never ignore that.

OP is experiencing the 'in love' moment. Your eyes will soon clear.

The way she's talking to you about sexual stuff, that's how she will with other guys when you are dating.
The lady sef stil dey hoe phase. No sense in that phase.
Hoe phase is btw 17 till like 23...By then, they must have do at least an abortion.
Ehn ehn, na then they get tendency to get small sense

People who expect faithfulness from a fellow sinner in an illegitimate relationship use to baffle me.

Powerfly:
People who expect faithfulness from a fellow sinner in an illegitimate relationship use to baffle me.

a friend once posted on his WhatsApp status.
"only married people have the right to complain of cheating in their relationship and not two confused fornicators that needs Christ